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@peebz The problem is that he has to spend a lot of time with them. He’s best off trying to mitigate any worsening of a toxic school environment. He simply needs to shut up about himself. Take more interest in them/ just focus on his schooling. He may need to talk to a teacher and create space between them and himself. Saying less is a golden rule of work and school. Don’t make it worse by fighting them. say less, relax about it. Be kind. People change over time.

Simply start seeing other people as facts of nature like trees or rocks. Don’t go about trying to get people into personal development who are friends or relatives.

@Gabith Vernon Howard talks a lot about this. Pathways to perfect living is a good book on this. Dealing with sleepy people is challenging. Simply, become an apprentice of human nature. Look to understand them. People are Good. But, they are also selfish, petty, envious, short sighted, opinionated etc. Masculine love means creating boundaries, not giving a shit about assholes and dealing with these types of people skillfully. Not everyone is gonna be your “friend” or “buddy”. People want YOU to listen more about them. Take interest in them. Say less about you. People will love you for it.

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@Gabith The book “The Laws of Human Nature” has a good on jealousy and why it’s best to just say less. You can be present and loving still. Don’t stop that. Just, say less.

I’d say, focus on your school work and say less about yourself. Say less, show off less and focus on the school work. It’s often best in life to not show yourself fullly to people at school or work. No one knows you, no one needs to know you. Be kind and professional. Then, allow your understanding of them to unfold over time.

@Galyna yes, I’ll reply in a bit

@Galyna I think the roles can be played out mutually. We can both as questions to deeper understanding of each others words, experiences etc You seem to be in a teacher role atm, wanna start there?

@Galyna hey, I am very interested in this topic. Could we use the Socratic method going forward? Let me know if we can discuss that for a few responses before we go about discussing ego.

I’d like some examples

No I’m saying the opposite hehe, I’m a Qigong teacher don’t forget I can understand why you assumed that though. All good.

@Leo Gura that’s it 100 respawns

@Galyna but if I kill my ego suffering ends If I kill my body and my ego I’m pretty sure it ends and s just love

Honestly, did you “try” to achieve this or did it happen

I can see sounds. Albums are like movies for me. When I write music it’s like paints for me… but I paint with emotion and the colours and shapes in my head. “Though my language is dead still the shapes fill my head” - Arcadefire Also, I have dreams of the future. Like vivid dreams of events yet to come. I also sometimes can feel peoples energy from a distance. I still don’t fully get that yet but it’s at least partially accurate.

How about you ask him more questions instead of accusing him of racism. I think that’s so rude. I’ve reported your post. Please try to look at human social relationships with more nuance. Try rewatching his “Limits of stage green video” after studying spiral dynamics, human survival, collective ego, conscious politics, and human values survey and I think the video will be more recontextualized.

Been there, Rest up and ground yourself. Interested in hearing more.

I don’t understand what is meant here can you clarify? Have you heard of the work by people like Marcus Garvey? Also when there’s so many factors why are you singling out genetics? Lastly, you don’t think all white peoples are smarter than all black people? Because I’ve met smart and stupid people of all skin colours.

@xbcc I think that’s the secret. If I can’t grow hair on my head I should at least grow it in my balls.

@Danioover9000 what do you mean?

Maybe, I do think that if you want to accuse someone of being right wing and having hidden motives it’s useful to back it up. I also think simply telling people your mind is too deep instead of explaining makes me think you haven’t thought that deeply and maybe are reacting emotionally. There’s a lot of nuances in Leo’s work. He is acting from a tier 2 perspective. Both the left and right have weaknesses that should be discussed. And, reality is a messy place. Humans are complex and really don’t even fit into these left and right fantasies that float around. You might as well share what you think. Like, if what he said about ethnocentrism was a right wing thing to say I’d like to know why. Do you really fear creating controversy? I personally find a lot of how you speak controversial and inflammatory.

@Ulax I love it

Personally, I’m going to work on communicating less violently and more in a Socratic fashion. I thought sharing my thought process may be of interest to others. Theres no intent to manipulate or police others.