Thought Art

@Jannes I don't understand that. Him hating women and him being a simp? Are they related? They seem like Yin and Yang of unskillful interaction with what we want in live. Do we bow and beg and be a weak man for sex and affection? Or do we attack, hate, reject, yell, demonize and feel anger towards our objects of desire? What, what if there was another way? There is,... It start's with seeking truth, forgiving yourself and others, and building yourself into a man of quality, strength, integrity, balance, value, honesty, playfulness, relaxation, joyfulness, sexually healthy and willing to change.

What does simps have to do with HIS mind? His hate? His thoughts? His pain? His perception? Nothing at all. I love this man because I love myself. I love my brothers and sisters. I see beyond their nightmares, their conflicts, their poor behaviour and I see God in them. Their goodness. I meet myself and others with forgiveness. It’s not the simps, it’s not Hot women. It’s his mind, his thoughts, what he has learned, his inner conflict, his fear, his lack of self image, self worth and self love. Luckily, all of that can be worked on. These interactions likely aren’t as they were. His story telling and perception is distorting what actually happened, and what an appropriate response is. If you need to attack, yell, ridicule, punch, do harm, be aggressive, etc… your way way off the mark and it’s a true sign you are living in a nightmare. You can’t control other men, or other women. But, you can work on seeing the truth that reality is kind. The mind is good. There is sexual abundance.

@Basman 🫶🏼

@Basman Not only is he emotionally reactive, and easily triggered. He says they are his enemies, what do you think about that? What would you say to a man who hates attractive women, and says they are his enemies?

@NoSelfSelf Please self reflect on your behaviour.

Bro, are you okay? Is feeling, and thinking a problem? What is being sensitive to you? My approach to women does not make them bitter. I find your response bazaar. Please self reflect, Dinosaur sarcasm. — With regards to Bebos post I want to be very clear… As mods we are supposed to set an example. If you see your brother openly talking about wanting to hurt women, and women get hurt because you said nothing, and he gets hurt for hurting them…. That to me is sad. Be a leader, and even if you don’t know the right things to say you might as well try. A man who can’t see himself as a protector of women, as someone who loves women has gone deeply in the wrong direction. You’re here on the Actualized forum for a reason because you likely believe in personal development. You are here to grow. We can’t police everything. Can’t help everyone. But, he posted this on the forum. This is an opportunity for him to receive feedback on this toxic and twisted aspect of his mind. What he is lacking is love. If he loved himself, and felt love from others he wouldn’t be hurting women, hating women, demonizing women and turning them into enemies. He would be a masculine, strong and decent man. If you don’t see how love could help a man like this, in this way you deeply misunderstood human psychology. Masculine men, are capable of developing emotional intelligence too. A masculine mature man, can recognize when another man is lacking love in his life. If you guys are having these types of aggressive thoughts towards women, see how that closes and shuts you off from loving and healthy relationships. Go seek help. It’ll be worth it.

@NoSelfSelf He didn’t ask for help. Okay, if you wanna be a jerk go ahead. I am surprised and disappointed in your response and attitude. I expect more form fellow mods. But, hey. Hopefully you can self reflect as well. I want this thread to stay open so we can self reflect on this.

I live on stolen land too But I don’t go around lying and bullshitting

@Nivsch I think if you saw the truth you would puke and cry.

Or you don’t know the full history

@Javfly33 ? When did I say I was above a crack user?

@halfknots What is that

@bebotalk As a man, in my view we don’t view foolish, childish, or selfish people as enemies. We see them as children, as people deserving of love but don’t know any better. Much like the love I’m showing you now. I am holding you accountable to man the fuck up, and love. Stop treating women as if they are your enemies. They are not.

@Bobby_2021 What would you say to a man going through this? Send him some truth and love. Come on guys. He isn’t the only many going through this. Let’s bring this thread around.

I’ve decided to unhide this. Men of the forum, please speak to this man so he can reflect on these thoughts. This here, is a good man going through an extremely toxic idealogy/ trauma. Brother, you are more loved than you know. Please, please get help. You might say “Thought art, don’t unhide this be kind” He literally posted this on the forum. If there is some chance we can help him heal this, and protect these women at the same time. He is a protector, but currently is seeing enemies in BEAUTY. Beauty, my friends… beauty is not an enemy. Send him some love guys. Please speak to someone before you hurt yourself or someone else. Your thoughts are currently extremely twisted. But, they are not you. Most women you see are GOOD. They are good people, mothers, employees, lovers, etc You are also a good man. The pain you are experiencing is because of how you are thinking. It’s not actually true in reality. Women love people who love them. Whatever toxic material you’ve been consuming is untrue. Take the coming weeks to work through this, turn your ship toward higher seas. Do NOT hurt anyone. Your mind is lying to you. Do you want to live in world of hate? Do you want to live in a world of fear? Do you want to live in a world where your surrounded my enemies? All that exists only in your mind. It’s time you faced the truth. You are surrounded by beauty and love all the time but you can’t see it.

I preordered it

Sounds like a title I wanna read. May be the first one I read all the way through but haven't looked into it. I love Ken's work. I've listened to many talks. However, I have other books I read and only so much time. This one sounds like it builds off the models I enjoy.

@MarkKol I avoid flouride. I hadn't used it for like 3 years. At the dentist they do with thing where they cover your teeth for like 3 minutes in this flouride past. It definitely creates a happy brain fog.

True, I guess I just meant there is a risk of residue with pipes and dab rigs

Homeostasis is an important part of survival. Just like the body wants to survive and stay as it is so does the ego mind. Homeostasis is an important part of surviving as a human. But, it’s also a constraint to growth and awakening. That being said, it’s a good thing overall. It doesn’t create challenges. But, without it we would die. You will likely never fully destroy the ego mind. It’s sort of like a hand or foot. I can change, and operate at higher and more healthier, holier, and more god like ways as it develops and grows through a mixture of different types of experiences.

Such a good show

These people I think are really worst criminals as they hurt so many

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Haven’t used it intentionally in years and my teeth are fine.