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@mr_engineer Dude I think I get the some of the points you are trying to get across, and I think there needs to be more consideration given to the aspects of the issues you touch upon. However, I don't think the way you are going about promoting the issue is helping your cause. It seems to me the way you are communicating is more likely to polarise people against your points of view. I understand it may be a subject you feel strongly about. It seems that way to me. However, I think its important to be conscious about how you put your message across. Otherwise, I think you'll likely be harming the very cause you want to promote.

@UnbornTao Hiya i'm not too sure what you mean by your second and third paragraphs, and am not sure how to provide you with more clarity re my point.

@RMQualtrough I think you're throwing the baby out with the bathwater. Firstly re dating some people want high levels of abundance in their dating life, which to my mind require a much higher level of attractiveness that most people in relationships. Also, I think people with mental health issues will have to invest a lot more time and self-work into getting the sorts of healthy relationships that come naturally to those without mental health issues. Secondly, Re the spirituality thing, I think I get where you're coming from. On my end tho, I'd say your example is more an issue of spiritual bypassing. I think spirituality is better treated like the icing on the cake of life. When its used as a means of overcoming traumas, I think that is often a trap. I think there's are many v useful aspects of self-help and also quite a few non-useful aspects of it.

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@RMQualtrough Ye I think so too. I think there are plenty of folks who live reasonably happy lives without ever transcending ego. Also, these days we have things like depth psychotherapy that didn't used to be around

@spiritual memes Ye i agree

@Optimized Life I don't think dudes who had loving upbringings with a healthy sense of direction in their lives will necessarily need self-help to live enjoyable lives. However, I think that for many men some self-help is important.

@ThePoint I think i've had some new thoughts re your situation. I think it could be that, given your upbringing, a lot of your motivation came from meeting needs of one or both of your parents. Perhaps, you then projected that onto things in your life, i.e. doing well in gym will meet parents needs. However, i think it may be a life experience or reflection on life experience may have been interpreted as making it seem to you, unconsciously, that meeting their needs is not possible. Hence, the lethargy. I would try to get a new attachment figure in therapy to effectively replace an unconscious understanding of an attachment figures expectations of you. In the meantime, I think it might be worth looking online for male authority figures who trigger a sense of motivation within you via their videos. Then again, it might be that your current situation is a means of attaining a need for independence, through a sort of rebellion against the control of your life by parents. So, maybe, what i see to be, your repeated asking for advice will continually lead to more rebellion, as each piece of advice you try to follow further negates your need for independence. Also, if you have lots of thoughts tell you that you need to do X or Y, you could d a meditation where, using your inner voice, you shout 'fuck off' at them. I understand this to be what Pete Walker, a seemingly well-regarded and expert complex trauma psychotherapist recommends in part for trauma recovery from cluster-b style parenting.

@bmcnicho I'm somewhat of the same opinion. However, I am aware that it could all be, what I see to be, very strategic use of opinions from Leo. Though, I don't find myself that confident regarding the latter point of view.

@bmcnicho At least in part, are you saying that the net effect of Leo's posting this video could likely be to make republican's have more success in the midterm? Also, I believe I understand where you are coming from when you say these are Leo's personal political views. On my end, I think that a lot of Leo's claims were not so much his own political views but instead about the level of consciousness with which political issues are being thought and approached by many on the left. Finally, it appears you think there is a divide between Leo's recent video on the left and self-actualization and spiritual development. However, to my mind, a significant aspect of self-actualization is to do with moving up and integrating spiral stages (re spiral dynamics). Stage yellow is one of these stages. Stage yellow, to my understanding, has a lot to do with thinking about big picture issues in a systemic and competent fashion. To my mind, it appears that Leo's video on when the left goes to far will likely give people watching on the left the opportunity to move up from stage green to stage yellow, hence aiding their self-actualization. Further, if more people raise their consciousness surrounding politics, then it seems to me to follow that society will increase in consciousness, and a society that increases consciousness will give, on the societal level, dramatically more people the ability to self-actualise.

@Rasheed Perhaps you could work on self-amusing more in your interactions. I think that way you could improve your social skills, meet your no. of interactions goal, and also be more stimulated.

Hi @Sucuk Ekmek, I don't quite understand what you are intending to communicate. However, I would like to. Would you be willing to explain what you are intending to communicate in different words?

@ThePoint Do you have a strong sense of self? To my mind, I.e. do you have a narrative of your life that isn't judgmental of you. And explains what happened in major portions of your life.

Maybe this could be of value to you. You could contemplate the central case methodology of defining things. I.e. there are two sense of being a philosopher. One version is being a philosopher in the fullest sense. This being the central case of a philosopher. And the other where you are a philosopher, but its a marginal case of being a philosopher, a perversion of being a philosopher. In the same way that someone might say that instant coffee is coffee but it is not coffee in the fullest sense and instead its a perversion of coffee. So, you could say that anyone who studies multiple books that are seen as being about investigating the nature of reality is a philosopher. However, to be a philosopher in the truest sense you have to question everything and think for yourself. If you do not do so, you are still a philosopher, but you are a perversion of a philosopher, a marginal case of being a philosopher.

@Optimized Life Also, I think Leo's most recent vid, about when the left goes too far, might help you feel more welcome on the forum. Also, I think it will help you feel less polarised with the other side.

@Optimized Life Brother i empathise with your viewpoints, and I think you bring up something that needs to be discussed. I think the issue of false accusations is not given enough consideration and also many aspects of men's rights issues are not given adequate consideration. However, I do think you have jumped to a conclusion regarding the effect of rape compared to the effect of a life in prison for a crime you didn't commit. I think the effect of both is going to really depend on quite a few different factors that are at play, i.e. victim support, mental health prior to incident etc. And, I think I'm just making educated guesses with those examples, would need to research it more I think. But, I'd recommend thinking about the rapes in the situation like the toybox killer's. If you look at the accounts of the rapes that happened there, I think you may have a different perspective. I do want to warn you that I think reading events of that case will likely be really disturbing.

I haven't but looks like that game would scare the shit out of me haha.

@Bad_anarchist Do you have any sources regarding the immigration issues? I think I might have been rather green on immigration previously, and not been prepared to look into the systemic issues surrounding immigration. So, I would appreciate content on immigration.

Especially the witch subtype

I get folks apparent disapproval of tate and not wanting him encouraged. However, I think there is a real case to be made that discouraging people from watching Tate is an example of jumping out of the frying pan and into the fire.

@inFlow Hey dude, From my perspective, I think there could be a variety of things at play. I think it could be to do with adhd, mental health issues, ongoing traumatic circumstance in your life, diet, inflammation etc. I think by asking some questions I might be able to be more effective in my advice. Do you have an understanding of your own personal boundaries? I.e. what would constitute abusive behaviour

@something_else I think it counterintuitively might actually be rather effective. To my understanding, the suffragettes used to do all sorts of things that pissed a lot of people off back in the day for the women's movement. I can't remember the name of the psychological model but I remember studying something about how minority groups provoke social change. I think the first step, in that model, is to draw attention to your movement. Whether or not these activists here are thinking strategically like that is another question tho.

From a report I saw, the activists had checked in advance that the work was glazed, so the soup would cause no damage and could simply be wiped away

@Leo Gura Nice

@AuroraDream Interesting. Assuming your claim is based on evidence, can you show me the evidence that bases your claim that covid vaccines do not prevent transmission from person to person?