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His book maps of meaning is a solid book, unfortunately with a lot of chatter and academic squabbling which is sometimes hard to follow but he does a great job connecting mythology and science. You don't understand what he says. Transcendence happens through integration

I'm too soft hearted and I don't trust myself enough. But I found a fix: I'm not ASHAMED of being a red blooded male. Feminists are really toxic, they are trying turn the tables. It is the FEMALES that are HYPERGAMOUS and judge males ruthlessly. Most guys are good hearted romantics, they just want a girl pretty face and good heart but females demand much more from the guy. And they UNASHAMEDLY come to this topic and try to turn the tables on us. The audacity.. It is like 20% of the top shelf guys get to fuck 80% of the girls. There is a huge segment of guys who are sexless, loveless and depressed but I don't see feminists talk about these guys because they don't give two flying fucks. Those guys can die (not breed) because they don't meet the female dating strategy.

Andrew Tate became a monster but he didn't tame it. That is why spirituality is so important to transmute the animal ego.

Fair enough but you only cater to female mating strategies which are different from male mating strategies. In the same way you tell girls to judge males on this and that, we judge females on our own way. I don't think this forum should cater to female mating strategies alone. Obviously this forum is a SD green bubble so I do get that it can be distressing for some to reading these truths but outside of the bubble what I say is mainstream knowledge. The world doesn't revolve around SD green! You already said that majority of men think like me but CONTEMPLATE why that is? Because females REWARD a certain type of men: I would love be just a studious dork and be with girls but that is not being rewarded by hot females. I get this narrative is not appeasing to high consciousness females who are a little bit older but they should aim for a different type of guy like you say yourself. If you are 30 as a female you won't have the same dating options as when you were 20, and I'm not saying that to bully females I'm saying that because this forum is based on truth and not appeasement of emotions. Last week I met another beautiful lady in a dance school. We were very much into each other and we were having a great time, dancing, talking and having fun. But something happened that happens a lot: I felt like she was too good for me, and I started second guessing, stuttering, being in my head, and eventually I told her I was going to the bathroom and then acted like she didn't exist. After a while i decided to go back to her and she was cold to me. Obviously she didn't do anything wrong; I gave her a mixed signals and acted weird. This only happens if I really like a girl and I think it has to do with my mother who didn't love me enough. But in general my experience with top shelf girls is that being heavy hearted (due to trauma) or having insecurities is punished heavily. I'm not bitter about it, I understand it and I'm working on it. True, I wasn't contesting that. My biggest goal is self development, trauma healing, and becoming a more loving person. It just happens that beautiful girls trigger my traumas so that is what I'm focusing on.

@Ulax It might seem to you like that but I know my intention when I made this topic.

That is not what I said. I wouldn't choose an average 10 over a high conscious 7 for mating. For short term dating (aka self improvement, fun, etc) I would go for 10's but for long term dating I would obviously choose the higher conscious one even if she is a 7. I like your posts but you definitely have a female bias, in the same way I have a male bias. It is normal since males and females are polar opposites. We don't desire the same things in a relationship as the sexes and we have different mating strategies. Why do you want males to cater to female dating strategies? You should know this and you seem a little bitter towards men. When females find out I have traumas they treat me as shit. But I'm not bitter about it because I understand their value scanning. Why should I be bitter towards females because they don't accept me as a traumatized male? It is against their mating strategy. This topic is not pickup. If I find a 10 and she is also a high conscious girl I would marry her. From the feminist perspective, the male dating strategy will look like pickup because they don't have compassion for the male perspective in dating. Unfortunately even on a high conscious forum it is not common. No. Emerald is making a lot of assumptions. I'm a very loving person and I want to date and have sex with beautiful females and I'm not ashamed about it.

@Devin thanks

That is what I’m saying: it really depends on which phase I’m in my life. If I’m not looking for a long term relationship I don’t care how high or low conscious she is. I’m just looking at how fun and sexy she is. I don’t know how to put this in other words. Do you know what is disheartening? How I get treated by females as shit because I have insecurities because of traumas. Am I bitter about it? No. I know how nature works. Survival and sex is survival of the fittest so they don’t want a guy who has insecurities and traumas. Survival = ruthless Especially for males who have to fend for themselves. If you are a hot girl you can just date up without doing much self improvement. But can a 7 become an 8? Why not? If she goes to the gym and eats healthy she can raise her sexual value for short term dating. Or she can do therapy to become a more loving person and thus raise her wifey material value. But no therapy and no fitness will make a 7 a 10.

Would I rather have a highly conscious 7 or an average 10? It really depends in which phase of my life I’m. At this moment I value a 10 more than a 7 because that is just where I’m at and it is nothing wrong with that. Females are trophies so if I can get 10/10 that will mean I broke the genetic code: I get to breed with the top shelf if I want. After having dated 10’s I will find out they are shallow and I might aim for high conscious females but time will show how this process will develop. Females decide who gets to breed and who not. If you are a hot female it doesn’t matter which social class you are in: You can date up and fuck up. While it does matter for a guy in which social class he is born; but not every guy has that luck while if you are a hot female it doesn’t matter. Females are the ones who are hypergamous and judge men on their social status and power. Don’t try to turn this around. Males are not hypergamous, they are the true romantics and just look at a girl’s face and heart, while girls look at other things. Even in this topic you can see how judgemental females are of the male perspective while they would never date/fuck down, only fuck/date up.

So I encountered this girl outside of the super market. We vibes really well because we study the same science. Suddenly she says: “is this your pickup routine?” I couldn’t deny so I said “yes, did it work?”. She says no because “you have to put more effort in, I don’t know you enough”. This was her first shit test and I fucked up majorly. I basically couldn’t produce any game. And I forced the situation by asking about her school and stuff. Afterward I said I needed to go and if she wanted to grab a coffee and she said no. I feel like I messed up because her non verbals gave away she liked me but I couldn’t build to comfort. She literally told me at one point I don’t know if you are a human or an animal in a joking way to tell me there is a lack of trust from her side. How would you have dealt with this situation?

@Lila9 @Judy2 I’m sorry if my words hurt your feelings but I don’t do it intentionally. Like it or not we males and females judge females on their sexual and reproductive value. And most of the time in a very harsh way. But don’t forget that females are equally harsh towards males while judging us towards the merits of your value judgement. Males and females judge the opposite sex on different merits. Females are judged on their looks and males are judged on their competence, potentiality of competence, wealth and potentiality of wealth and social rank. Females are hypergamous. So you ladies only fuck up and not fuck down. As you can see it is much harder to be a valuable male than a valuable female. We males have to go through blood, suffering and tears to become a valuable male and a valuable female is born sexy and the only thing she needs to do is thank god and L’Oréal. This topic is harsh because survival is harsh. I recommend you learn from it and become conscious ladies instead of being revolted by it and looking the other way. It is not males who are picky it is females that are not picky when choosing partners.

It is not a zero sum game. If the guy has self esteem it doesn't happen at the expense of the female. So I don't get your equation and what the other half of the equation is. High value men aren't born. They are made. While high value females are born and they don't have to do anything other than to thank god and Loreal.

Stop playing stupid. We aren't talking about podcasts.

@Leo Gura I contemplated further and I made a full circle I think Those 10’s are just a reflection of infinite love and what I’m really seeking is that inner love but I’m so unconscious that I reflect it on them. What also helped is accepting that females are hypergamous. Their love is conditional and not metaphysical. Expecting that kind of love is not fair anyway. Self love is healing and regenerative. It is very much needed in the mental gym of life.

@Emerald I don't think girls are stupid. Most of the girls know that the pickup guy does it 10x per week. It is just that the pickup guy has so much value that she is willing to break social rules and make an exception for him and date a stranger. Don't tell me if a guy approached you and he is the ideal man in every aspect that you would, that you wouldn't break rules for him. Most girls don't date down but date up, so if they have to choose between a guy who can get a lot of girls versus a guy who can't get any, they will mostly choose the first guy. Pickup has a lot of downsides but it is kind of a highway to get good with girls. Social game in my opinion has a lot of downsides especially if you are unpolished like I'm. One is stuck in the social matrix of the social group and if you fuck up every girl knows it because girls like to talk. While back I changed my PUA mindset from getting to girl to doing pick up for myself to develop myself. It has been received very well.

It is the same. God saw that the light was good, and He separated the light from the darkness.

LOL, try saying some moderate red pill shit in a group of females and see their reaction.

Social power is much more powerful than muscle power. And women tend to be better at social games than men. In a sense women are the more powerful sex although they say it is men who are more powerful. So I find a little bit petty to dunk on guys by calling them beta or whatever. The battle of the sexes is not fought in the octagon. It is fought with narratives which the women control at this moment.

@something_else nobody says “I’m submissive to my boss”. Guess why.

@something_else did you really say that you are submissive to your boss? In what kind of kinky office do you work?

@something_else I didn't say people weren't equals. For example in a commercial company everybody is equal but there is an undeniable power play. Just because everybody is equal doesn't mean there is a power play and transference of value. Especially for females who are hypergamous. Personally I'm not looking to dominate people. I'm not in such a stage of my life for now.

Was that love ego love and not real love in the first place? What is real love? Unconditional? I don’t think we can have unconditional love for a human. Unconditional love is inhuman. We always have some self interest in human relations.

If you haven’t spilled your seed. Your ok. I have been having the same exp you explained. It is truly a spiritual technology to sexually transmute. I don’t crave for porn but what I do desire is to cum inside a girl. Now that I’m young I still have the natural urge to do it.

*shots fired*

That is why I advise people to do sexual transmutation but it is not a big hit on this forum. I’m one of the view who advocates it on this forum what were the benefits of porn free life? Did you also abstain from sex?