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I noticed sections have been changed and there are different mods. Was there another controversy with members? I noticed there are less online.

This is my plan if things fall through here. Bounce over to Colombia, learn Spanish. Costs $600 a month at the best university for 20 hours of classroom time a week. Takes six months to get to B1 level of Spanish which is enough to be on your own and have little problems with daily life stuff and meeting women. Can live there really well for like $1000-2000 a month. If you basically don’t drink and splurge on luxuries, can easily live there for $1000 a month. I am hoping to change to a remote job that pays me $4000 a month and I think I could live like a king there on that salary. Definitely able to make it work on a budget. Heard women are super cool and fun and the locals are some of the most amazing people in South America. I’m definitely excited and I’m glad I have this plan in case my relationship ends and I need a new place to start over. Not going back to the USA which has been destroyed by gender/culture wars.

Many Americans have the core belief that “problems in life can / should be solved with violence” and in addition it creates the belief “the world is dangerous and we must respond back with more violence” so from these two beliefs you have people who use violence to steal or shoot people to solve disputes and then you have the second type of person who is paranoid and is trigger happy, for example cops and the paranoid types who owns a ton of guns. This seeps into political institutions who vote for people who enact the second belief into laws and behavior of the society. Both sides lead to a cycle of escalation and because people believe they need the agency and freedom to hold weapons in order to keep themselves safe these two beliefs spin around each other and allow for zero change in behavior or belief. I don’t fully buy the poverty excuse. Plenty of poor countries that don’t act as violent. Illegal drugs and corrupt money plays a role but again, comes down to beliefs that violence is fine to settle disputes in that area because they are outside the law and the only force to oversee that is the will of whoever can be the most violent. This is a dangerous and pervasive mindset that has nothing to check it because the only thing that could is more force, which has already been preemptively prepared for. The main arbiter of force allows for more weapons because they can’t protect the citizens from the ideas they all already share that create the problem in the first place. what I wrote is a little convoluted and could have been expressed better but I hope you get what I’m trying to say. The beliefs create a sort of carousel that goes around and round and violent beliefs can be particularly hard to stop because it’s usually the de facto / final force for changing beliefs.

Is it possible to group certain sub forums and hide them? I’d like to hide the spirituality, psychedelics and mental health sections.

It’s interesting you list Argentina because I’ve heard Colombian women are more open to dating foreigners. I’ve heard that Argentina is less friendly and more like a European country while Colombia is more lively. Apparently you get less gringo / foreigner points in Argentina compared to Colombia. How was Argentina for dating ? I think there is a way to get a long term visa which allows for longer than six months. I’d like 1 year minimum.

There are a few things I have to say about this channel the “DeFuNd ThA pOlICe?” people don’t recognize how difficult and dangerous policing is in the USA which leads me to my next few points I believe the core of the issue is a culture of cowboys and guns. You don’t see this same level of violence in Europe when it comes to domestic and street crimes. There is a prevalent code of violence in the USA where an abundance of weapons and a culture that preaches about violence and using it to solve problems is part of the culture. You see this in South America as well but the only difference is their police force is super corrupt and inefficient so it’s even worse there. Some people say poverty is part of it but there are places way more poor than the USA like in Asia that don’t result to violence like they do in the USA. I think because this land was colonized, the remnants of the “frontier” mindset and rugged environment are still present so people just out of belief and habit solve everything with violence. The core belief in the USA is “we will solve this however we can and we will use violence cause it’s dangerous out here.” In Europe it’s “this is a problem but we are sensible people and violence isn’t necessary.”

So you’re saying we may see this happen one day soon?

How’s the logistics for staying in Brazil long term? (1-2 years) Portuguese is a pretty challenging language, we’re you able to learn some ? My experience is in Eastern Europe and I agree with you but since this war started I’m switching over to South America. Spanish is easy so I’m gonna just go over there and look for Colombian and Argentina ladies (Brazil sounds interesting as well) till I can return back to Eastern Europe when it’s more stable, ideally Russia.

The thing is what is considered ethical or right is always changing. There was a time if a guy was gay he was thrown into jail and now gays can marry. Happened literally over the span of my dad’s lifetime. It isn’t so much that capitalism is unethical, it’s just what society values has changed so it ends up getting framed this way because most people think their ethics are the truth of life and the standard all of reality is striving for or to live up to. And then when it doesn’t they are disappointed and get bitter and go on social media or cable news to scream.

The back seat mod in me wants to see it locked so other threads in the section get some more action

I can’t stop laughing ?

I disagree. They do in Miami have tons of beautiful women at techno / house music parties. Underground gets less influencer types because Techno nights are usually free to get into and they don’t have strict face control and tables to rent, but also it’s not always about that cause when you got skills and connections you just wind up taking a hot one there as a date beforehand you met somewhere connected through the music scene. big dj like Solomun or those After Life events get tons of bombshells but those are well know things. That’s the USA, in Europe women are hot everywhere the more east you go and clubs are packed with bombshells playing good techno.

I made a mistake and take back my assumptions. I’m not familiar with Brazilian politics and institutions and made a wrong assumption that the institution there is weak because of the economic situation there. I hope they are able to clean up corruption there so things get better for everyone.

It’s like this in most US and UK nightlife. Sausage party. You gotta start going east in Europe the more east you go the more man to woman ratio reverses.

Maybe for whatever you’re listening to. What he’s talking about is not that and the djs I listen to don’t really ever do that. It’s obnoxious

I hope weaker democracies dealing with polarization can weather these storms. USA is polarized but has been working on its institutions for a couple hundred years now and it’s quite sturdy. Not sure about Brazil.

I for one like the dinosaur features here and I especially have zero interest in this forum being anything like whatever that banned mod has made.

Yes, I love it I love techno I love women I love women that are into techno There isn’t much more to say here Tons of great sex to be had with some really beautiful women if you’re into this music and lifestyle I love underground, techno parties/clubs and I also love big more well known events like Awakenings, ADE, Tomorrowland, After Life, etc. if I enjoy nightlife it’s techno/house, rave with a good dj, or a fancy bar not those table heavy monstrosities that charge some silly cover and are filled with normies who like the pop/rap music playing with the corny MC yelling in the mic

Just explore your sexuality and enjoy it.

I’m kinda in the same boat. I would say more so it has to do with my schedule. I could definitely go to bed earlier. I’ll go to bed between 4-6am. Probably a good idea to get this to around 1am and wake up around 9-10am. If you are staying up insanely late this is a good place to start. If you have any emotions that are keeping you from falling asleep, look into why you are creating them in the first place. If this isn’t something to do with your beliefs or emotions then diet and cutting out caffeine would be the third thing I’d look into. Also, is there any environmental factors? I’ll wake up when my girlfriend is getting up for work and because it’s sunny already sometimes I’ll be wide awake at that point having only gotten like 5 hours cause she wakes up early.

The Golden Thread / Inner Child work - This is a very powerful self inquiry that raises your inner child and actually gets you to realize you need to take responsibility for your emotions because you are creating ALL of them yourself. Wim Hof breathing (lots of variations, Leo has a video on Holotropic breathework) - This is a technique that can bring about body awareness and calm your body down when there is stress YOU are creating. Some also have their consciousness raise while on this technique.

I believe the majority of people here are not ready for serious spiritual enquiring and this community does not have the safety nets in place for catching people who go off the deep end into the ocean but don’t yet know how to swim. It’s like giving the most powerful fireworks to a child. Most people would benefit much more focusing on the other sections on this forum than the spirituals section and psychedelics section. There are some great discussions here how to really improve all areas of your life and this is mostly a positive environment. Yes, I have done a number very powerful Ayahuasca ceremonies. Anyone here who is actually wise will tell you doing these substances does not automatically earn you stripes or make you “more developed” than others who have put the work in elsewhere. I would listen to yourself and use it as an indicator that what Leo is prescribing is not working and not the right fit for you. There is so much more to spirituality than What’s here and the language used here. I think you are wise for pacing yourself and focusing on what’s right for you.

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Nice, this would be an accessible option to learn the golden thread process he teaches!

There have been many channels and teachers over the years that have brought about change in my life. Leo’s channel was some of the first self help content I took seriously. This was back in 2017. I listened to Sahdguru, lots of stuff like this, took psychedelics and had life changing deep experiences, spoke to trans personal therapist, coaches, lots of self practices, etc. I would say as of 2022, this channel and what I’ve learned working with the guy who makes these videos has hands down been probably some of the biggest growth I’ve ever experienced. Things deeply clicked for me. I would say the main things I’ve come to really truly realize are 1) I am the creator of my emotions, not the victim of them 2) life in general is just unfair sometimes and it doesn’t need any explanation for why 3) inner child is probably the best label I’ve found for the part of the mind that is fragmented. Some call it the ego, shadow, etc. inner child approach is the most compassionate and loving way to go about it from my own experience. 4) acknowledging responsibility is life changing 5) I was criticizing, judging and comparing and it was prevalent throughout my entire world view. I’ve since acknowledged that’s coming from me and that I’m doing that. No one is forcing me to. I’ve acknowledged I create the victim mindset and that these beliefs do not help me in any way. 6) everyone has true value no matter what and no matter if they are rich or poor or what society thinks, so it’s best to align with true value instead of society values.