WonderSeeker

Only if there's 200ug on the end of that finger

Yesterday a college roommate of mine claimed to have "almost" had an out-of-body experience on mushrooms. Today, I just over-heard him on the phone with a friend talking about how he's "questioning who and what he is" and "is there something beyond the materialism?" and so on. I know this stuff varies from person to person, but what could I say that might spark his interest in doing a meditative/contemplative practice? He seems very curious, but simultaneously scared about it. It's almost like he senses the danger that this could bring on his ego, which is how I felt many months ago. Cheers!

@Loving Radiance LOL! I like that. Will be patient and not force it though.

@UNZARI I like the practicality of starting with something like McKenna - good idea! @Nahm @Rilles Noted. I felt turbulent using that word.

@Brivido Bache's book is a great perspective. But actually going through it must have been a challenge. What was the dose? Fantastic report!

@Yarco Very helpful, thank you!

Dr. Cornell West embodies this stage beautifully! Study him if you're trying to move into Yellow.

As COVID is getting worse in the U.S., approaching is becoming less appealing. The only place I've really tried lately is the grocery store. For example, I had a cute cashier and we got into a good conversation (I was complimenting her in the mix and she was flattered). I didn't "finish," meaning ask for number, because of a belief that women do not want to get asked out at work (and I didn't wanna put her on the spot while she was scanning my groceries). What do you think? Split on this one. Since options are slim because people can't really mingle anywhere (especially now that businesses are getting put on hold again), I am exploring online dating. I made a Tinder a few days ago and instantly got dissatisfied with it (for many reasons). Deleted that shit within the evening. Are there any good dating websites out there that people use who are serious about dating (and not just immature people only looking for casual sex)? I'm having trouble finding a good platform that enough people use. Cheers!

@Vision Same question framed differently: Can there be stage green and above doctors? Try not to think of the profession itself as being a color stage, but rather the person's mindset being applied to the profession. As far as I can tell, all intellectual pursuits can be taken up to at least high yellow. That's what I'm looking to do with geology. P.S. Look up Daniel Ingram. He's an M.D. way above orange.

@Conscious life Are you saying you're experiencing Godhead 24/7? If so that's impressive.

How do you ask good questions? Perhaps even more fundamental: What is a good question? My thoughts: Good questions are "big-picture"-focused, Good questions open new doors; they aim to raise consciousness, Good questions are relative to one's own needs, and Good questions are foundational (like the italicized/bold question above). Of course, what counts as a "good question" is entangled with our socially-constructed world. What this forum considers to be a good question won't be by mainstream culture. Does the ability to ask genuinely good questions rest on awareness itself? Can only "I" or "you" decide for ourselves what is or isn't a good question? I have no fucking idea yet, but this is a start. Please share your thoughts~

I hope to have one and only one in my future. There's just something beautiful about reproduction - it's literally a miracle. Also, I love the curiosity and playful joy that kids have: something about that sparks joy in me. Being a parent is something I've always fantasized about, and NOT because society wants me to have kids. But if you're asking why I'd conceive over adopting, that I cannot answer

I think to actually understand Godhead you'd have to experience that for yourself. It one of those ineffable states, if you will. Like @lmfao said, Wilber's work may be good to check out, because it expands on spiral dynamics (also the term "Godhead" is used to describe a meditative state). Again, best advice is for you to go to the higher stages and experience them for yourself. (Then tell us what you did to get there when you get back! )

@fridjonk Ever try cacao nibs? They make an amazing topping for smoothie bowls!

I think the worksheet is meant to guide beginners using the method. Once you've done the worksheet a few times, you can start to apply Katie's principles in all situations. Just memorize the questions. Every time you feel your ego creeping up (i.e., you having a negative thought), be aware of that and just start asking the questions to yourself on the spot. Three hours is too much time to spend on this. I recommend doing the work in ordinary life instead, using real examples on the fly. Good luck!

If you don't want to go the psychedelic route, Daniel Ingram's MCTB book gives the Dark Knight a solid treatment. He gives you some resolutions and practical advice for navigating the territory. Just another option.

@Rasheed Huge props to you for taking life seriously. I respect your drive. In my own experience, a guiding principle I learned early is patience. Like you, I want to be a creator. But it will take time. Your love is for basketball and Law of Attraction; mine is geology and epistemology/consciousness. In my case, I'm using all of my free time (which is very little as a graduate student) to read, research, and plan. Reading, writing, drawing, reading, writing, drawing,...and contemplating! If you block out say 1-2 hours each day of reading/writing for the next 4 years, you'll go a long way. Cheers!

A few thoughts: Any ideas on the source of the ego backlash? Why do you think you need to focus on materialistic values? Do you study meditation theory? It sure makes a difference. Perhaps do some serious questioning before making any firm decisions yet. Cheers!

This is a BIG step! I wonder if other states will begin to follow suit in the coming years.

That's a very interesting scheme^^ Thanks for sharing! As of now, I think Pennsylvania is going to be very high-leverage for either side. Trump currently has a huge lead state-wide, but if you look at county data, the counties containing three big cities (Philadelphia, Pittsburgh, and Allentown) are strongly for Biden, with only ~25% reporting. And they stopped counting for the night. Wouldn't be surprised if Trump's current 12-point lead goes *poof* when they count the remaining votes in these densely populated, Biden-leaning places. There's still many "early"/mail-in votes that need to be counted in other northern U.S. states as well. It will be razor sharp overall, but I think Biden can pull through.

After 8 months of daily meditation, I've noticed that I'm experiencing deeply buried old memories; stuff from childhood that hasn't come to my attention in years. It's nothing short of mind-blowing and most of it causes deep joy when recalled. My question to you is have you tried any techniques for intentionally channeling memories vividly? With the Cause-Effect nature of reality as a given, I'm trying to understand what can trigger these things so I can relive them more. I think there's insightful stuff to gleam from one's history. Cheers!

There's no need to close off yourself from resources that are "out there" for learning. From the way I see it, you still need to go within to first to realize that as Doug, you need to help yourself by seeking professional help with that molly addiction. Then if you manage to clear that up, then you can go within again and find the next step. However, you're also partially right. You also probably need a roadmap to do these things. But taking deliberate action will show you how important going within is if you've tried it. They kind of play into each other. In short, you need to have your bases covered (kind of like how Maslow puts it) before you can go within to solve deeper metaphysical deficiencies and so on. Perhaps someone else has a more nuanced answer; this is just my take. Cheers~

Perfect, I understand now!

@justfortoday Neat technique, thank you for sharing. Also, solid illustrations! Just for clarification, when you say "you," do you mean just the body, or are you using "you" a more nuanced way. Otherwise, and please forgive me for sounding arrogant, but everything is relative so are both the world moving around you and you moving through the world? I don't see how you can just say one over the other. Thanks again!

First of all I'm sorry to hear that you've experienced such fear, it sounds pretty frightening. It seems to me that you are a thinker type, and from that you generate some solid insights. But integrating those insights into the dream can be problematic and triggers some unwanted thoughts and the thoughts can translate into the body. Maybe try doing Byron Katie's The Work. If you have her book, Loving What Is, she has a chapter (11) which talks about doing The Work on the body. "The Work" is just a series of introspective questions that you impose on thoughts to see that they cause self-deception. For example: Is that true? Can you absolutely know that's true? How do you react to the thought? Who would you be without that thought? After reading that book and doing the exercise I feel like a different person. That's my perspective on working with difficult stuff. Hope this helps! Be well~