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It’s unclear if no fap even benefits men as opposed to just cutting out the porn, and getting the same effects masturbating but just not to porn.

Ok. I find some of his behavior bizarre then if he really is legit. regardless I think he raised good points about Sadhguru and the behavior of his supporters towards him was concerning as to the community he is building.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n1mNCQVmPeE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6xjMociMHI0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qIzzNh84ANw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oy_gh6__EOQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=COC116aJpuw https://www.academia.edu/35019579/Is_Sadhguru_Jaggi_Vasudev_A_Conman

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BPIZWWzJjYE

Sadhguru is a fraud and not enlightened. It’s unfortunate he is getting so popular when it’s just going to mislead people... wish Tolle got on JRE instead, he’s a much better introduction.

https://truthout.org/articles/noam-chomsky-a-no-fly-zone-over-ukraine-could-unleash-untold-violence/?utm_campaign=Truthout+Share+Buttons

I’ve heard relationship author John Gray claim there are ways to heal it but I don’t remember what he said. Perhaps use that lead.

Don’t expect permanent ego changes from psychedelics

TITLE: A System Built on Lawlessness and Lies Cannot Last - Shunyamurti Teaching

Likely his reasoning is if you do that you won’t get into a relationship out of neediness or desperation as you’ve proven you can get girls and won’t just cling to the first one who you get with, and will have developed yourself somewhat to be attractive through getting those 20. there are some flaws to this advice though https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FPg9qYMjE3Q

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0S93-iwxGmI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l00vX5cUaCA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eGH6sdODcOw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U-2K1xdwIu4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X8wl-pSfMdY

Try IFS therapy

Rather than try to be a specific way you can integrate the different aspects of your personality ive heard some habits that cultivate femininity are not cursing and wearing dresses

No, doing game will only feed false self esteem.

There is plenty of evidence porn is bad for you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oFVOJf0TzY

It’s not wrong, but it’s better for you if you are present and don’t let the mind wander and generate suffering.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lD1ny_Q8sKo

https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/art_urges.pdf

Sadhguru is a fraud. Gary Weber is good. He has written clear science based instructions that modernize Ramana Maharshi’s teachings, released everything for free and refused ever taking a profit from the teachings, and his brain was studied and was found to have one of the most advanced states of enlightenment. https://jeffwarren.org/articles/neuroscienceofsuffering/ he has retired from teaching. recently I like simply always awake aka Dr. Angelo Dilullo https://www.youtube.com/c/SimplyAlwaysAwake he is new and I don’t know how great his results are but he responds to questions.

If you are a man and you get married in the west you are extremely stupid, unless: - your wife makes as much or more than you and will continue too -you were in a relationship for at least 4 years prior and it was seriously tested in stressful situations -you studied how to make relationships work from good sources or a counselor -you are a very ethical moral person and did extreme strict screening of your wife and that she matches your values -you got a prenup

https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/art_urges.pdf

Try self therapy by Jay Earely

1) start a basic meditation practice. You can try unified mindfulness for a free online one. Or get the mind illuminated and start. The importance is doing it every day even for 10 minutes. Allow this to build up for later, for now don’t focus on spirituality. You pronanlt wont have major progress for a while which is fine because for now focus on material life. you can use meditation to also help your goals https://www.shinzen.org/positive-behavior-change/ 2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1R3zIvZqCAQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SuZ_f4oANGE&t=1054s focus in stages, don’t worry about advanced things like stage yellow or enlightenment. Start small and practical. i recommend Tony Robbins books. Read and apply them. The focus should be basic things like a job, gym, making friends and getting used to socializing remove things from your life that kill concentration like social media, YouTube, or porn. If you still have trouble applying it try reading psyco-cybernetics. make a schedule. 3. Socializing is mostly practice. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulu6TOu-gqs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qu-wFuDqZws https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dyx1X3yBxao https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pCZdJiGSk8g 4. If you continue to self sabotage or procrastinate get therapy, I recommend IFS. Don’t use Leo’s videos aside from his earlier ones related to basic life. Don’t worry about his spiral dynamics or deeper spirituality or enlightenment stuff for at least a couple years. 5. Limit how much you consume self help content if it’s a way you procrastinate. Maybe limit yourself to one or two a week. Instead watch short motivational vids to encourage yourself.