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If it's a small amount and a one time thing that doesn't hurt your budget, then I don't think it's an issue. If she is asking for a lot or it's happening frequently, you have to ask some questions and have a serious conversation before any money is handed over. You need to challenge her on any spending habits or lifestyle decisions she might have that are adding up. Don't shame her obviously, but sit down with her and go through credit card and bank statements and see where improvements can be made. If she trusts you enough to ask for money, then she should be open enough to share her finances with you as well.

It doesn't have to be a complicated speech just say, "Hey I had a good time the other night, but I'm not looking for anything serious at the moment." The worst thing you can do is say nothing, bottling up your emotions and also not giving him any closure.

There is weeb stuff? Where, I will crush it. It's an abomination!

The key to complimenting women successfully is these two things; - Pointing out really subtle or seemingly insignificant things, that show you're being thoughtful and observant of them. - Doing it spontaneously, or during an off-time when she wouldn't normally expect a compliment. It will spike her emotional state.

Honestly Sam is right. Even if some laws need to be broken and some hypocrisy is to be had - Trump should have been denied the presidency and should be again in the future. He is just so fundamentally corrosive things that any alternative is a better path. People who think otherwise are complicit in griefing society.

As far as forums go this is one of the better ones. There are some truly toxic cesspits out there. You can't over moderate either or else you kill interesting discussions or people get bored and want to leave. It's a personal development forum as well so remember that. People are coming here with issues they want to solve and things they want to work on. You aren't going to find a lot of fully developed conscious people here because, why would they need this forum?

Pick a healthy replacement habit and stick to it. You need to rewire your brain and the association you have with cigarettes to something else, like walking or push-ups. Just quitting cigarettes will not work.

If you want to sleep with the hottest/fittest women just go to an escort service. It's like $300 which is ironically probably less than what you'd spend before getting in bed with one the regular way LOL.

Coffee. It's so fucking good. The way it smells, the different flavors, the feeling of warmth, the extra kick it gives me, the way it relaxes me. Everything about it.

It doesn't matter if it's logical or illogical, true or not true, what she is feeling or not feeling, or if she doesn't know what to do. From a mans point of view the only thing that matters is getting a YES or a NO, and accepting at face value whatever answer you get. All energy spent thinking about it is pointless.

Intelligence is probably the single most overhyped and overrated thing humans use to judge each other. The fact it's such a concern for so many shows how misguided we are collectively. One's character, values, and "spirit" are far truer ways to measure. We live in an unwise time though.

@Globalcollective That woman judge on the left is really unprofessional and rude. Who the fuck does she think she is?

I'm pretty sure there are rules and protections for non married couples that are similar to marriage anyways. They are called "Common Law".

Unless you look like Brad Pitt you aren't going to get away with stuff like that. Just stay in your lane, or at the very least be careful. No matter how ethical, honest, or logical you are - you are not going to win a fight against the culture other people are infected with. It's an overpowering amorphous collective ego. It's like trying to slash a sword through water, it will just envelope you. Sometimes there is no way to "deal" with things. You simply avoid them.

Just get a Brita filter and a quality bottle that you can carry around. You'll spend 50 euros at most.

Women make excuses not to date you for the same reason you make excuses not to date someone, they aren't attracted to you and want to soften the blow. Whether the excuse is true or not is irrelevant, because the result is the same. You just keep looking until you find someone that does want to date you.

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Yea just move on, don't try to squeeze blood from a stone. If she is abundantly clear about it respect the boundary.

Someone who can give birth, everything else is an approximation. Though we ought to refer to people as what label they prefer out of respect. I can't think of a more accurate, reductionist meaning that is logically consistent and excludes all the baggage of culture and gender.

You're right about the last part, he needs to just make his intentions known and make a direct move. However I don't think everything is a shit test, or a premeditated manipulation on the part of the women. Sometimes they are just genuinely confused and have no idea what they want, and are basically waiting to kind of be told what they want from the man, in other words they want to be led. It's sounds a little sexist because it paints women as somewhat helpless, but it's been my personal experience with a lot of girls. Anyways man @HereNow I wouldn't panic too much. Just make it abundantly clear what you want without bluffing. If she rejects it then it's not meant to be. Go find someone that will appreciate your honesty.

Stop gazing at village idiots on the internet. If you want wisdom and knowledge go find and talk to people in your local community. People who run volunteer organizations, temples, businesses, animal shelters, clinics. They are real people that will share what they know for basically free. If there is one thing that is true about most people it's that they love to talk about themselves and what they are doing in the world, and they don't market themselves in a needlessly toxic way. It's amazing how many people fawn over these parody-like individuals, like flies to shit.

Exactly how it works? Young men learn how to interact with the opposite sex in adolescence from their peer group of other young men encouraging each other and taking risks. If they don't experience that then it's going to be extremely difficult later on when they lose reliable access to that peer group. Which is why there is a marketplace of pick-up resources. 15-20 years ago there really weren't any incels or much of a problem with men not being able to interact with women. Even the nerdiest losers got laid eventually. It was mostly technology that has caused this modern phenomena in my opinion (partly feminism to a degree as well). In the age of "social media" people are actually more awkward and less social than ever, ironically. Hence why pick-up is a necessary evil. It's one of the only tools unlucky men have to dig themselves out of that hole. since they can't go back in time to adolescence. They have to brute force it. Of course the guys who need it have to romanticize and market it as an all encompassing general self-development tool, as a way to cope with the fact that in practice it's really a lot of manipulative tactics and scummy behavior. Consider there is a reason why a lot of the big names in pick-up have a torrent of rape accusations against them, and are banned from basically every platform and even visiting some countries looool. They've needed to rebrand to cover up how much devilry goes on. It would be delusional to deny it and just say it's some feminist conspiracy to control media either.

Does it even exist if nobody is paying attention to you? Nobody would even know you're even doing it unless it's some small area and you stay there for too long.

I've gotten laid within two minutes from just a smile, you'd be surprised what can happen if you just take a chance