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@Leo Gura This was great to read. People are so quick to judge and point fingers on people in the spotlight. Your work is greatly appreciated and deep down everyone wishes you the best <) I'm going through a radical awaking atm and if live streamed would look like a nutcase, reading this has made me feel better x

@ColeMC01 yah glad you brought this up and have also managed to see through its bullshit. Your right i think it's due to the increase of internet, apps and technology so people have a skewed perception of how this stuff works. People who are a bit older and slightly missed the rise of dating apps had to go out and meet people face to face and have a better understanding of how this stuff works. I think I have mentioned on previous posts that I use to be a dating coach and had around 8 years in pick up. I was the classic incel you could say, but I made sure I stayed clear of having any toxic ideologies or victim mindsets and yes I did probably around 1000 approach with limited success at the beginning. I do have alot of drive though and will stop and nothing ahah. However I am slightly good looking, so I had a bit of an inn but it did take me ages to really get good with women. Everything leo said above is true, if you have limited social experience and low self esteem you are at real deficit but it means by no means you cant get good and improve. Having loads of choice can almost be as bothersome as having none. You get overwhelmed by choice and can develop sex addiction and deep intimacy avoidance ect. Im axtually looking to write a free ebook on this exact topic, a free manual for guys dating in the modern world on how to avoid traps like red pill, black pill, MGTOW and the toxic side of pick up. I feel this is completely lacking right now, so will give it u when done.

@assx95 Been in your shoes, was hopeless with women. Spent along time working on it and overcame it. Was very difficult but managed to do it, went very deep into pick up and tried everything. I moved on from it but because Ive seen so many men now struggling with it I want to try and help in some way so I'm going to write a free e book about this whole thing. I have around 10x the experience of the average guy and also walking the spiritual path now so understand how to balance the two to optimise happiness. When I finish the book I can leave it to rest as its energy consuming trying to help so I think this would be the best way. Ill give it to u when done. For now, just hold tight and don't give up hope. you can sort this out.

Wow great, I have found this has started to happen naturally the more I progress on the path. You help others grow on there spirtual journey and also they help you. Great mindset. Tip notch thread

Yeah its all dependent on the girl you have to get good at see what she actually wants. Some want to sleep wit you on the first date. Ive had dates last less than 20mins before we had sex and some 3 dates. Women will never directly tell you, you have to learn how to subtly find out by testing the waters very slightly and if she reciprocates keep going if not pull back. Its an art its like pulling in the fishing line, pull to hard it will snap pull to little shell get away. Practice is the ket but every women is different and there is no one shoe fits all strategies you have to be fluid and dynamic. You will be surprised how many girls would of slept with you in the past if you just escalated.

@Preety_India hey I see you making quite a few posts recently have you ever tried doing like a long retreat or something where you don't have access to men? It's probably the best thing I have done for relationships as I found just how deep the love that resides inside you goes and it kind of frees you alot from the suffering from relationships as your ok to be on your own if you have to. Just an idea

Yes Im in a similar phase, my guilt is actually not due to the girls but because of letting go of the idea that being none monogamous is bad and can cause damage to your spiritual growth which is a limited view I held unconsciously in my psyche. Now I'm letting it go. Im becoming more and more authentic and haven't had a problem yet from any girl and they seem to be cool with it. I am trying not to take advantage of anyone tho who deep down probably wants a committed relationship tho. Yeah I don't feel hollow quite the opposite and always feel as tho I am adding the value or as much value but I do sometimes use sex as an escapism. haha yeah I think it is a phase and I think you just go with how u feel nd maybe soon we will be married who knows. I do think the more you grow on your path the more unlikely it is you will be in a relationship because the people you are compatible with start to become less and less.

@VictorB02 dont read her messages all you have to ask yourself is do you trust her? If not leave her. And give her full trust until otherwise, being secure makes the relationship secure

@JosephKnecht I'm listenjng to it now. I'm going through a similar stage, i went celibate for a yesr for spirtual growth and wantd to find a partner to be monogamous with because thats what I belived to best but I didnt anticipate how much interest I would get when I got back on the market. I look like an actor trending on Netflix and already good with girls so I get overwheled by the amout of girls who want to be with me and atm I just love being with lots of them without lables and being in the moment and tbh it's felt as tho its helped me grow spirtially. But there is also a big part of me that feels guilty and it will at somepoint blow up in my face or add more karmic debt. Also is it just another form of addiction? Really hard to know I like what he says about going through phases and just honnoring that. Whats your take on it? I would make a thread asking for help but I know alot of guys struggle so might come off abit narcissistic

Jesus this is a horrible thing to happen to someone of that age. I would recommend seeking out therapy, also read the body keeps the score and look into some of the work by Gabor Mate. Luckily most women you can trust so try not to close off your heart. As a rule from now on never send anyone you havent met before and built trust with nude photos, opted to try and meet girls in real life so you know they are real. Take the stance to not let this effect your dating life, turth is yes therr are people out there who have bad intentions, ive met my fair share of them but you meed to put yourself out there and make mistakes so you can learn. Eventually you can get to a place where you can suss people out very quickly.

I did find the very amusing also but when you think about it, there will be alot of attractive eligible women who watch his videos so hes prob trying to find a way to hook them in but you would think IG would be the best way tho he prob thinks even that would take up to much of his time. This means he can use more time pursuing enlightenment. That's my only guess.

@MrBON This is really just a common thing young guys go through as they grow into there masculinity and manhood. Firstly forgive yourself and understand this is a very normal phase for a guy to go through when younger. Getting caught up with the idea of being with the "perfect girl' only to have the reality of it shattered. I have been through many of these types of situations when younger and eventually grew out of them. I actually eventually learned that the key to mastering relationships is very simple in theory, just focus on the reality of the person not the fantasy the mind projects and it will take you the direction your both meant to go. I grantee you the reality of this girl will now way be close to the image you projected onto her, relationships are tricky and hardworking and no matter how amazing the person is they will eventually get to you in some way and cause pain. And thats just a fact of relationships and people forget this or don't have the experience to know. But that is what you would of been signing up for if you did actually get her and go out with her.

@somegirl The first couple of times I had sex it wasn't the greatest in fact it kind of sucked. It did take awhile before it started getting really good and for me to understand my sexuality. I would really hold out on having an judgement on it until you get more experienced in it. Also start researching and practicing different ideas and philosophy on sex like tantra ect. Also start doing some deep inner work on any traumas you may have regarding your sexuality and self image. The more free you become generally means the better sex you will have. The idea that a man has to have slept with alot of women for him to be good in bed is nonsense. Its actually quite easy to learn sex, way easier then say learning Jujitsu or meditation, find a guy you have good chemistry with and who will respect you and go explore and grow. Even if he sucks he can learn whilst with you some good channels on youtube about this too. Even Leo did some videos about sex back in the pre 5meo up the anus days.

I want to get that book but can't find it here in the west, what dose he say about reincarnation?

@Hello from Russia Interesting I find stage green is the prime candidate for them, especially with the ones about covid. Yellow or above is where you don't find it

@Recursoinominado I know I don't disagree with you I find it baffling too, maybe I gave them too much credit. One thing I can say for sure tho is the people I know who are into deep spiritual practices and take it seriously don't fall into this trap. The reason why they aren't busy working on all that stuff you mentioned is probably because they have a lot of deep work left to do within themselves so scapegoat it with these stupid theories.

@Recursoinominado Yeah Im seeing the same thing, I even work in a new age type place and alot of people are buying heavily into the conspiracies around COVID. I will be interested to hear what others here think on this. Who knows maybe there is some truth to it but its more the way you approach it right. They complain and moan without giving any practical solutions and they also don't seem to have a full answer as to what this so called Global Elite are planing to actually do by locking us all down. Surely global lockdowns is the last thing they would want as if anything is going to make us wake up its putting us all in isolation. Then again I actually can admit I have no clue as to what is really going on atm.

@arlin @arlin May I ask how old you are? The problem I have with this is that I have seen with my own two eyes ugly guys get absolutely amazing results. One guy particularly who was hideous get some of the best results ive ever seen. You just don't have the real life experience to back up these crazy claims. Ive mentioned this before your generation is a victim of the internet with things like social media and dating apps. When I was younger all we had was bars, clubs, parties and daygame. I must of done well over 5000 approaches so have waay more experience than the average person. Your not wrong looks do matter but its no excuse. Btw didn't RSD Tyler literally prove looks don't matter look at his results or say a guy like Tom Torero? What you have to understand is the mindsets you have are also going to heavily put girls off not your looks, why not love the way you look, be confident in it and heal your past wounds. I am not gaslighting you, if anything its the other way round because you don't have ten years experience as a dating coach seeing 1000s of guys come and go and SEE loads of ugly guys do great. its your funeral at the end of the day your like darth vader, you have been seduced by the dark side. This is a self actualization forum, so self actualize. But on a serious note, I do understand what it feels like to be in your shoes, Im not here to pick a fight I'm here too help. It dose really hurt to be cast out of living a normal life. It sucks, but there is hope, and you can change this around. There is nothing sweeter than an underdogs story. Please, try and move on from this and try and develop an amazing life with a amazing partner. You can do it mate, it may take everything you have but it can be done.

I really empathise with you guys and how this can be a very tough part to life especially in your early 20s but seriously you guys have to drop the whole obsessing over looks thing. Its a very very skewed way of looking at it. It's just not that black and white, there is far more to it than that. When I was in my early 20s I couldn't get anyone to go out with me, I then did a lot of work on myself and now its completely different story having to much choice to handle. I still look the same as I did but Im a completely different person internally so that blows the whole looks matter Idea out the window. You have to look deep within yourself about insecurities about your appearance, are they related to traumas and also what habits are you doing to feed them. Are you feeding your mind toxic ideas like black pill ect?

This guy vs Leo for ufc 255 Dana book it now

@Keyhole @Chives99 come on guys "dating in your 20s will be immature" yeah but you need the expirence or else yow are you ment to mature if you dont have the expirence in the first place? Could be a bypass. Honor your emotions, I think it would help to actually get off this forum theorizing and just get out there and take action. Yes its hard but in one sense its the best time to be on the other side of the dating market as its now so easy to meet so many amazing people that was not possible before. Ive had some very mature relationships in my early 20s. I think some of you guys need a kick up the ass lol. Stoppp the whinning ?❤. I've been to hell and back with this stuff and not once did I ever complain, the reason why was I took 100% responsibility to my sistuation, its all down to you and your mind. Btw that girl on the video was a pleasent surprise.

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@Chives99 Hey mate. I actually went exactly through this very thing and know what it feels like. I just couldn't get a relationship and it hurt alot inside as you see everyone else doing it and you think your missing out on something. I agree totally with @DianaFr but lets face it human relationships are a hugh part of life and he has every right to want to explore this and feel sad if it feels as though he can't. Around the age of 21 I had a panic attack so strong I was convinced I was going to die. I said to myself if i survive all I wanna do is make sure I atleast expirence what a deep intimate connection feels like with someone else. And that began my journey into self improvement with a whole new meaning. I was into it before but then I felt game till the end. I literally did everything i could to make it happen and through 3 to 4 years of very hard work i managed to get what I wanted. But it was no means easy. And yes its worth it and also its hard to grow spiritually if your constantly thinking about this stuff. The thing is you do have ASD i had GAD which means generalized anxiety disorder so I had a major disadvantaged but I think you might have even more of a disadvantage. What I would say is work towards actaully getting a relationship, if you really out your mind to it you can make it happen. You will need some help from people who know what they are doing and you might need to really put in alot of work but it can be done. Prob is if your on the wrong side of the dating market it can be super tough so start slow and start developing a thick skin, you will need it to succeed and work on this slowly but surely over a long period of time. Learn social skills as best you can, put yourself out there often, look to meet people who are similar to you, grown spiritually, becone an interesting person, do things that will make you more socail like say public speaking, workout and work on your fashion ect.

Yeah ketamine is powerful, shame its damaging to health so not worth taking but had some insane expirences on it

Ron is an insperation to us all, he is kind of a big deal. People know him