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Dude it is not... you honestly sound a bit delusional. I've was in the field a long time and I've spent a ton of time around guys associated with pick up who were "top of their game" and after with tons of guys who don't even participate in this corny cope of a pastime and don't even know what pick up is but are normal socially acclimated guys who pull on their own without talking to guys on the internet... many guys I met including millionaires, business owners , etc. Been out with all of them. Most guys including coaches are lucky to pull at most a couple times a month and the lifestyle ends up catching up to them. No normie is going to have 4-5 beautiful women interested in sleeping in him per month. You should consider yourself S-tier if you always have a beautiful friend with benefits or ex girlfriend to call up, nut no you aint pulling 5 baddies a month as a normie. You have drank the PUA coolaid. And even if you do pull someone beautiful you're going to maximize your time with that person since this is how life funnels you into putting effort and energy into what you have invested in. The only guys who are basically fucking beautiful women like they have them on tap are guys who are exceptionally rich, handsom eand extroverted. You know that porn guy Jason Luv? A guy like that. Even if you're a normie and a cool guy and got a decent lifestyle you wont come close to 10% of what he gets. I would say a realistic and achievable goal for a normie with a decent career is to always have access to a beuatiful woman for sex and not have to face a dryspell.

99.9% of guys in PUA including coaches don't have close to even 100 with women of a nice appearance (they are on the right end of the bellcurve if they even have 25-50+). That is extrovert local celebrity numbers, athletes, guys who own a nightclub, etc. Not PUA and def not the majority of scamming coaches.

I think you basically answered your own question. I think people will believe all sorts of stuff but not stop to question why they do it. The word evil is tricky to use. On one hand I very much want to call some people evil, simultaneously I know taking this perspective ultimately limits my perspective. I am comfortable using this word to make judgments of peoples' actions. I believe people choose what they choose to do with the info and perspective they have at the time and that life is a learning process. Many people come from different backgrounds, many different situations you or I wouldn't fully understand since we may come from places entirely different. I think recognizing this isn't a flaw but just reality. That idea that there are evil humans and them some ideal or perfect world the way reality should be isn't ultimately helpful for living life. There are people who will make decisions we can see as cruel and are authentic for us to label as things we do not wish to have in our lives and community and world. Does that change reality? Maybe not always, we can't control everything and everyone. We can make peace with reality though and accept it for what it is, we can drop judgements, we can BE what we believe is right and true, live it.

Trump really lacks foresight. He really is the quintessential lessons for Americans that a complete moron can be president if he can gather enough sheep bellow him with fear. You would think if he was rational he would have stayed out of the spotlight but it’s quite clear he doesn’t work like that. He ran on releasing the Epstein files then does a 180… it’s insane what he’s been able to get away with.

He's so useless

He’s just so wildly delusional and out of touch. He said those weird human robots he builds will somehow end poverty (paraphrasing). Bro it’s the economic systems and rules you live by which is the problem 😭 He really thinks he’s this like chosen tech messiah that will lead humanity into some tech utopia… I have no doubt his ketamine trips are fueling these beliefs.

Yes, I posted about this before too. It's corrupt to the core. Never seen such blatant scams marketed to young people, especially younger guys ages 14-30.

Herpes is the most benign thing ever. You got to chill. Like 90% of people don't even know they have it and like 90% of all people have some kind of herpes. No one tests for it for a reason. It's basically harmless.

Look up Starting Strength and Barbell Logic. Almost every person training only needs to do 3x5-5x5 for most compound lifts except the deadlift which is 1x5. Upper body handles volume a bit better than lower body. Every session you need to be adding weight. You aren’t proving anything if the quantity of kilos/pounds doesn’t go up by some percentage each workout until you plateau and need to change your programming to claw for additional advanced gains (most people are training improperly and novice/intermediate and do not need complex programming)

I just didn’t understand why you were saying we all wanted the same stuff. I’m not saying what you want is bad or wrong or bellow what I want. For you that could be your truth and I wasn’t judging it. Just my experience with what you listed and I hope it didn’t sound like I was judging I just didn’t understand why you were saying we weren’t being honest with our replies (how I maybe misunderstood your post) because I was being honest and wrote this thread from my heart after some deep insights the other day.

Why do you have to force yourself? First what are you forcing or pushing against? Second why do you believe you need to do it in the first place? What is the belief behind having to do something? Wu Wei has another component as well that spreads out to the macro, embracing naturalism and authenticity in all things. Wu Wei would invite you to examine why you do something you claim you don’t wish to create love for. Ok that’s fine no judgement against that, but why? Take this insight of Wu Wei and spread it out even further. Just sharing my thoughts on this. I’m really starting to try and question this idea that effort is needed. I have evidence from my direct experience that not a drop of effort is ever needed in life when aligned with Wu Wei

Wu Wei is greatly misunderstood by a lot of people I believe. I think it’s because it hasn’t been as spread around like Buddhism has so people don’t have as many notions about it. It’s actually an incredibly deep and life changing concept when you really take in the full teaching. I do consider myself a Taoist student and it is distinctively different than a lot of notions shared here on meditation and “seeking.” The language is hard to translate as well in the Tao Te Ching and I think a lot of the teaching isn’t as accessible because of this. It reads like a bunch of strange poems if you aren’t attuned to the subtleties and some initial insights of it. When I really was able to digest this teaching though it blew my mind and showed me a whole other perspective I hadn’t really thought possible, but there it was, clear as day. I really think perhaps the key take away when it comes to Taoism and Wu Wei is that “you are the creator of your emotions, not the victim of them.” You have to do a genuine deep enquiry on emotion and where they come from. You think you have to force, but what is force but the perception of having something to push against? It’s an emotion no? You find meditating challenging and need to force it? Ok but what are you pushing against? Is it not a feeling experience within your awareness? Wu Wei is a realization of being the creator of that and living aligned with stillness. This does not mean just sitting on your ass all day and doing nothing. Wu Wei is vibrant freedom and natural, filled with energy and excitement for the unknown. And what may unfold. A path back home towards creation. If you are an artist or creative person I especially recommend looking into Wu Wei. What if you didn’t have to try or do anything but just choose to cease doing everything that keeps you where you are (stuck)?

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On what grounds or standard would you measure one’s “enlightenment?” By what rule do you judge? What do you define as “enlightenment?” in my opinion, unspoken truth can never fit into such a narrow perspective on spirituality. Enlightenment, I don’t even use this word anymore.

I’m not saying I’m against having those things flow in and out of my life, but yes you are mad projecting. The most miserable I ever felt was when I had almost half a million USD in cash. I’ve had plenty of beautiful girlfriends and I was able to see that there was something much greater than this. I spoke my truth clearly in the OP. The thing I value now the most and am building my life on is authenticity and aligning with truth, true value. This includes making room for financies and other life stuff, why would those things not be a part of it or have a place in one’s life? living truthfully doesn’t mean radical state changes with dmt or going to be a monk.

He legit came off creepy and was a massive liar. I watched his stuff once or twice. He was chopped....

You’re on the carousel of despair going around and round. It’s all stemming from basing your self worth in this. Step back. Understand. There are more efficient ways to live.

I think black pill is ultimately a loser’s belief system. If you want to argue in favor of your limitations, you will be allowed to keep them. No one is saying to bury your head in the ground like an ostrich. If you are perceived as unattractive by many people then you already probably know this. You’re not denying anything by not wanting to hold onto a belief system that crystallizes your shortcomings.

We are all perceived differently, definitely not the same. If this bothers you, and you doubt yourself over this, then you are doubting your innate spiritual value. What to do about it? You got to flow like water and make sure whatever you’re doing ultimately is serving to create balance rather than compensation. It’s a slippery slope too: because it’s easy to mix up what you’re doing: living for outside approval vs inner fulfillment and discover. If you believe you are perceived as physically unattractive by most people, just that belief itself can be harmful. Which people? All? And so what? Are you unable to do things you want because of it? What are those things? Why do you want to do them. Ultimately compensation for the outside leads to breaking integrity with yourself. That isn’t to say you shouldn’t take steps to evolve. You can absolutely work on your physical body and style. Radiating joy looks nice on anyone and everyone.

I would do a really deep dive on your belief system about your self worth and what you have to offer. There is an ocean within to tap into. I know it's not very practical advice, but to be honest with you these things are far more simpler than they appear at first. Largely because we create a lot of nuance around wanting to control things, or believing we are lacking in some way. Just get really deeply rooted in your innate value and true self. You will have plenty of energy from this to derive joy out of just sharing your life and your lessons, and with consistency you will grow an audience which you can then get to know and then identify ways in which you can serve them, the marketing will fall into place through consistency and building a relationship with your audience.Honest self reflection is key. You can do this along side your current hustle. I'm doing the same.

I think my super power is loving and appreciating myself even though sometimes I believe I don't deserve to

I find this analogy helpful. Money is sort of a vehicle / medium for energy exchange. Money itself isn’t absolute in the sense that the amount of money is infinite on earth. It is but a drop of the many expressions of abundant energy in the world.

Dang this is interesting because I am NOT having the same experience on THC / weed as some of you. I think it offers an easily accessible invitation for me in seeing through beliefs and taking in different perspectives sometimes. At times I’ll overlook some mundane things in life but weed has a way of bringing out some details. Simultaneously it makes my thoughts incoherent and I haven’t found it so beneficial for raising consciousness. Edibles are no joke though. They can definitely endure mystical experiences but I’ve not found them to be beneficial in terms of integrating this back into my life purpose or overall alignment with love.

It’s unfortunate for sure. A lot of young guys are going to never really break out socially. There isn’t really any going back either. The way I see it the western world will decay greatly and a lot of people will face some really challenging financial conditions. At the same time I don’t want to argue in the favor of hardship. A lot of guys can still do well and still create a beautiful life. They need to get off those dumb sports betting apps, twitch tv and actually focus on building valuable skills and developing themselves.

It's going to be more than 1/4. Easily half for people born in the 90s onward. Not necessarily a bad thing.