
Raze
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It’s not a random news article, it links to a paper. I can tell how creeped out they are by how many thousands of women throw themselves at him. Ultimately if older men dating younger women was really “creepy”, then it wouldn’t happen because women would be creeped out, yet it still occurs. No, I didn’t say women want to be catcalled. But given how many billions of dollars anti aging products sell for women, yes most women do prefer to look younger. I also never said all women.
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What you are saying makes no sense. If this was the case the only couples that would have abuse would be age gapped ones, but that isn’t true. People can and are taken advantage of at any age. Young women do want love, but they don’t want love from just anyone. They are attracted to specific traits such as status, resources, confidence, etc. which older men tend to have more of. Not a myth, it’s well established scientifically. https://www.eurekalert.org/news-releases/849423 Women are clearly jealous because they are constantly flipping out about it even when there is no indication anyone is being abused. See the anger at Leonardo DiCaprio only dating younger women. Once again, people can also be abused when dating someone of the same age bracket, so saying that abuse can happen doesn’t matter in this conversation, it can happen regardless of the age of the couple. You are legally an adult at 18 and the female brain is pretty much done developing at 25. Being misogynistic or entitled as a man doesn’t necessarily make it harder to date women, if it did than we wouldn’t have issues of women ending up in relationships with bad men. You can be misogynistic or entitled as a man and still have an easier time dating than a man who isn’t if you have traits that attract women, in the same way a woman with a bad personality who is very beautiful woman can have an easier time dating than one who has a good personality but isn’t as pretty. No I’m not Indian but I’ve never seen any evidence Indian men are “non datable” in the US because they are misogynistic or entitled. If anything Indian men who struggle dating, struggle because they are too nice and shy due to their traditional upbringing. I didn’t say it only applies to women.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYYSR3Qni8o
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No not really. While some men are abusive it’s not really an age gap thing as abuse and cat calls can happen at any age, it isn’t just in age gap relationships. You can be taken advantage of at any age. The simple fact is on average men value youth and beauty so they go for younger women, while women value money, status, and personality so they go for older men. Plus male brains mature slower than female brains so an older man would actually relate more to a younger woman on average. The idea that all men who want younger women are predators is pretty clearly cope coming from older women who can’t handle the reality that their sexual market value has declined. In other countries were even more extreme age gaps are normalized you don’t see as many of these complaints because there aren’t as many single older women. In the past the complaint was men who wanted younger women were “immature” and can’t handle a mature woman, but now it seems the stereotype is escalating from immature to predatory, but not really based in any logic either way. In addition from my experience another reason why men go for younger women is because a lot of older women are bitter and actually have worse personalities and more entitlement due to all the attention they got when they were younger and insecurity from aging. Plenty of men would actually be fine with a woman their age or older if they weren’t constantly running into that.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yb5zpo5WDG4 https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/art_urges.pdf
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YES. Because like I already SAID, women and men are different and value different things. This is why on average in couples men are older and women are younger. You don’t even have an argument, you just accuse everyone who disagrees with you of being low value or immature. You are just wrong, I already showed you the data. You can have whatever preference you want, but that doesn’t change the reality of what makes someone more or less valuable on the sexual marketplace. Looks like I struck a nerve. Sorry but flipping out at me will not change reality. Also this is not very emotionally mature of you.
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Like I already said, you seem to think “high value” means anyone who agrees with you, “low value” means anyone who disagrees with you. It doesn’t. You do not understand the terms. Andrew Tate has fame, wealth, and a good physique, these make him high value because these are highly valuable traits. This is why he has a public dating history of many attractive women. It’s not up for debate, if someone is dating multiple very attractive women at one time they are “high value”, because if they weren’t they would not be able to attract said women. I know, those women are “low value” because they like someone you don’t like lol. There are plenty of men who are more emotionally mature than Tate, yet they do not date as many attractive women. Why is this? Because it’s not a “high value trait”. Its painfully clear you are insecure at the thought that men are attracted to younger women and have a bizarre warped belief that “value” now means anyone who dates older women. It doesn’t, any man dating an older woman even if he likes her for her personality would prefer she be younger. The data is clear.
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You seem to think “high value” means anyone who agrees with you, and “low value” means anyone who doesn’t agree with you. Nope. These are terms about the sexual marketplace. I don’t like Andrew Tate, but he would be a “high value” male because he has rare but valued traits such as fame, physique, and wealth. This is why he has a public dating history of seeing many attractive women. Being high or low value in the sexual marketplace has nothing to do with being morally right or wrong. You flipping out on any man who is attracted to women younger than you reeks of insecurity. You are clearly way too emotionally involved to judge this topic rationally.
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This simply isn’t true. To all ages of men, women in their 20’s look best on average, it isn’t the same for women on average, see this data https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10 “High value” men on average go for women even younger than the average man, because they go for what they are most attracted to and have the resources to win them over. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/homo-consumericus/201306/very-wealthy-men-marry-much-younger-women To say a older man who goes for a younger woman must be “low value” makes no sense and I’m sorry is complete cope. Unless somehow the wealthier a man is the more low value he is? Men primarily care about looks in women, so a woman in her 30’s would be less “value” than in her 20’s. Women when judging men care about looks, but they also care more about other things besides looks, such as resources, social proof, charisma, etc. , which is why on average they go for older men, because older men have acquired more of those features on average.
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Raze replied to How to be wise's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Today tribes which don’t have contact with regular society live some what egalitarian, and it is believed that is what ancient humans lived like. However after the cognitive revolution and some genetic bottleneck human civilization formed with more male dominance. I also believe research has found societies that live with less competition become more egalitarian / slightly more female dominated but develop less, while societies with more competition / outside threats become more male dominated and have more development. So it could still be somewhat true in some form. -
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Az41hkLie6I
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You have to know how to attract women before you can have a relationship with commitment
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Freud is very valuable, he is attacked now because of straw man versions of his beliefs that were spread. Ignore the baseless attacks against him. https://psyche.co/ideas/the-id-and-the-nudge-where-freud-meets-behavioural-economics That being said, it can be better to read modern psychoanalysis, which has evolved a lot since Freud.
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TITLE: Jonathan Haidt | Academic Freedom Conference 2022 | Why it has Gotten Harder to Find the Truth?
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Why are you assuming Desantis will run?
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This is great for democrats. Trump is deeply unpopular and him running is their best shot at winning 2024. He may even cause enough splitting in the conservative movement to let democrats win easily in 2028, ex how he destroyed Mitt Romney and Mike Pence as future candidates by alienating his base from them.
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Stop using social media or porn, avoid sugars and refined grains in your diet
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Musk has revealed for the last year Twitter spent over $400 per lunch served Also, apparently less then 20 percent of the microservices they run are needed to make Twitter work Twitter was lot more poorly managed than I thought. But it also has engineering problems. The company was losing 4 million a day. Even as far as social governance and community building go, Elon has better odds of improving it than the openly biased and close minded leadership Twitter used to have. They banned people for simply tweeting “learn to code” before.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=omGY5wV55Nc https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulu6TOu-gqs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Gn7XplnsS0
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Mdma assisted therapy ifs therapy