PenguinPablo

Women date up... or choose partners that they perceive to be of the same or greater value than them. Men don't emphasize value very much, and prioritize a woman's beauty over every other intrinsic quality.

winner!

Parasite Memories of Murder

I'll try anything once. except heroin I think it's important to work on yourself too. I don't think any less of a person for getting with hookers. But I've seen dudes psyche get eaten alive with inferiority because all they do is visit asian massage parlors. Nothing wrong with doing it but I would say to work on your relationships with regular gals too

I would move to a cheaper country in Latin America, Europe, or Asia and then start working on it. That's my plan once I pay off all my debt here in America... Get some online gigs, learn to program...

@johnlocke18 Tbf there's a difference between someone that is working on themselves and someone that doesn't take responsibility for themselves and has no interest in growing. I would consider dating someone largely healed from BPD or actively working on understanding themselves. But if the relationship proved itself to be too toxic and my partner decided not to reflect or take any responsibility for their behavior then I would not put up with it. At the end of the day, for me it's not about the label but the person's behavior.

@johnlocke18 It's one thing to make a video about the topic, and another thing to go into OPs thread and disparage her directly (especially when she's coming from a place of trying to better herself). I'm rooting for you India! Generally, it would not be a good idea to date someone with personality disorders. At the end of the day though, that doesn't make you a monster or whatever all the witch hunters are make it out to be. BPD means you have certain symptoms. If you take care of those symptoms by getting therapy, gaining wisdom, then you would no longer qualify for the diagnosis. The problem is the symptoms. Because they're maladaptive. Richard Grannon the life coach on YouTube was BPD. Lmk if you have any questions. I know a lot about this disorder since I grew up with BPD mom and narcissistic dad. Probably something similar happened to you. So don't demonize yourself. I'm proud of who you are. You're a very strong person.

Nah bro. Stop being weird. It’s just you, here.

@Leo Gura one of the best advice I’ve seen on social dynamics. beyond the standard advice… go out and do this and so on

What do you do at that point… they say the seeking energy stops when your reach enlightenment. stop spiritual seeking… stop intellectual seeking… stop pleasure seeking… stop money seeking… and so on on… it’s happened to me a little bit and it felt good. Peaceful. But kinda happy with playing the game too. Being a character, optimizing his resources and life within the rpg. I guess it’s still possible to do so without the same neurotic compulsion that accompanied my behavior previously. Even if it’s just a play or a game. Not saying I’m there yet but ya know.

bro u need to get laid

@Hardkill damn good video and insightful

can confirm am a Thai lady-boy

They girls you are genuinely attracted to are nicer.

@Happy Lizard Do you have a good video of Spira talking about this?

@bmcnicho honestly just comes across super pretentious and passive aggressive.

I have a sales job or what Leo would define as exploitation. I definitely see it too. What are my options as God/The Dream Maker??? On the one hand, I can payoff my student loans and credit card debt probably by this summer. I can travel and have a lot of free time to do whatever I want. Maybe I'll visit Vegas for a couple months, retreats, so forth. I like it and also really helps to destroy social anxiety.

Damn. That's beautiful.

Because people gravitate towards "good" energy. "I want some of that!"

I like this idea. Doing it for others will compromise the quality

I have a pretty paper chasing job. I’m not particularly good at it and I don’t find it too engaging. Sales. though it’s certainly a challenge for those reasons alone. Pretty confused as to what I should do. need help. I know I need to sustain myself somehow. Apartment and so forth. I would like it as well. It most career options don’t make sense for me. I enjoy expressing my ideas through video form, music. I’ve pushed the boundary with the spirituality stuff pretty far over the years further and further. Because of suffering and also simply out of sheer curiosity. I’ve pulled the curtain back pretty far. im not scared but most people would definitely think I lost it at this point if I shared my current perception of how reality operates. That was certainly the case years back when I disclosed some of my insights with my therapist which I considered far less radical I want to make 3 music albums in the future. I want everyone in the world to listen to it as well. To make at least 1 album that the whole world loves. kinda like Pink Floyd back in the day

What's the difference?? Seek and ye shall receive

@Michael Jackson he’s the homie. Makes sense why he was so misunderstood and attacked in his later years

To be fair living under this presumption is actually quite liberating, though it does feel like others are trying to reel me back into their dreamscape. The notion that all my shitty relationships, victimhood, depression, and sadness are simply projections and I can create whatever narrative I want is hilarious amazing to me. Not having to get caught up in all that anymore. Not having to be that character with a terrible upbringing and carry with me everywhere. It's amazing. Not having to become anything either. The need for validation drops. But how do I know that I'm not just losing touch with reality... To be fair, it does feel better to simply enjoy the dream for what it is... instead of getting caught up in it. Being reactive to the dream, instead of being conscious of the fact that I am the creator of the dream. Haven't done too many psychs... just a lot of introspection, meditation, and watching a lot of Leo recently.

@Michael Jackson Oliver Tree Dont know much about mj but I suspect he as well