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Maybe send a gift but skip the wedding. Instead, meetup with him for a drink/ coffee/ hike. That way you can meetup with him again and celebrate with him. However, you don't have to disrupt your schedule or meet up with unwanted people from your past.

@BlessedLion Hey dude, I do IFS work weekly with a therapist.

@Sugarcoat Sounds to me like those are depressive/ dissociative symptoms. Have you done any work with body scan meditation or yoga nidra?

@Username Gotcha. All the best with it mate

Can help calm the nervous system

How would you approach something like legal reasoning?

Ah I see. Well if he does it at the same location where the same people notice him, that goes against the need for anonymity to a degree. I mean the easy, and straightforward fix is to just go some other location. Or just mix up where you go. The fuck lmao. I guess depends on how your friend was approaching to warrant that or not. What did the flyer even say lol? "PUAs in this area! If engaged, Call 911!".

How do you judge that something is more or less correct from within a given purposive context?? But how do you decide what constitutes an 'airplane' or what constitutes 'flying', without appealing to a transcendental truth?

@simp Ah shit, yeah anonymity is essential for pick up. Its a reason why most coaaches recommend doing it in bigger cities. Sounds like he's doing it in a small town?

I guess my previous question comes from the following question. How you can ever make an argument for anything if you don't believe in transcendental truth?

Damn. Just read this, and loved this article.

On one hand, you have to engage in deliberate practice to get good at it imo. Things like field reporting. A lot of guys don't do that. So lack of results can be due to that. On the other hand, I think a lot of dudes can just get retraumatised from it too. Hence the lowered self esteem and less results. Happened to me for sure. Really fucked me up for awhile actually. And the pua community isn't too understanding when it comes to that sort of thing lol. Particularly if you're a hardcase newb in the community.. Deep meditation and depth psychotherapy is a needed thing for a lot of guys in the community. I agree with Leo that most guys get involved in pua as a sort of neurotic overreaction to negative experiences in their lives, ie were bullied at school.

How can you argue its necessary and valid, when you don't believe in transcendent truth? (At least i assume you don't)

@Bobby_2021 Ah yeah thanks. Forgot about the different types of categorizations in EDT

@Leo Gura Can you give some sub categories of construct-awareness pls?

@Bobby_2021 I like your point about recognising the social constructiveness of any concept. But I think Destiny would probably agree that all concepts are socially constructed.

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@Username Burn out from untreated adhd could be a possibility too. Have you tried stimulant medication?

Interesting take

Can get audibles and work through this book list: https://davidtianphd.com/recommended-readings/

Bro Destiny literally is god

Damn. Disgraceful behavior from mr gpt

@HMD Because for the untrained mind, life is full of suffering.

@Jesus Christ omg it really you?! I've read all your books and everything!