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I think real compassion is when you love people or appearances as they are, meaning seeing the perfection in them instead of things "needed to be fixed".

This is thinking or rumination. It has nothing to do with actual reality. They may not feel as depressed about themselves as you do. It also implies that there are right and wrong ways to live. As if there is an actual truth out there that says you have to evolve or grow. You don't feel their suffering, you feel yours. Their interpretations, etc . If you look more closely, you will see that there are no other people in the sense that you might imagine.

I have drawn a connection with this post and thought this could be easily misunderstood by a female who think she is bad looking.

What if a female with e.g. deformed face is reading this right now? Do you even think about the implications of what you write? It doesn’t seem like.

I think of course everybody does. Maybe not every time according to cultural Standards as "pretty" is completly subjective. If she has to be too perfect visually this could become a problem as cultural standard hot and intelligent, spiritual etc. is very rare. So this would be a dumb way to go, as it is unrealistic for every man because of lack of occurence.

See divine perfection in finite imperfection. Maybe take some psychedelics to see it.

I had this issue too and lost a lot of time and energy. For me, the best solution is to tell them honestly and compassionate how you feel and why you have to take this decision. Just ghosting would be not that grateful for the time you spent together and it would leave things unspoken you later would have been wished to say. Pay attention to stay by your decision, only if you are sure it is the right one. Meaning the relationship has cost you too much. Don't let them convince you otherwise. If a debate starts, make a clear cut. They will understand it later and if they are ignorant, you could not have helped them in any case.

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I guess database changes are not tracked on low-level side or can be reconstructed? If this wasn't considered already, this could be a possibility to restore the chat history.

Has nothing to do with intelligence or genetic predispositions. The kids getting bullied usually have people pleaser or strong neurotic parents or both. They mirror it and this looks weird to other kids and contradicts their reality so they often don't know better.

Ego fight would mean to be defensive. But sometimes it is just out of pure boredom to entertain oneself.

There is no reason. It is just fun. For some people. They don't recognise the implications and don't feel deep satisfaction but a sense of significance.

Retreat centres, ashrams, etc. should collect data. Some carefully selected masters have to define certain symptoms of enlightenment on which the subjects have to undergo both a self-assessment and a third-party assessment by the master. In addition, the subjects have to give side information about their practices, routines, diet, lifestyle and more. This will help to find out more about certain practices you should go and also avoid. It can also help to improve certain practices or processes. The test groups are separated into psychedelic and non-psychedelic users.

Most people don't try it and are not serious. So population is not a good measurement.

Life sucks my dig.

Even they delete forum posts because they probably think they are omniscient and more developed than most people I wouldn't do it. They have to learn the hard way.

If you control a robot via a VR-device and see through the eyes of it. Does the robot has consciousness then?

One could sell online courses about Minecraft and jerking off. How-to guides, different techniques etc. . People demand money for nearly everything nowadays. Even the dumbest things one can imagine.

Good advice! I am so grateful for people helping each other and caring?

How do you deal with the fact? I never can overlook or lie to myself. Too many people are ugly and I have experienced this that much that I loose faith and cannot commit to friendships anymore because it seems like I already know they are evil or just selfish idiots.

Maybe you can save money for a major face surgery. I mean really, at least it would give you hope. Or try to concentrate on career, become enlightened etc. Shift priorities.

It just feels that way. Like I am preconditioned. Experience has shown this is the case. And I am talking about hardcore things not just a breakup or something.

For every negative occurrence it seems like there need to be 100 positive ones to correct this.

I see friendships as something not necessary, but good to have and which can lead to great and wonderful experiences. The same applies for having a family with childs, dogs or whatever. Now there is a trend of people saying having e.g. children is absolutely necessary to really develop as a human being. For me this doesn't feel right. In addition. if you have children you are forced to develop yourself or pushed/gravitated towards. This is easier than just do it from your own without external motivation. Because, having children is a huge responsibility and something is on the stake so to speak. I also recognize people getting families to fit social standards and then they compare each other. E.g. an old friend called me and he wanted me to know that he achieved more than me. And that my university degrees and academic employment is nothing worth but having a family is. I find this comparison stuff comes from a place of worthlessness and for me it seems weird. In this case, I find he uses his family as a compensation strategy. What do you think, are relationships not a can, but a must? Did you also had situations where you completely felt like you are not understood by e.g. talking about how you see things and then they called it subjective and crazy? With me, this happens almost exclusively and I have the feeling that really no one understands what I am saying. And this leads to circular discussions and it is always like the other person already know whats true and that I have to understand it. If it gets too long they try to escape the discussion by either saying "this is stupid" or "lets leave it like everybody has its point and we don't come to consens". What do you do in this situation?

There are highly intelligent, educated people with much money and status who tell you ghost stories or paranormal stories. I know them personally. Like the day before yesterday a friend of my godmother talked about paranormal experiences.