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If there's a man or woman alive that hasn't fantasized about having sex with another person, then they must not be all human. Fantasy is a natural thing, as is masturbation. Religion makes anything sexual a taboo thing, because they like to control people. It's that simple. If there is a god, he should not have created the human body to produce testosterone in men, because it makes us horny.

Wait until you get such a traumatic experience like this in your life and having an infinitely loving asshole raping you and let's see if you would still call it love. The problem here is lack of experience. Its like trying to describe colors to a blind person. Impossible. Somethings need To be experienced firsthand before judging it .

What are you even asking bro ? I don't understand the damn question ?

@Zigzag Idiot that's a hell a lot to read my man ? Tbh I didn't read it all .I just skimmed through the paragraphs . But generally you seem to be talking about the relationship between masturbation and religions. The way I see it is that Religion is about controlling people, it uses a stick and carrot approach, the stick in this case is the prohibition of certain sexual practices, with the claim that you are always under surveillance by an all knowing, all seeing being, who will torture you for an eternity after you die, in a place for which there is no evidence. By prohibiting sexual acts, religion exploits one of the most powerful urges in nature, and uses it to instil guilt, shame and fear. It's a fascist dictatorship believers impose upon themselves.

Dude has a great way of delivering content. My only gripe is that his videos tend to be a bit too long and a bit too ramble-y. If he could cut them down a bit, he could avoid repeating himself and make for snappier content. Also he does have videos with graphic illustrations like this video : He’s got ideas I agree with, he’s got ideas I completely disagree with, but either way I enjoy watching his stuff. This is just my 2 cents. Take it or leave it .

Why is masturbation always considered as a shameful and unhealthy behavior which will weaken you physically while having sex is almost to the contrary? What is the main difference between them? Although not all cultures view masturbation as something negative but there is some truth to this view if masturbation becomes an addiction wasting the individual's sexual drive and social energy. I guess Because the perception is that masturbation is failure. The ideal scenario is to have a sexual partner (or partners) and masturbation is what occurs when that scenario can't be achieved. Very few people fantasise about being alone and masturbating while they're having sex but most people fantasise about having sex while masturbating. Sex also has an element of conquest to it in most modern societies. In order to have had sex, someone else had to be persuaded that the person was sexually desirable. If the other person was particularly attractive then the conqueror has boasting rights and if the "performance" was especially impressive then there's added kudos. But masturbation can be performed by the ugliest and most repulsive human and the only prerequisite is to have reached puberty. There's no sense of achievement or ability.

He always insist and repeat in his videos to not take his teachings as a belief or an ideology and to verify everything he says in your own direct experience.

@Breakingthewall not to kiss Leo's ass..but he is the most awakend teacher that you find online nowadays.

@Breakingthewall why do you think Leo says that no one here is awake ? Its like this: Not everyone needs to lift weights and get great body definition in order to be fit, right? Some people might simply want to do some cardio, some Yoga and others might choose to not exercise at all. Your body will manage. Life will not be utterly miserable or anything. You won’t die. But someone who wants to achieve the peak of fitness, health and shape will need to lift weights. Right? So similarly, a spiritual awakening enhances your life experience; you live life at from a completely different level. But those who are not spiritually awakened might be living good lives too, and they might not even feel the need for an awakening. They are blissfully aware of the spiritual dimension, yet life feels good. IT IS NOT EVERYONE’S NEED TO AWAKEN IN THIS LIFETIME. It’s not even everyone’s need to be spiritually inclined in this lifetime.

The ultimate level of spirituality is reality. As far as we feel different levels of spirtituality, there is still someone in us, considering those levels as something important, something that leads us “to the end”. But there is no end. Same as there never has been any beginning. From the point of view of separate self, there si practiced spirituality, there are spiritual acheivements, spiritual faults and spiritual successes. But none of them are real, non of them are permanent. All of them will vanish with the physical death. Spiritual experiencies are not important. Labeling, naming or evaluating spirituality is the path to hell. But if you want to be a spiritual guy, there is nothing wrong with it, same as there is nothing wrong to be an athlete or musician.

Agreed. If a seeker is interested in the stages of spiritual awakening then he is not true seeker. Stages and destination are the way of ego. Ego wants to know the progress ,ego is always interested in numbers ( which stage am I in? ). Buddha never asked this question and he attained the enlightenment when his all desires died including desire to be desireless(the last hook). The infinite is the finite .the limited is the unlimited. Form is emptiness. Emptiness Is form . There is nothing to do and nowhere to go . THIS here and now is all that is .

you need to be enlightened to be able to know who is enlightened. Like an old saying: "You need to become saint, to know what is a saint".

My relationship with Masturbation has many bad effects on my health. I feel guilt immediately after masturbation. This increases my stress level. My mood is always nervous after masturbation. It increases negativity in my mind. It decreases my self-confidence. l feel tired the whole day. I feel energyless. Still haven't figured out why or how .because doctors say that it's perfectly harmless activity and all mammals do it .

nofap no-PMO(or no-Fap) is by no means a easy feat. Its incredibly difficult and takes insane control at least for the first few months. And even after those few months, its still incredibly difficult to make sure you don't fall for any temptations and unknown surprises while watching movies and stuff. I am doing it for a few reasons: 1. Motivation: I have insanely low motivation to really do anything in the past few months. And this low motivation is a result of certain beliefs. And no-PMO helps me increase my motivation. So, I will continue no-PMO at least until I rectify my beliefs and become naturally motivated. 2. I love to challenge myself: Being able to say no to temptations is my latest(by that I mean its 2 year old) addiction. It feels good each time I do it because It makes me feel in control of myself. 3. I notice that I don't fear things the way I used to before when I am on no-PMO. 4. I feel attracted to girls, even if they are not physically attractive. (I am not sure why because logic dictates I shouldn't be). My thoughts on Porn: The issue with porn is, it increases your expectations about sexual experiences to unimaginable heights. So, after a while even when you are married, you will prefer masturbation and porn to actual sex. Which is unhealthy for your relationship(I believe intimacy is a huge part of healthy romantic relationships). I think this is the only and a fundamental reason why I avoid porn. If you are naturally motivated, in good shape, already have a healthy romantic relationship, I see no reason why you should avoid porn and masturbation. Don't follow no-PMO(or no fap) like a religion. If it serves your interests, well then follow it. Otherwise don't.

I don’t believe in sexual orientation anyways .The type of sexual experiences or fantasy leads us to believe that we are this and that. I have had dreams where I am fucking a guy and also where I am fucking a dog. I also remember having an erection while watching a lioness in youtube. Just search “beautiful lioness”. I can look at this animal and fantasise about having babies with her all day. At the same time I have had huge embarrassing erections while watching a saree covered ass. These are nothing but associations made by mind i.e, I want to pour this semen somewhere. I know right, funny. Mind is a strange thing. The people who say that they are gay or lesbian or straight they are controlled by mind. Let’s be honest who on earth has not dreamed about having sex with their similar gender but we don’t do whatever mind says to us. We control our mind. There is no orientation.

Im not 100% straight but I'm not 100% gay either. Sometimes I’ll be in a grocery store, or just watching a movie, and someone shows up on screen and my brain is like, “Alert! Alert! The curves and lines of this figure (face) in front of you are appealing for some reason your conscious mind can’t comprehend!” Nice full beards add a lot to this alert system. I’m also a fan of the recently trendy short sides long combed top haircuts. (secretly a fan of the hipster style… shh!) But that’s where it ends. Beyond whatever underlying thing causes me to notice and appreciate the appearance of these physical forms, there’s nothing in my mind or heart that desires to go beyond that into “I want my mouth all over that!” territory. On the other hand, I’ve met females here and there, and we’ve chatted, and connected, and then she says something cute, or there’s that moment where we just look at each other in silence and the body language is pretty clear, and my brain says, “Alert! Alert! For some reason unbeknownst to your conscious mind, you suddenly want to smush your face into their face! You don’t even know what purpose that serves! But it just seems like the best thing in the world!” That’s where the difference is. Some guys are physically attractive, based on whatever unknown standards are in my subconscious making those judgments, but there’s no desire for a deep intimacy with them. On the other hand, the attraction I’ve felt for some women has grown to a point of desiring intimacy. It has gone beyond outward attraction to “Gosh dang it! I want to know everything there is to know about you!” That’s how I got over the cultural taboo of complimenting other guy’s physical appearance. Some dudes look good! They have great style! They carry themselves in a very confident way. It’s attractive! I’ll say it to some people (not necessarily random strangers). “Man! You look good with that beard!” or “You look really nice in that shirt!” I can say it confidently because there’s no secret desire under those compliments. It’s purely innocent and complimentary, through and through! With a female, I might say, “You look really nice today!” but there might also be an underlying flirtatious tone. Still innocent and complimentary, but also hinting at something deeper. So why am I not gay? I’m not gay because, while I can appreciate the physical attractiveness of the same sex, 0% of me desires to have an intimate relationship with another guy. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

my gay side I thought I was a straight boy until puberty hit. Not that I wasn't attracted to girls, more like that I thought girls were useless and stupid, the way many little boys do. And I kicked a lot of ass, could outrun and beat up all the boys. As soon as puberty hit, I fell madly in love with an inaccessible man, and have remained attached to him ever since, only slowing down a speck when I met the Love of My Life at 21, who was also a man. But I'd still remained "one of the boys," in many ways more easily able to join in guy talk than girl talk. In fact, I spent numerous years in scenarios where there were no women to speak of, which I think was what kept me from realizing my attraction was now exclusively for women. For nearly my entire adult life I've only been sexually attracted to women . And here's the next twist. Although I doubt I could actually fuck a man, post-menopause a slight sexual attraction to the idea of some men has crept in. I'd never have guessed sexuality could be so fluid for one who has never felt bisexual.

Some claim that women have it easier than men when it comes to sex opportunities. But I call that BS. People are arseholes. You have a lot of sex, they’ll call you a slut. You have none, they’ll call you frigid and a prude. So fuck what people think, do what makes you happy.

A few months ago I met a beautiful girl at a camp, unfortunately we lived on opposite sides of the country so after camp we would probably never see each other again. But I didn’t really care, I wasn’t going to let that ruin my time. Fast forward to the end of camp, we both go our separate ways, yet still stay in touch. We both probably know we couldn’t make anything work, but I wasn’t ready to give up, because this girl was absolutely amazing. So we talk all the time, but quickly it hits me that this girl is way out of my league. If she was too good for me and I loved what we had, and did not want it to end, then to extend it I decided to make myself better. I started exercising to look and feel better, I started reading and thinking to be more interesting, I started singing and playing piano to be more artistic and musical. I started studying and working hard to be less of a loser. Despite my best efforts it did not work out. She simply did not want anything long distance. A part of me was disappointed that all of my efforts didn’t help me achieve what I wanted to achieve, yet eventually I realized that she pushed me to be a better person, that through my love for her I channeled it to better myself. So yeah, it didn’t work out. Oh well. I took the love I had for her and instead of sitting around fantasizing I did something about it, and I don’t regret a minute of it. A couple months ago I met another gorgeous girl. This one, however lives near me. She is also out of my league, and I’m doing everything I can to change that .

True. The issue though is that I got rejected plenty of times before I actually found a girl who accepted to sit and talk with me.that in itself is a huge achievement imo. And I'm not sure if I can easily find a similar girl. Although I agree with you .she clearly rejected me .so there is no point being her doggy.

It depends on one’s own interests. Some girls perceive a guy who smokes as hot and sexy while some think as badass person. According to me girls usually prefer guys who doesn’t smoke. But There are rare girls who are perfectly fine with their boyfriend or husband smoking. Because girls are usually future oriented and they would like to secure a husband’s future health wise. So guys, if we want to marry someone, then the answer to smoking is a big “NO”. For dating, it’s up to u.

@Tyler Robinson @Adamq8 thank you guys for the comments. I actually forgot to mention how exactly did we meet each others which might be illuminating as to why she rejected me after the successful date ...which I still haven't figured out why. I met her online. In India the only way to meet women is through dating apps. Chatting to women in the pub is basically impossible. They're immediately on guard, they make snap judgements based off your body language, and they're always in packs of friends, so shy people like me are immediately chased off. This is what she said to me: "Hey I just wanted to say I had a really good time last night and I think you are honestly such a lovely guy, I just don’t think that I have feelings for you and the last thing I want to do is waste your time. I’m really sorry and I hope there are no hard feelings! You did absolutely nothing wrong! You were so sweet and easy to chat to. I don’t have a lot of experience with relationships either so it’s a learning curve for me too. I just didn’t feel that there was chemistry between us."

The topic is all in the title. What went wrong with communism? My answer is that nothing went wrong with communism. The fault, if there is any fault, is in humanity. Yes, we are social animals, and we live in group, and act together in social groups of all sizes, from families to nations. But we also want stuff for ourselves, maybe stuff that others don't or can't have. The streak of greediness in us is as strong as the urge to socialise, and that is what went wrong with communism: human greed. Morally, communism is far superior to Capitalism, but communism asks us to behave atypically, while Capitalism panders to our greed and baser nature, and so is more successful. That's my take; what's yours? What went wrong with communism?

Yes of course. And it bringed me results. This is almost the second date in my entire life . I am a simple dude. Basic bro. Who would be more attractive, me as I am now? or me if I became famous with lots of money ? Same dude, same demeanour, same height, same 6 pack, same tattoos, but two total different paths That's how female attraction works imo: It's hard to explain what sets them off in a woman, it's simply something like the tone of a mans voice,his personality, body language, etc which triggers the attraction mechanism which is inside of a woman. I was talking to this woman I met & started to smile, now she's the sort of woman who I can make smile in my presence,so a woman whose like her is interested in a man whose like me & certain feelings come up inside of her when I'm in her presence. So,anything can set them off inside of a woman,I have just met a woman who feels that attraction towards me,they're not all the same either. It seems like her attraction to me was fake . She made it up to not embarrassing me .because the very next day which is yesterday she texted me and said she ain't interested in a serious relationship with me . I'm still able to talk to her as a friend though . So what you recommend me to do ? Look for a new girl or try again with the same girl?