-
Content count
5,667 -
Joined
-
Last visited
Everything posted by aurum
-
Those things are very much related. What other reason do you think there is for anger? All anger is about protection and asserting oneself.
-
No offense but you probably don’t have the requisite experience to appreciate what I’m saying. It’s a nuanced point. Context matters. Yes, obviously being stoic, funny, non-attached can also be attractive at times.
-
I agree with that. My dad had some anger issues so I have a bit of familiarity. I still think you're downplaying the actuality vs potential aspect though.
-
Only potential?? I agree that anger is not always attractive. It can be socially damaging, immature, out of control or otherwise problematic. But it is not just potential that women are attracted to.
-
To be clear for anyone following, that wasn't a license to be a raging dickhead. Knowing how to control yourself, and what is or isn't appropriate, is essential.
-
Yes great point. Men need to learn a proper relationship with their anger.
-
It's n=1, plus many advantages the average person will not have. No one can afford to do the testing he does unless you're basically a billionaire.
-
I see. Yes, I know what this is. I have heard good things about shockwave from providers I know who use it. I don't know if it's something you'd want to do everyday, but it seems like it can help people with inflammation conditions, e.g tendonitis. It'll be interesting to see how daily application works out for Bryan. He tends to experiment and drop things a lot.
-
I don't know that reference. My guess is probably not, if he's specifically doing it for joint health.
-
Sprinting while running is high impact. Not nessesarily the best from a longevity standpoint, especially if you're getting older. If you sprint on the beach / sand, it's less impact and trains a lot of other areas. You just can't do Vo2 max training that way since you likely won't hit max oxygen consumption.
-
Most women will be attracted to anger in men.
-
Everything you are writing is a description of infinite mind, dreaming infinite dreams. Dreaming does not invalidate God in anyway.
-
Think of it like strength, assertiveness, edge, sharpness, coldness, confidence, leadership, dominance, ambition. Masculinity is more dangerous. It's like a sword you want to get skilled at wielding.
-
Yes, that's basically her perspective. Masculinity itself is attractive. Which as a guy you should have access to, assuming you've not significantly repressed it.
-
If you don't want to call it dream, then what do you want to call it? What is a better word?
-
@Emerald that's all fair. "Grass is always greener" mentality can create problems. It's important to not just reduce relationships to physical appearance. Especially if you want to start a family. If you wanted to start a family, you'd be thinking about what kind of partner this woman will be for raising kids. Which cannot just be about looks.
-
If you're going to say that dreaming is a limit and therefore violates God, then I will say any claim you make about God is a limit and violates God. By your logic, God being the "source" of creation is a limit. God being "love" is a limit. God being "infinite" is a limit. So you can take this "limit" argument to absurdity if you want. Yes, outside of Awakening, you could say God is limited to dreaming. That's what it means to be an infinite mind. And yes, Will still remains if you remove all bias. It's the Will of the Whole, all at once.
-
How do you distinguish between a beauty glutton versus someone who is attractive and also just wants an attractive partner? Is it just that one is attractive and one isn't?
-
Yes God has Will! But this is not a limited, biased human will. It's the opposite. God's Will is what happens when you remove all bias and limitation, including the notion of anything existing "above". Or rather, all bias and limitation must be dreamed by God to begin with. The end result is infinite dreams, with no higher authority in control.
-
A dream is whatever you imagine it is.
-
It's a perfect description. Dreaming is not a limitation, it's the removal of all limits.
-
Both lobotomies and dead people are imagined within the field of consciousness YES that's what awakening is. You are God Mind, absolutely no where, imagining that you need a body, a brain, biology and physical space. It's not metaphorical, it's metaphysical. I mean exactly what I am saying. There is nothing beyond what you call perception. It's the other way around. If perception was the result of biology, then your perception would not be absolute. Your perception would be merely a representation of deeper biological processes, happening somewhere in the brain. Which it is not. It's precisely because perception does not require a body or biology that it is absolute. Everything is One, whether you cuss out drivers or not. Everything is One, whether you believe it or not. Everything is One, whether you are completely unconscious of this or not. Everything is One, whether you are asleep or awake. But yes, to your point, embodiment work still matters.
-
Yes, pickup can become an endless chase which becomes toxic and immature. But the reality is that most guys have no choice but to be somewhat content where they fit in. Contentment is forced upon them by the lack of their own ability and effort, not because they're more healthy. If you're a 6 aiming for a 10, their motivations are likely mixed. There will be some lower motivations, but also potentially some higher motivations. You can use the pursuit of women to grow yourself as a man because your attractiveness is highly dependent on self-investment. There are many valid lessons and growth opportunities you can gain from doing so. Ideally, you will also end up contributing a lot more survival value to society. The reason many guys have such poor results with women is that they contribute so little value to society. Which is also partially why they're broke. I'm way more impressed with a guy who chooses to not sleep with a 10 for higher purposes, than one who is contributes so little value that they couldn't do it if they tried. Most guys have never even met a 10. Part of the point of this forum is to talk about achieving minority-level results. Less men will ever spiritually awaken than sleep with a 10, but here we are anyway. I agree with that advice. But also, physical beauty is legitimately rare. If it wasn't rare, it wouldn't be valuable.
-
Been waiting for this!
-
Yes, attraction has a relative component. But it's not that hard to find general trends of what is attractive. You're relativizing attraction way too much.
