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@Thought Art You're welcome bro. Been really working on my conscious leadership skills lately, so means a lot to get appreciated.

"If its known then you just contradicted yourself". What is your justification for that? (Tee-Hee)

I see. The 'Wait in my mum's basement and let the girls come to me' technique lol

I don't understand

@r0ckyreed You can never know anything definitively. Anytime someone claims something to be true, they try to justify it in some way. But that justification relies on another justification, and so on, and on, and on.... and on.... So, nothing can be known definitively.

@NoSelfSelf What is your actual experience in game? How many approaches have you done?

Work on your self talk. Just experiment and reflect. Try out saying different things to yourself in the moment and see what helps you to approach. Experiment with saying a variety of things to say for yourself. For example, i know 1) "I get to" or "She gets to" thinking helps me. I.e. "She gets to meet me". Or "I get to approach her". 2) "Who the fuck would have the ball to do that?" helps me too.

Someone will ask why their mum died, and noself will says it because they didn't have game

You have my permission

#IStandWithForumLeo

Main reason I use forum is for sense of community. AI can't grant that, at least now.

*Panics in Baghdad*

Religion can be very helpful for red to blue. Just look at violent prisoners who convert to a religion.

Well I guess, in Spiral Dynamics, the idea would be that you focus on all these stage orange successes for a while. Until you hit the limitations of the stage, and start moving more strongly into Green. Main limitations are lack of connection to others, and just overall emptiness of orange success.

I can understand rationality and being scientific as being at yellow and orange. However, I don't understand how you are fitting personal responsibility at yellow.

That sounds like classic orange, not yellow. Though I guess would depend on what you mean by personal responsibility.

@El Rio https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m0qh5erbSmk&t=562s&pp=ygUYYWN0dWFsaXplZC5vcmcgdHVycXVvaXNl

I think my dad was pretty emotionally unavailable. Had some positive traits for sure but also was/is a bit f*cked in the head too lmao.

When post long videos, would request we, at least, post a summary of the main argument we are trying to make please.

@QandC Congrats on the addiction progress dude. Sounds like it was a very tough place to be.

Not enlightened myself. However, I thought of this video from Shinzen Young: https://youtu.be/ptkH0uK1uXM

Wish I could comment from direct experience. However, unfortunately, I'm an unawakecel .

Meditation is classic for broke boy self-development.

No need to apologize for delays due to health issues, imo, mate. All the best with your health issues.

I feel when it comes to dating advice people should take advice from people of the same sex. Aside from foundational things like working on trauma and attachment style.