LfcCharlie4

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  1. @Consilience No offence, Corey Wayne is bang average, maybe he’s better at relationship teaching, most of the biggest guys are pretty dog shit, including Tripp and RSD (the worst) RSD charge $1000s for boot camps and tbe guys come back still having no idea how to even approach a girl, they just fill them with concepts & feel good crap. @Rasheed Depends what you’re looking for, if you’re looking for advice for LTRs then I wouldn’t recommend these guys, but if want to learn traditional PU, how to increase your value as a man and create the dating life YOU want then I recommend these guys. Playing With Fire- Best for online & Tinder game, teaches you how to create an epic online profile and Run effective text game. Bradicus- he was the biggest hard case ever, now travels the world as a dating coach, he’s great at daygame. John Anthony- his views on life I couldn’t disagree more with, but he’s got more results than anyone in the community, let’s just say he’s dedicated a decade to this and slept with 1000+ women, Make of that what you will, but he knows dating, but I’d say you need to make his teachings to fit your own style.
  2. Peace and happiness maybe? Im not sure why you think it’s not a good deal? You can still live life however you want and do all the “fun” things in life, whatever that means for you. It actually makes life better, there’s no resistance to the now, or to life, and you can finally enjoy each spontaneous moment? Im not sure what you think gets worse, but it allows you to live from love, happiness and understanding and life simply becomes a celebration and a permanent vacation- what’s bad about that? Im not sure who you’re reading or watching, but check out teachers like Francis Lucille, Rupert Spira and I highly recommend reading 1000 to clear up confusion around awakening.
  3. @Jacobsrw Well said, meditation needs to be done properly to see the true benefits of it, I also feel for many beginners, Guided Meditations can be of great use to help them truly understand the practice, and deal with whatever issue it is that for them into meditation, whether it’s wanting to reduce the anxiety, or an interest in opening the Chakras, and then a mix of your own meditations and Guided ones depending on your needs is what I have found to help the most. For example, guided meditations for sleep tend to be brilliant!
  4. @Leo Gura This is such a Yellow perspective, thank you for showing what that looks like, in a world full of ideologies. Unfortunately, many don't like to hear their tier 1 viewpoint isn't 100% right.
  5. @Michael569 I don’t think it is, I’m just quitting porn, and realised it could be a lot more optimal I think, I’ll get it tested.
  6. @Michael569 Okay, I’ll try get tested although it’s gonna be hard atm with Covid! I got the idea from this guy- Basically they both say how beneficial it has been for them, (guy on right actually started a clinic after how much it helped him) I’d love for you to watch it and lmk your thoughts.
  7. @Michael569 Agree with @Nahm you’re great! What’s the best ways to maximise your test naturally, without TRT? (Which I’ll probably start taking in my 30s)
  8. Yeah, this is to with energy. RASA is a transmission, psychedelics could theoretically interfere with this transmission and effect it in some way, therefore, why would they risk an interference such as this. This and several other videos on their sites, clear up most of the confusion around the LOC model (which is all it is, another model) https://www.rasatransmissioninternational.com/what-is-loc Just out of interest, have you read the book fully? The LOC model, is just that a model, to help indicate the depths of awakening, diving too deep into every teacher could be a distraction, but it's best use is to simply highlight the degrees of awakening, and make it so much easier to decipher where a teacher is coming from. I'd say it's highly accurate, of course not 100%, it was last updated in 2019, so a lot could change in a year. Any specific examples you disagree with? (Your man Francis is at 1000 The book was how I found him & Rupert actually, and Leo was how I found the book, the world works in mysterious ways.)
  9. @Raptorsin7 Yeah man, message me, wanna know how Ramaji is and lmk your current LOC.
  10. You kinda just know, after all you are your own Guru. But, I would recommend booking a session with a RASA giver such as Ramaji / Ananda or anyone on their site if you want to find out.
  11. Yes, and no. Like Pre-RASA I agree, THIS IS IT didn't hit home with me, but in reference to the OP's question, I was just stating that in fact life doesn't need to be seen as a distraction, but instead each moment can be seen as a meditation. But, I completely get your point, watching say Francis Lucille now, compared to when I was seeking, hits differently. So, it's tough. My biggest advice to anyone though is always doing the work, finding a teacher, and finding your own path. Of course I recommend RASA/ Transmissions and normal 'practices' as that's what worked for me, but there isn't one Universal path of course for all. All I meant in this case, was life doesn't need to be seen as a distraction, but as a playground, and as a chance to deepen our spirituality. How did your session with Ramaji go btw?
  12. Realise THIS IS IT. Enjoy this show, while it lasts. Have fun!
  13. The more you think you don’t need meditation, the more you probably need it. I’m an Enneagram 7, and suck at meditation as I always like to be on the go & doing, therefore I get lots of benefits from regular meditation, especially when I first started as I was a “chronic over thinker” so to speak, when Eckhart Tolle first described the voice in your head, and I noticed it, fuck me did it talk a lot. If you’re an Enneagram 9 who is naturally peaceful (Eckhart Tolle, Ramana Maharishi etc) & meditative, meditation will still have many benefits but time should also be spent doing something that is more “challenging” such as socialising or playing a sport, and that could equally be an effective “Formal meditation” But, after all meditation is not something we do, it is what we are, and life becomes a 24/7 meditation, where no resistance to the now exists. But, for newbies and intermediates Meditation is super helpful In a number of ways. Most beginners will be loaded with issues such as Anxiety, sleep issues, depression, no ability to relax, overthinking etc, meditation can help holistically deal with these issues for one. And, meditation helps you get more and more in touch with your presence in each moment, which is crucial for integrating trips, insights & realisations. But it’s not as if you can recommend one type of meditation for everyone, it depends on each unique persons needs and point in their own journey. This is also why the enneagram is so amazing, it helps you understand so much about yourself, and in this case helped me understand why I hated meditation at first, because it was taking my out my comfort zone of always being on the go. If everyone picked up a meditation practice, the world would be a better place
  14. @Onemanwolfpac You're so direct, I love it. I feel this approach is very much needed on here as many won't want to hear such bluntness.
  15. @blueberries You made some great points, you should be very picky with who you develop close relationships with I think online dating can be great when done right, and you aren’t coming from a “needy” place and can be happy with or without a partner, but like you said most want a partner for the sake of it. In terms of friends, try and find people with similar interests online or offline, most of my closest friends stem from Sport when I was younger as we have similar interests, also now a couple stem from Veganism and spirituality, again due to common interests. I would say I partially agree with you in regards to focusing on yourself and working on yourself, but I would say we should always at least be open to meeting new people from a wide range of sources, but just being picky with who we then develop deep relationships with of course
  16. Are you kicking yourself because of how simple it is
  17. THIS!!!! Any practice should not simply be done out of routine or because you 'should do it' it should be done because you want to do it and love to do it, for that is true meditation. For many, I often feel activities they love can be a greater source of meditation in many situations. And, this is not to dismiss meditation, I practice near enough everyday, but because I want to and love to, not because 'I should.' However, the one caveat I would say is at the start discipline can help form a habit, especially if your life is all over the place, and Francis is aiming this message at Non-Dual seekers, not average folk trying to meditate to improve sleep or reduce anxiety etc.
  18. Everyone is different, some people LOVE monogamy, as in it's all they desire, for others they just can't do it, and that's fine, despite what society tells you lol. Monogamy has it's benefits, I was in a LTR for 2-3 years and at times it was amazing, but then there is also benefits to being single, especially when young. Monogamy allows you to develop a deep connection with one being, and everyday is like a new day when done right and a continuous deepening of the love. BUT, like you said for the majority it is just an excuse to get lazy and slobby, but as you know when you work/ workout/ want a sick life for yourself, whether you're in a relationship or not you will maintain standards, most men will not do that. Everyone's different and just enjoy who you are right now, who knows, maybe in 5-10 years you'll still be living this lifestyle, or maybe you'll be completely different. Don't listen to society, listen to your heart. It doesn't matter how many people are married or having kids if you don't want that life, it's YOUR life, not societies. Yeah, I feel most go through a bit of an inward phase where they retreat from the world on this journey, but that's only HALF the path, the other half (Call it Outer / Tantric) is living this understanding in all realms of life, including relationships. I recommend Rupert Spira & Francis Lucille's teachings, they are 2 beings fully conscious of their true nature, and incredible teachers.
  19. The greatest paradox is that 'spirituality' is the intervention, if you have a deep burning desire to awaken, then, there is a reason for that, it is 'your' time to awaken and come home, if you don't then go off and do whatever your heart desires in this lifetime, and when the time is right the 'natural intervention' will take place, whether in this lifetime or another! Then 'what's left' is simply the celebration of this beautiful thing we call Life in every moment, free from the burden of the separate self, and living as the Self that you are, while being your unique expression simultaneously. You don't have to 'devote your whole life' to it forever, and if you don't want to, during the 'seeking' process it's very common to want to do so, but it's 1000% worth it. Then once you realize what you was after is always THIS and right here, and you become conscious of your true nature, you life your life expressing this happiness, love and understanding in your own unique ways. And, more importantly than anything else, YOU WILL BE HAPPY AND ARE FREE TO ENJOY LIFE HOW YOU WANT TO. No rules, no restrictions, but how YOU want to live! Absolute freedom!
  20. I suffered with terrible acne when I was 14-16 and this is great advice, here's the best advice I've found on top of this- 16oz Celery Juice every morning on an empty stomach- this has helped clear up my final bouts I had on my back and legs by 70-80% so far. Limit unhealthy fats as well, I would completely recommend following a Medical Medium cleanse, which is essentially high in fruits, veg and CCC's (Clean carbs) & low in overt-fats, check out his books. Transform your lifestyle- Vitamin D daily, quit porn (and when you have sex replenish with Zinc & Maca), exercise daily, only drink water & herbal teas, and start having cold showers every morning. Yes, it's a lot, but Acne is a sign of a much deeper internal problem, fix that and the Acne disappears!
  21. If your friends are enjoyable to be around and they improve your life overall then keep deepening the relationship with them. If they are toxic and draining you and overall decreasing your quality of life then be honest with them and cut ties. meaningful relationships are one of the great joys of existing, but you just have to be careful with who you get close to. Personally I love all of my close friends so much, and will forever be friends with people who I enjoy being round and who benefit my life but I’m a very social person!
  22. You don't need to invest large amounts of money, but of course that would help. There's people out there who literally teach how to grow your Spotify, Soundcloud etc, just research, make sure they're legit and learn from them would be your best bet, emulating people who have the results you want. NEVER feel like you have to do it on your own, help and support is essential on your journey. What helps artists more than anything in the modern age is 'Viral' songs, if you think about recent rappers it only takes one song to blow up, to change their careers- Lil Nas X (old town road), Juice WRLD- Lucid Dreams (RIP), Lil Tecca- Ransom You of course want to build a relationship with your fans, fans love that in the modern day! Focus on what YOU are best at, and (eventually) outsource the rest, of course that would be the Music. Do you think Drake and Ariana Grande are making FB posts about their album release, of course they interact from time to time, but they have teams doing so much for them. An independent artist who is pretty conscious tbf & didn't go the record label route is 'Mr Traumatik' he found his audience in DnB (raves) and has become famous in that niche and makes a lot of $$$ and gets to create the music he wants as a result. Studying him could be helpful- https://www.mrtraumatik.com/ His insta, soundcloud, spotify, Youtube etc could give you some ideas, he's been around for like a decade at this point. Although, he hasn't had that true viral tune that someone like Devilman had that made him even more famous! Good luck! I would also add, try and add some form of structure to it, but not to the point it dampens your creativity, like don't force yourself to release music on X day, but also don't release a song a decade and wonder why no progress is being made
  23. @Hardik No such thing as an enlightened person, since consciousness is all that exists @Nahm is simply one of the 0.001% of beings who are conscious of their true nature, for everyone is that, but most are far from conscious of it.
  24. @ivankiss Just wanted to say you handled that well, Love is impressed David Deida talks about masculinity & femininity really well In his book “The way of the superior man” and how in a thriving relationship they need to be balanced one way or the other. (Usually the Male providing the masculinity & female the femininity, but doesn’t have to be, and in same sex couples there is still this balance, usually it’s clear to see) Yin and Yang all that
  25. @Moon Tell your brother to check out 'Healthy Gamer' complete abstinence isn't always the best approach with behavioral addictions, this guy mixes eastern wisdom with western psychology to help people overcome their addictions, and develop a healthy relationship to gaming. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClHVl2N3jPEbkNJVx-ItQIQ