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You should have said "we never were". Anyways, this sounds like she is abusing the relationship. I'm guessing the situation might be even worse than what you're willing to share. I would break up with her. When people play games with you like this don't put up with it - ever.

The truth is you have no control over what they may or may not do, but you do have control over how you perceive that vulnerability. The more open and trusting you are of your partner, the more they will appreciate you and won't want to abuse that trust. It's counter-intuitive. You will gain the most strength by completely letting go and opening up to the possibility something will go wrong.

What are you doing where you're seeing guys kiss and have sex with each other enough that it's a problem for you lol?

I don't see why you'd have to tell them, but if the topic came up I'm sure they'd appreciate the honesty. It's not something that's worth much energy worrying about, just deal with it if it comes up in whatever way you need to. There is a first time for everything right? I didn't tell the first girl I was with I was a virgin, and I got the sense she didn't care either way. I just pretended I knew what I was doing and had a good time

probably some sort of maintenance, not a big deal

Either she committed some sort of crime(s) and it's interesting, or it's not. I don't want to watch an entire documentary just to find out "Teal Swan is a mean bitch to her employees and peers like Ellen Degenerates."

What did she do? Is she running an abusive sex cult on some rural Indiana farm, is she scamming people of thousands of dollars for fake courses?

Being good at texting isn't that important other than it helps you secure dates. On the other hand though if you are terrible at texting and really dry/boring than it can hurt your chances, as you won't even got an opportunity for a date in the online dating world.

1. Don't have sex with anybody you don't want to. 2. Don't overanalyze about things having to be perfect, whether it's an experience or the girl you're with.

Yes it's critical to spend time getting to know different kinds of people and finding out which personalities/lifestyles you are most/least compatible with, it also helps you get to know yourself more. You might have one relationship that lasts a year or a few and seems good, but it will end and the next thing might be 10x better (or worse). Getting experience is key. You don't want to end like most people who are in shit relationships. People wonder why marriages collapse so often, despite all the hype around the commitment and spending tens of thousands of dollars to show how big of a deal it is. It's because people get lazy and settle with the first person they find, then they find out a few years down the road it was the wrong person but they had no idea because they didn't gain any experience before making such a massive investment like marriage. Don't be like most people.

I guess I will inaugurate this new section with one of my favorite clips ever What is your favorite cartoon of all time? Futurama for me all the way.

I don't understand what you're asking, being fuck buddies is already an agreement of no commitment. So you can't really cheat on each other.

In my opinion the only time you should really consider staying in a relationship with a partner who cheated is if you're married and/or already have children. Take some couples therapy and work it out, as kids without stable parents or raised by one parents usually turn out messed up. Otherwise if a partner cheats I'm dipping, 100% non-negotiable boundary for me. If they got pregnant from someone else that's even worse, I'd make them get a paternity test. Not paying a bloody penny for someone else's kid. I don't think this is harsh at all.

Yea you don't have to be outright toxic about it, but you can keep teasing her and see where it leads. I did this a lot in online dating many years ago as I was trying to get experience. I would push every interaction as far as I possibly could to get practice and learn what works/what doesn't.

If she was really interested she would be hiding the fact she sells her body for money, until she brings it up in the relationship later. (Not a moral judgement btw if people want to do that they are free). Her business strategy is to fake interest and prey on female adoration.

I mean really just block/ignore/move on as there is nothing really to gain from this, she is a sex worker and just wanted to bait her next client. If you want to practice persistence though your only real play here is to pull her leg and neg her into getting laid. I would advise just staying away though, probably has STDs or is crazy.

Tell her your fuck is so good she should be paying you.

You answered your own question in your post.

School, work, friends, day game, online dating, even bars. Anything is better than clubs.

Then stop going to clubs. You are looking for fresh water fish in a salt water ocean.

lol

Whenever you get ghosted it's a good thing (though it certainly doesn't feel good), it means you dodged a bullet. People who ghost are usually emotionally underdeveloped/immature. All the women I've known who ghost are usually fuckin nuts.

If you aren't attracted to her, and didn't want to have sex. You did the right thing. There is nothing more to analyze or understand about the situation. Go find someone you're attracted to.

Treat each other kindly ¯\_(ツ)¯\_