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I don't like that you call them weirdos. Just because people are awkward/ lost doesn't mean they are weirdos.

Makes sense. I respect the calling out.

Fair points. Though I would imagine misandry does have a non-nominal impact on male suicide. But I don't know.

gotcha

Wait so you are asking me who hurt me lol? I'm confused who you are talking to.

I'll try reply to the rest as i can.

Not all feminists are the same quality of thinkers. But i understand your frustrations.

I might have this too. I'm not sure though. I think i have mental health stuff, and i also get ragebaited on the internet all day, so my negative emotions might come from that lol. You watch much Dr K btw Miguel?

Feminists don't do enough to call out the misandry from those who identify as feminists. Its natural that misandry gets associated with the movement.

Actually, seeing the definition of friends you said later, I do have a group of online friends. We hangout on tiktok live and discord lol

Bro that guy is the opposite of a healthy role model. I mean he has his positives, but most of his content is pretty hateful.

I mean best way, to me, would be to buy a product where the creator has run a scientific experiment on what works, and then do that. Not a very growing experience, and corrupt, but will work.

Dr K is goatd I like David Tian too. He has a really interesting perspective of going from Philosophy academic -> Pick up coach -> IFS therapist/ Youtuber (Does absolutely milk his clients with his program prices though lol)

Just my brother, really. I cut everyone from my childhood out. So just my bro from the old days. New friends wise I've struggled with. But my mind was mostly consumed with my life being a mess for quite a few years so i think that got in the way alot.

I think the issue when it comes to having kids with someone with mental illness is that people with mental illness have significantly worse expected outcomes in life. And that inevitably represents a risk when it comes to the outcomes that your kids will experience. Both in terms of their ability as a parent, and in terms of the genes they pass down. I say that as someone who deals with serious mental health issues. Its not fair but it is a reality.

Jheez

LOL

Bro come on. That claim is so universal that even a single exception disproves it. One example is Griselda Blanco. She was a Colombian drug lord, and being a Colombian drug lord is all about power.

I hope they have good cybersecurity for these. Imagine a hacker programs them to steal your stuff and put you in an armbar

@HopefulMan What is your career/ job, relationship (platonic/ romantic), exercise, diet, health situation like too? No pressure to say. But these things all help too.

Not sure i have any specific resources on it. I'd recommend listening to a therapist in regards to it. This one long but i like the content creator:

Bro I'd look into dissociation too

Honestly I just think the dude went botox final boss and also did a deep dive into meditation. The latter partly resulting in him becoming dogmatic/ preachy about spirituality.

Hey mate, very sorry to hear you had to endure such terrible abuse. I respect your determination to address the consequences that have stemmed from it. I'd recommend looking into the diagnosis of CPTSD. (Sorta occurs when you've had repeated relational traumas) Here is a useful resource too: http://integralguide.com/ I don't know too much about treating CPTSD through psychedelics, but it seems risky to me. But CPTSD treatment seems still in its infancy, so its hard to say what exactly works that well. I'm committed to IFS therapy for treating my CPTSD but I've had too few results with it to give it a confident recommendation anymore. Tho it may be more an issue of how im applying it. IFS is a very open minded therapy tho. If you wanna go the therapy route there are probs therapists out there who work with cptsd clients that take psychedelics too, and help them integrate.