Lyubov

I’ve realized something about myself. I saw a video you posted, I don’t remember which, but you said you realized you generally just don’t enjoy socializing much and I related a lot to this. I’ve realized that generally speaking I’ve just never been all that interested in socializing or building relationships. I of course enjoy this some and I do enjoy talking some to people, I like taking photos of people and reading about their stories. But in reality I would say for some guys we aren’t necessarily very social or even have this extroverted aspect sort of designed into our personalities to be highly relatable to a lot of people. Getting laid is heavily connected to socializing and while I do think your foundation and background is important, being a jacked handsome guy of average social intelligence will open up a ton of doors, being well groomed guy who enjoys socializing is powerful as well. I think it’s similar to online content. There is general and relatable content that everyone can vibe with and niche stuff like Actualized that not many people are interested in. I’ve always been a more niche guy and I’m embracing that. I’ve realized it’s possible to even get your social needs met as a niche person so I’m not really trying to change myself so much.

In my opinion it is hard mode unless you have a seriously strong foundation. This is just my opinion. I’m not saying a guy can’t make it there. I’m white, six feet and come from money, and even I saw dating in the USA as not so favorable for me and my background. Everyone’s path is different. So I know there are guys who had no game and built themselves up there and did well. The thing is I look at things a little differently. I’m a path of least resistance kind of guy. I found it much easier going to both South America and Eastern Europe, learning language, and finding my path this way. To me the USA was an uphill battle and from my perspective the numbers simply weren’t in my favor to be with a woman who fit what I wanted in a partner and also exhibited beauty/femininity how I wanted. so I tend to offer an alternative perspective here when guys are getting ready to grind because I’ve found a path that isn’t about grinding and conquering, but realigning and embracing radical changes so all you want just comes to you. I now have a beautiful wife, money and an easy online job and I realized a lot of all the grindy shit I did came down more to my perspective and how I thought I should do things vs what was actually possible. IMO you can go to South America or Asia as an incel and realize you have value and there are people who still do perceive you as valuable. And by osmosis you literally heal yourself from this. This USA grind shit imo is a dead end for most men. It’s like gambling at a casino in Vegas. There are a few winners but the house wins. IMO dating in the USA is this. If you want a mid looking gf that you have to work HARD for and is not feminine and doesn’t have traditional values, stay there. There are feminine beautiful women in the USA but the vast majority are economically or emotionally out of most men’s reach. Again, just my opinion. I’m not hating on anyone and it’s purely relative to what I am seeking as a human. Maybe you are happy there and I’m not trashing that or saying what I did is better. It’s just my own experience. Everyone can go after what they want and it’s possible to be happy dating in the USA if you want to be.

No, USA is a not a good place for women. The epicenter of the western male loneliness crisis. There is a shortage of beautiful women and they are not feminine and do not value men. You will be fighting for mid girls.

I think it's fine to want to improve with women, have sex, etc. What I'm saying is simple. Just don't sell out. Make sure the inner guidance you have is heard before you hear Owen's insufferable shouting, truth will not shout at you. If you inner guidance is clearer and firmly what guides you over Owen's annoying rants, then go ahead and listen to him for some ideas. If it isn't, be careful listening to such characters.

There isn't really too much to discuss here. Israel will have to sell it's soul and kill lots and lots of people to keep itself safe in the short/medium term. Palestine will pay with blood, but they and surrounding Muslim countries outnumber the colonial zionist thieves by millions and millions. The west is waking up. Gen Z hates Israel. Europe is slowly shifting to recognizing Palestine. Forces that wish to no longer waste US taxpayer money on Israel grow daily. I wonder what the middle east would look like if the USA /EU greatly withdrew support for Israel.

EXACTLY Zionism itself is entirely about extermination and rewriting history. There is about as much coexistence in zionism as there is in nazism. The whole ideology hinges on believing lies and denying rightful ownership. The whole region wants Israel gone because they stole the land. The country didn't even exist until 1948 You don't get to just steal land and genocide everyone and then act the victim when this violence boomerangs back at you, they want to be the victim so badly...

Takes like this right here is why everyone hates Israel

Peace is something built on mutual understand and resolution. Peace with Israel is not possible in the middle east because it requires fundamentally lying to oneself and excusing thievery and land stealing. There is no terms for peace on such a foundation. This doesn't start in 2005. It started when your grandparents stole land. If someone came into your house and stole it from you (your ancestors did with Israel btw) there would be no negotiating because you know rightfully in reality you were simply stolen from. It's not even up for discussion. If I cam along with a gun and stole everything you own, you deep down know there is no such thing as negotiating here because you were simply stolen from and know who is in the wrong. This is what Israel did in order to exist. It's a country built on stolen land backed by the USA and UK. These Europeans then have to spin a crazy tale based in their religion to stomach living such a lie about how god gave them the land and how they are natives (they are not). Israel will have to fight to wipe out enough people in Palestine but they will always be a threat since they are outnumbered in the region. And with the way the world is waking up to this, and politics is changing in the USA, there is an existential threat to Israel if the USA eventually drops support for Israel (Hopefully in the next 10-20 years but you never know). Israel is vastly unpopular and the younger generations see right through all the zionist lies, it's just a matter of time until the older generations who hold the power pass on. Israel needs to start wars and destroy everyone around them in order to try and stop this or get a head start. There are long term hidden costs for states/nations that live lies like. The USA is starting to pay up now for theirs.

That's correct. You killed/kicked out the natives and then won a war when the surrounding groups wanted to hold you accountable and reclaim the land you stole. All three. It's not hard to comprehend. Yes, zionists are thieves because it's an ideology built on displacing and stealing land that is not yours through lying to yourself and making up fairytales how you have a claim to it. That is correct, the USA is a state built on stolen land. At least you are halfway honest with yourself in acknowledging you stole the land through war and conquest.

Correction, I do agree with you there is much to learn from everyone and all sorts of lessons out there in life. I think where I’m coming from is that you have to be extremely careful, and by virtue following truth and trusting truth, the guidance you need to live life and choose your teachers, the way. Not following it will come with all sorts of unseen expenses. You have to be firmly planted in your truth. My inner guidance almost always firmly guides me away from anything Owen posts online, while there could be something I could learn from him, I’m so firmly honest with myself these days that god guides me from this so even some lesson I could maybe learn from him, it’s not the way for me. Which is what’s true for me. I want that for guys here to be able to distinguish. Maybe for you it’s different but I think the core of what I’m saying is do not sell yourself out for a bit of info you think you need at the expense of truth which is the foundation for your entire life.

I doubt it but I do go to Vegas to visit my parents once every couple of years, if you ever do another type of retreat or a meet up and it lines up with my trip I would join 👍

Everyone in 5-10 years is going to deny how they didn’t vote for Trump. It’s going to be how the right entirely flipped on the war in Iraq and how they never supported it…

Easier said than done though. You can learn all sorts of stuff from all sorts of people, you can learn how to butcher meat properly from a serial killer. You can learn how to sell stuff well from Trump. Strange comparisons but what I want to illustrate is that I don’t believe in hand waving away learning from scammers and people unaligned with truth even if they are good at something. You should really strive to learn only from people who value truth honest and integrity or you will eventually have you hitched wagon taken down by the poison you injected along with their advice. This has a massive hidden long term cost associated with it which I myself have paid. I’ve gone full circle with pick up and realized there is far more wrong with learning from these scammers than there isn’t. From my experience if you don’t learn from people aligned from truth you are going to poison your own water eventually while getting good at things which ultimately won’t lead anywhere. Basically you’ll have to knock your house down to address the foundation and I’d like to share some wisdom with guys here who are starting their foundation. Learn from guys who you know you could trust and wouldn’t use you. Look into their pasts. Did they have all sorts of falling outs with friends? Do they feel like a salesman? There are guys teaching this material who are not so scammy and there are approaches which don’t require paying these grifters. Trust your gut. Don’t put energy into these scammers. Thank god I only lost about $1000 to RSD before I caught on that you can learn the same stuff other ways without polluting your belief system by “befriending” scammers.

You guys are colonizers and thieves and zionists though. Anyone relative to you (Israel) appears as a terrorist because it exposes your thievery and you don't liek that so you have to play victim. You guys stole your land and had to justify it through religious fantasies and made up history. Do a DNA test. These people lived in Europe for 800+ years.

He already tried on Jan 6th 2021, you didn’t think he would try again?

It’s by design. single member district plurality. Look this up.

Hitler was passionate too. Cliche comparison, sure. There was a Jew who watched a Hitler speech in person. Said he was moved to tears by Hitler’s passion, before the full Nazi agenda became clear. Kirk had it coming on way or another. I hope for more vigilantes. I’m still not entirely convinced this doesn’t play an important role in correcting tyranny.

You absolutely are not alone on this. Life is not an easy school. I’m curious, why do you believe you’re alone on this? You think only your path has challenges? Why? From what I’ve observed is that life is rich and complex with many chapters, some chapters can be very hard. Life is uncertain, we never know how it will unfold. The more you grow and engage with life the more it demands from you. You want something, you can get it, but however great it is usually gonna come with you shedding a lot of limiting beliefs and reparenting yourself in the process. That isn’t always easy and I believe it’s fair to say there’s a degree of maturity we develop as we live our lives and learn to be that solid foundation of truth. I think it’s important to remember we all are here, living in the unknown. We truly don’t know anything and we are trying our best, can you love yourself through this? Just be honest with and love yourself. Picture that part of you that is afraid or feels bad as a child and love it. You don’t even have to be perfect with it or focus on the outside. Just be open to trusting the unfolding of life.

Have you guys SEEN the jokes conservatives and fascists make about George Floyd, poor immigrants and Palestinians???? This is NOT going to make the left look bad or hurt their image. If anything they need to toughen up a bit and start punching back...

That would be the funniest shit ever if all the lies he told culminated in him dying of a stroke or something in office when we kicked Joe out for being “unfit” (who seems to be in ok health and enjoying his retirement )

Dude what lib fires a gun like that? I wouldn’t be surprised if the guy who got him wasn’t even a lib but one of those anti Jew alt rights or something with some twisted narrative how Kirk is helping Israel.

This is exactly what should have happened to Trump after J6. The USA is so warped and brainrotted. It’s going to take a generation to cleanse out how gaslit and brainwashed half the country is. The man literally attempted a coup and his party didn’t do a thing about it… never forget that. His own vice president was exiled and stepped back from politics because of this.

This dude is completely brain rotted. His entire business is built on delusional self belief so of course that ends up coming at the expense of his world view and higher collective thinking.

and in come the brainrot conspiracies

Hopefully Dems wake up and get the message it’s time to fight back. The right has been on a downward spiral towards radicalization until their project 2025 goals are met. “They go low we go high” is an ideal. We are in a brawl, you better grab something to defend yourself or start throwing something or you’re gonna be a target.