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@Thought Art Why'd you reply that to my comment?

Any identity is a social construct even these new woke ones

Nah don't think so

@Danioover9000 I tried but i was blinded by the sun reflecting off of his bald head ;( I'm now blind in two eyes

@Danioover9000 Damn I found a fan Yippee!

@Danioover9000 I somewhat agree. I'm just trying to point out dogma for the benefit of the poster, as well as those who read the comment.

@KH2 I think there's value to what you're saying here dude. However, I notice a pattern of absoluteism in the way you post. It seems to me you frequently jump from one ideology to another, and claim it is the best and claim its the way to go from everyone.

@spiritual memes Lmao. *Andrew Tate in therapy* Therapist: Is the matrix in the room with us right now Andrew?

@How to be wise From your posts it seems like you have changed quite significantly. You had a lot of success with Byron Katie's stuff no?

@integral Think it depends upon where you are in terms of your own level of emotional mastery. As well as how the problems relate to issues in your own personal life.

@Rasheed No, I don't think so. You would need proper reference experiences, imo. For example, MMA training.

@Max_V I think it would depend on her attachment style. If she is not secure, she might react adversely. Also, I think it would depend on why you were being vulnerable. Are you sharing your vulnerabilities to build intimacy or are you trying to get her to fix you? I think non violent communication could be a useful way to learn to be vulnerable. That said, I lack direct experience in this area, so am drawing mostly from theory. ----- Edit: Also, imo, at some point, you have to ask yourself what do you want from a relationship?

@How to be wise Seems like a real lack of integrity she's suffering from. I reckon she has an egoic agenda that is the backbone of her political career. Hence such a big switch.

@Butters Perhaps a meditation practice could help. You could learn to watch and process through the urges that come up.

@KH2 You meditate?

@KH2 Makes sense to me dude. I have a part of me that Tate figures strongly pull on to.

@KH2 Ah i get you

@KH2 ?

@King Merk Lack of healthy father figures in male's lives Lack of educational opportunities Just being young and impressionable Abusive pasts Charismatic leader Those are some of my guesses

My picks

@Hardkill Sounds like you've done some good work in the dating arena so far. Although, I see no mention of inner work, I'd look into that

@evgn I think in about 20 year or so we'll see a real push back against bodyshaming men. We just live in less progressive times imo. But such is the nature of progress

@LoneWonderer Imo, life experiences, circumstances and genetics bring people here. If i didn't have a laptop i wouldnt be here. If i hadn't been into RSD i wouldn't be here. Lots of different factors i think. I guess a certain pen mindedness is essential.

Nice to meet you too dude . happy holidays!