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The problem with such questions is what exactly are you expecting the answer to be? Reality is right here right now right this nanosecond. What is it you are asking ! Look at it .this is what it is. Sorry. To disappoint but it doesn't get any better.

@Breakingthewall No such thing . Hear me out ..you think a rock is an object that exists out there and it doesn't see or hear or feel and you call that non living matter ..and on the other hand you think of yourself as a human body that is more evolved and complex than rocks and plants and animals and you have consciousness like a light bulb inside your skull..this is not what's going on .this is total made up thought story .actually the entire field of experience is just what it is. Stop conceptualising it into subjects and objects and dumb matter and alive sentient matter .

@Zenterus

Why do you masturbate once a week dude ? Go talk to real girls. Grow up.

Trying to keep yourself "sane" if you are doing this work correctly is doomed to fail because "sanity" is a distinction or a limitation that you are trying to maintain or trying to box reality or freeze it in but of course reality is groundless and unlimited..In other words insane. Not- sane. And this isn't bad or Good because again one or the other is a distinction and reality includes both yin-yang. So yeah in a sense reality is insane and you are insane but at the same time there is really nothing scary about this .it would be scary if you chose to look at it via a negative lense ..but you can also choose to cool out and stop taking yourself and others too seriously. And this is a good thing to do .

You still recovering from phillophilia? 😂

Why ?

I love being naked .clothes are social conditioning. We can be polite and not just jump on each other's asses still ..I don't see most animals suffer from that

Not interested.

@Joseph Maynor polygamous.

@Natasha Tori Maru

@Ramasta9 quit badmouthing Nahm .you are nowhere close to him .his writing is more accurate than a knife .I've never seen such accuracy in contemplating direct experience exactly "as is" than what he does.

And how many to Salsa ?

What should this mean in God's world ? You still need to be schooled on basic radical neo advaita stuff ? You think "the only thing that is this is that because that must be thus or never and only this "..its all gibberish nonsense. Get the cosmic joke already.

@Princess Arabia you're talking to Judy or to me ? Or we both don't exist and you're talking to yourself?

@Joseph Maynor dance ? All I'm reading is "I'm right and the entire world is deluded". James is actually conscious of some well earned Truth ..otherwise I don't see why would he have such consistent message revolving around the same basic points. It's like he's saying "guys it's so simple ...NOTHING". And you guys "no it must be infinitely complicated than that .if proplems don't exist then let's invent imaginary proplems ".

You guys feel good and intelligent and "nuanced " when you gang up on him ? I agree that this is always the same pointless discussion over and over again between radical neo advaita and "well we are still some human chimps on earth though" .. If you are actually aware of this then stop correcting him ..or do his words shatter your reality ? He is talking from nondual consciousness and you guys are talking from dual common sense consciousness of separation or maya or matrix. It is never going to fit together..so you are NOT being so "Einsteinical" about it when you point out loopholes in his message ..because he is speaking nonduality. There is In fact no you And no me and no "things " or anything you "think " that exists . But still for the pragmatics of keeping your dream inside this world you gotta "get real " and say "yeah but I'm just a human chimp and this stuff is just philosophy and mental masturbation ". But it isn't.

@Breakingthewall thank you for writing this. I don't have problem with explaining the universe materialistically back to the big bang ..but if you corner a scientist or physicist and ask him well what was before the big bang or what caused it they will tell you we don't know because physics can't apply before certain constants like Planck time etc . So really science just pushes the question of why anything at all back one step and another step .where did consciousness come from ? Some neurons and a brain..where did the brain come from ? Evolution ..how is it possible that living organisms look desin-like without a creator or God?..well we live in one universe out of infinite multiverse and it's invetiable that one of them must be as it is . Tautology. It is like this because it is the only way it could be .then why get lost in endless scientific conceptualising instead of saying existence is infinite being or pure irreducible magic ?

Not necessarily GPT .maybe Gemini or just some post on reddit . Whenever some member with 1 post and weird clear name and confident writing style (no "hi guys" bla bla ) is posting like this I'm 100% something isn't in its right place.

Say it in Americano 😂 "puuurverr"

I'm sure only teens do that . See when you are going through puberty you discover SEX. You become obsessed with attractive women and that's why they do that.

Well ditto. I'm NOT gonna date a sex doll I'm gonna date a real human so obviously I'm not gonna be having sex nonstop and kicking her out of my bedroom after im done . If what I said implied this then sure that's either not what I meant or its wrong. It is not just "jerking off ". Its more complex than that . How much jerking off and what of kind of garbage you are wanking to ..also OP is one of those guys who has orgasm phobia and he hasn't yet surpassed this phase .

I'm a pervert because I want sex ? Didn't you just said jerk off all you want ? And no ..jerk off addicts give up seeking a real partner .why would they seek a real relationship with a real person when they can just wank to endless pornography? That's exactly where I disagree with your advice to OP that he should not restrict himself from masturbation . Also masturbation is no biggie..Once you do it and feel satisfied you naturally start doing other stuff . But porn is proven to be abnormally addictive and unhealthy to the human brain.. dont worry I have a porn collection myself so I'm not judging or moralising but I think you are smarter than needing me to bash porn to know it's problematic aspects. Why not both ? If you fancy yourself as a guy who's very good with women then yeah it boosts your confidence and self esteem but most young men just want sex.

@Leo Gura exactly so you jerk off because you can't wait for the real thing . So everytime you have some rush of hormones and boners you run to bust a nut into the toilet (do whatever you want. I'm talking about that )..then what would drive you to actually get married ? Why should I do pickup or seek sex AT ALL when I can just masturbate to porn?

Nothing complicated here ..just some thoughts fighting with each other. Judy doesn't exist.