Raze

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  1. Not necessarily, the same scientists also found women agreed these beliefs are demeaning and sexist, but they are still attracted to them.
  2. That’s another good point, conservatives actually have a disadvantage in this stat because they are more likely to bear a bad marriage because they are more averse to divorce for religious or cultural reasons.
  3. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bhHCdHIzGf4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RalpCJo7suQ
  4. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xL9IhMXDbJk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=85NX4zZKAQE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBMN6jUjuLY
  5. Delete the tweet links when you quote a post, otherwise it makes the thread take way longer to load. These are posts from people heavily influenced by belief systems emerging from stage green, bad behavior and callousness can exist at all stages. Ken Wilber is solid yellow and is known for insulting his critics.
  6. So why don’t you get psychological treatment?
  7. Get ifs therapy try self inquiry do weight lifting, Pilates, and yoga do positive psychology exercises
  8. Just say sex is usually only good the fifth time to remove pressure, then look up useful videos or books on how to do it well and learn as you go on.
  9. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nsyMBJwd3Ig https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CjDonXWvAg0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dIHE4hiS9a4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VUKyjslDgC8
  10. You are only supposed to use the false time constraint if you sense apprehension, not before, and don’t sit with her right away out of nowhere, first you ask her something and if she engages and asks you something you sit down and disqualify the escalation with a false time constraint.
  11. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RrIBG_RnMoY https://youtu.be/UsvPUPkjcsY?t=995
  12. That’s one of the hardest places to date, there are way more men and way more competition. Also this guy can’t even handle a polite rejection without threatening violence, Chinese women don’t deserve to deal with this lol.
  13. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M0ctRMR8qXM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmNbrlmn00w https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-E7_Vh_2GNM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7p3-MJJm_R0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=29OGEGj2X-c https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3miuaOWsj8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z5qdBMIaS_c https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eit85FAj4wg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VLH7yUwkBPg Use these to move on https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVqANXVTLN4 http://happinessbeyondthought.blogspot.com/2012/05/surrendering-i-letting-go-of-suffering.html https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MU1Rp184IT4
  14. He already said he was planning the shift when he finishes his new series and gets back from Alaska, where he is now. Just stop.
  15. Not good enough. I am talking about subconscious feelings. No matter how much you try to hypnotize yourself and shove your feelings down, you will still have your neediness, and your resentful feelings. The problem isn’t that you make posts saying women need to be punished and it’s unfair you have no friends, the problem is you’re even thinking that at all. You need to do in depth psychological analysis of yourself with an expert and have core changes before you even think about pursuing women. If you are already this upset over the minor rejections you are getting, you are a time bomb, because if you keep trying you are going to face way harsher and more painful experiences than what you’ve had so far.
  16. For the second time, I didn’t say women can mind read your intentions, I said they can sense your neediness, desperation, I’ll also add your calibration. A woman being mislead by a bad man doesn’t disprove my point, he could have simply been good at hiding it or he mentally felt no guilt and felt he was doing nothing wrong so she didn’t sense any weird vibes from him. I’ve seen countless guys who start doing dramatically better with women by changing nothing other than their own feelings. You should be able to see this from your own perspective, you will find you naturally are more trusting of someone if they speak with a lot of authority as though they truly believe what they are saying vs someone who sounds hedging and doubtful of their words.
  17. That’s not necessarily true, it can be wise to plan ahead and not make decisions based on current feelings.
  18. Simply tell him you’re ok with him but when you decide to have kids since you want your children to be good looking and tall he has to be ok with you finding a different father, but you can raise the kids together.
  19. I didn’t say women sense a man’s morality or essence. I said they sense your desperation or neediness. You can have good intentions and good morals but be needy or desperate, and thus unattractive, and you can have bad intentions and bad morals, and not be needy and not desperate. You can also be better or worse at hiding it. The idea that women’s selection is entirely based on looks is laughable and demolished by almost all scientific evidence. If that was true it wouldn’t even make sense regarding the complaints about how women choose men, how attractive a man is physically isn’t that relevant to how good a person or partner they are.
  20. Women absolutely can sense those things. It’s well established scientifically humans, especially women, are able to detect emotions emanating from others and through subtle signals like facial expressions, body language cues, even voice tone. We even have neurons specifically designed for this called “mirror neurons”. I’m not saying he should do it to be worthy of women, but clearly that’s the only way he’ll actually be motivated to do it because that’s all he cares about. He isn’t making threads about how to improve himself or be a better person for his own sake, he’s making threads about why girls don’t like him and he has no friends, then getting very hostile when his current strategies fail.
  21. Lol, that’s a horribly limited and false view of openers. Opening women with a gender related opinion question is a time tested and extremely effective indirect opener. Ex. The classic “I need a female opinion, who lies more, men or women” doesn’t fit any of your “standards” yet many guys have used it successfully especially in groups. It’s even played out now because it worked so well guys overused it and she may have heard it before. Even if you want to go direct and low key, just introducing yourself and offering nothing to hook or give intent is a horrible opener. You know nothing about game.