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@ivankiss consider a person who is illiterate and doesn't know any human language or any words... And he had a mystical experience to the thing that you call "love".. Do you think he is gonna call that "love"? Ofcourse not.. He doesn't even fucking know the language. And yet that doesn't make his experience less valuable just because he couldn't translate it into a limited human lovey dovey word.. In fact that would make it even more sincere and honest if he could just shut the hell up and experience the indescribable.

@ivankiss it is indeed impossible to let something go because there's nothing to grasp at in the first place .. The sooner you realize the better.. Instead of jumping from one delusion to higher quality delusions. "Love" is just a word. L- o- v- e... Just shapes on a screen. No don't tell me how deluded I am.. That's what that is.

@ivankiss let the love go and be completely free..

I have no fictions to drop.. "Mechanical universe" .. "consciousness universe".. What's the difference? Both are fictions both are words. Does me believing a certain narrative about what the hell is going on in reality going to change what the hell is going on in reality??? The sun will rise..your body will urge you to feed it and keep it safe.. And so on.. What you are suggesting is complete disidentification with everything humans conventional assume..it's not possible to live from that state of consciousness.. I'm not saying that what you said was wrong btw.. All I'm saying it's not so funny and useless to make these assumptions that you are laughing at..these assumptions are what is keeping you alive basically.

Drop that fiction (really drop it) and see how you gonna die in a matter of days..

If you want to cut the shit about this topic .. Just sit down and do very simple contemplation and self-observation.. You will quickly discover that "the past" is literally just and idea (or image) that is occurring now.. And that's all that there is to it. Then the next thought you will have is this "yes the memory is occurring NOW but the actual event that is been carried by the memory happened in" the past " not in the NOW".... And again you have to notice that that is just another idea that is occurring in the now. Now whether you gonna basically keep repeating the same question about new occurring ideas or you just get it is determined by how much coffee you drank today.

It's easy to to tell if something is "good" or "bad" from a somehow "moral" perspective.. If after you do it you feel happy.. Blissful.. Peaceful.. Accepting.. Loving.. Then what you did was Good and you know it . If after you did it.. You felt miserable.. Suffering.. Angry..regretting.. Hating..then what you did is bad and you know it. So you could apply that to the act of prostitutes or killing a child.. These people are generally feeling negative emotions about what they are doing no matter how bleak or careless they appear on the outside.. There is a moral compass inside every human.. Even tho from a rational perspective morality is completely relative.

"The tao that can be named is not the eternal tao. The name that can be named is not the eternal name"

Perhaps you should try to grasp how silly it is to try to grasp the ungraspable. Trying to use thoughts and concepts to comprehend what by it's very nature is incomprehensible is like trying to use your ears to drink water to satisfy your hunger.. The wrong tool for the wrong goal.

You can't have an unconditional condition.

@Javfly33 also I think it's helpful to create a duality between the true self and the false self.. Saying that "you" don't exist and leaving it at that is really not the whole story.. You obviously do exist even tho you don't! It's just that the self cannot be found as a product of any external or internal phenomenon.. It's always in the background.. The ghost is not inside the machine.. The machine is inside the ghost. And to be more accurate it's all just the ghost.

You see how hilarious that is? It's like asking how can Santa accept that he doesn't exist?Ofcourse he can't because he can't do anything because it's not him who does stuff in the first place.

Why is that an issue anyways? It's only an issue if you think that you "should" react to certain things in a certain way determined by society or by how others react to that same thing.. None of that matters unless you think it is.. If you find something disgusting don't go there.. If you find something exciting go there.. Hungry? Eat.. Not hungry? Don't eat. As simple as that.

Ooooooh the ladies in this thread soooooo triggereddddddd XD. ??

Well one of the reasons is you will feel sexually satisfied by watching porn and you won't feel motivated or hungry to seek making a family or having real partners.. It's relative to that I should say. If you don't care about that or you can balance it out and connect with real women while at the same time consuming porn.. Fine go for it.. I can't tell you what you should or should not do.

Maybe I should marry all blondes out there since you guys seem not interested in them lol...

@Gesundheit Look I'm smart enough to not get into this debate.. It's so easy to make a case why you should be watching porn.. "it feels good DUH done bye bye".. But it takes intelligence and maturity to see why you shouldn't be watching porn anymore as I said especially if you are no longer a horny teenager.

No.. A guy who doesn't like blondes is the one who has some shadows that needs to be addressed lol jk. Seriously tho..I'm not saying that to provoke women who are not blondes.. I'm just being honest. It's something from my childhood and puberty.. Immediately I got attracted to blonde models who I saw in magazines or wherever else..

Yes and I am being honest. I used to watch porn back in it's prime (2014-2016). But honestly I just outgrew it. It's ok to watch a little bit here and there if you are horny.. But don't let that be your sexual outlet. You should strive for mating a real partner not some pixels on a screen.. Ofcourse I'm not saying it's right or wrong.. Who am I to judge? .. But come on.. as a grown ass man who wants to be serious about relationships you shouldn't be a porn dude anymore.

Leo stop watching porn already it's 2020 buddy lol .. Who even watches porn anymore? No judgment lol jk. But tbh it's not so high consciousness of a habit.

Honesty If you are not dating blondes you are wasting your time. Just like : if you don't take psychedelics for consciousness work..you are wasting your time.

It's not unexamined lol. I'm currently dating that blonde girl and she played a huge role in shaping my views on dating lol..

And what else matters when it comes to picking a partner for ME? When it's your partner we might need to be objective about it.. But I'm speaking about the perfect traits that " I "want in my partner. Ofcourse I would like her to fit my biased interests.. Why not? Should I want her to fit the criteria of Donald trump lol?

No what does astrology have to do with this? Maybe it's something about the DNA or genetics.. Got nothing to do with astrology. From my experience blonde girls are not just the most beautiful on the outside but even on the Inside.. That is a feminine.. Polite.. Classy traits. Ofcourse it's relative after all what is considered beautiful or classy might be different from your POV. Not so simple. It should be on paper. I actually asked the same question earlier on this thread about thar ugly face they posted.. Look at it and tell that's not ugly.. It's on page 2 I guess. So are you saying I should not marry and just keep dating multiple women constantly?

Hell yeah lol. Yes which is exactly my point. There is difference.. Your criteria is different from mine is different from someone else.. You are not ready to compromise on personality and I'm not ready to compromise on blonde lol...