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@Mada_ So true I’m just a nice guy and I don’t want to hurt people’s feelings but what I discovered is that it is better to be a pig and just free associate than to be a nice guy and be reserved I’m especially done with being a nice guy because of the disrespect I receive while being so respectful. So I’m thinking right now: why should I feed pearls to pigs? Just shitting all over the place and making a spectacle out of it is much more fun than keeping it in ? @Danioover9000 good one

Why does he use the word sublimation? English is not my first language: He is basically talking about sexual transmutation and from my exp it is definitely true. If you are a dead beat horse you are not going to do much. But if you save and savor your libido you really become like a mustang horse with all of its frustration, anger , and will to attack (penetrate) your problems. I feel like this video explains the core of what sexual transmutation is for dummies. There are a lot of dummies on this forum who still don’t understand this spiritual tech. Definitely worth the watch if you are curious about the topic. It is only 6-7 minutes.

Women take a shit, dude. Just like us.

Last week I used a statement of sympathy and the conversation fizzled out. Yesterday, this is different lady, I told her: “good, now it is my turn” to her telling me she broke up with her flirt. And that is what I really thought and felt at that moment. Her answer was “no, no, no, I’m recovering” and it definitely emotionally spiking for her. But I failed to lead the conversation after that and it fizzled out. My problem is that I’m inclined to be boring, reserved, second guessing a lot, and treading softly, and I’m balancing it out with being a dick sometimes instead of a pussy.

That only means one thing which my intuition tells. It is going to be a steep price point.

True. Being anal about such small things like “I shouldn’t ask how she is doing because that doesn’t fit my game plan” is not the kind of game I want to run anyway even if I wanted to get laid. She is just a human like me.

Ok but this was in the night club or a random public place. Currently not trying to get laid or trying to have a relationship because I’m focused on meditation. I’m still going out once a week to practice my game and to make friends.

If they ask me how I'm doing, I'm asking it back, weird right ?

I have no trouble with admitting that I'm not enlightened.

Beautiful art bro. How did you learn it? All by yourself or through some courses?

I made this meme but I didn't make the art work.

If you say so buddy. Like you could look into our brain and decide who is enlightened and who is not.

? Emerald might be good at weeding out good potential mates from bad potential mates. In fact she gives very harsh advice to young women on this forum how to judge men. But she has no idea what it takes to be a high value man in the first place. I'm trying to figure things out just like everybody else? And I wouldn't say the maker of the PsycHacks videos I post is bro science. This guy has high creds in the field of psychology and helped thousands of clients. Obviously I'm wrong about some stuff like I expect girls to take the lead and I obviously revised my position on this because I found out feminine girls don't chase unless you are a rockstar or something. But my view on the point in the original topic hasn't changed. It is better for guys to be the adored, not adorer. In other words: a guy should focus on his life purpose and becoming a total package to become worthy of adoration. This is in line with Leo's advice which is to focus on life purpose instead of the girl. The girl should be your second love, life purpose your first love. And that is my approach to life at this moment. I do minimal effort to get a girl with feminine young girls (my strategy isn't working out with them but I'm fine with that) but it does work with older women (my strategy works out with them) because I'm not interested in relationships currently. I'm focused on personal development, meditation and sexual transmutation.

@Squeekytoy Emerald doesn’t under stand that chasing doesn’t equal adoring somebody. Chasing =\= adoring Girls only want to be chased by a guy they adore!!! Adore = look up to, seeing equal or higher value than themselves Girls are hypergamous by nature. This is a generally accepted fact in psychology and socially. So yea, a guy can chase a girl but if this guy is not worthy of her adoration he will be labeled a creep. While the another guy who is worthy of the girl’s adoration (because of hypergamy) she will be receptive to it and not labeled a creep. It is amazing how blind females are to this dynamic. Even Emerald who is into psychology doesn’t understand basic male female attraction but buys into that feminist Disney movie narrative.

I’m around 30 and I look younger so I can easily go for 22 years old or something but sometimes the girls are younger and I become self conscious. Of course the feminists will shame me but they have their own agenda so I don’t blame them. I mean Leonardo DiCaprio does it and that mf is almost retired. Back in the day it was normal that men would go for younger females. It has been encoded in my biology so why should I be ashamed for it? Because I’m a red blooded man? Females peak faster in their life time and their fall is also faster. I’ve discovered that wisdom doesn’t come with age. I know females who are older and they don’t have the maturity of generation Z people. https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/amp/

For the last year I focused on myself. Before that I also had similar periods. My focus is on life purpose and defeating my addictions. I defeated my addictions but obviously there was trauma behind the addictions so I’m busy healing that. No girl can fix that so approaching and dating is on the back burner. Currently taking a dance class and meeting women from there but I’m very passive as I explained in an earlier post and also protective of myself so feminine girls who are interested in me shy away after a while. There are some older women in the 30’ies that are more steadfast who are trying to get with me but I’m not interested in getting anything. I’m just exercising my social skills so to say Deep trauma is related with relationships so I’m still socializing but at the same time keeping people on a distance. People are not inclined to people with trauma energy and it hurts if they don’t accept me with my trauma energy which is a double slap: first the trauma in my childhood + being punished for carrying the trauma energy as an adult. Currently I’m focusing on life purpose, meditation & sexual transmutation is a big thing for me, LSD from now and then, boxing, and some self help. Socializing is on the secondary in my life and just for exercise. The real progress is made within my self.

You never had regrets? Wow. I do have regrets but I try to turn that into lessons. There is such a thing as to being to picky. Yea I'm interested in feminine women, so I have to change my attitude a bit. Currently I'm not chasing at all. Even if I get a phone number from girls I like I secretly hoped she will text me. I'm also not looking for a gf so I'm lazy but still it rubs me the wrong way if they don't.. ? Currently working on developing my warrior archetype so it can balance out the other archetypes: especially my weak/dysfunctional lover archetype. My life purpose is my first love and I don't think I'm going to change that because I'm into self-development and I can't sacrifice that for a girl right now. Last year I was disappointed after some dates, so I'm not planning to be the adorer anytime soon. At best I will take the lead, and in my book, taking the lead and chasing is not the same. It was a bad joke

I'm in the market for a new ereader. My current one broke down.

Well that is just your preference then but I doubt you would be happy and probably have some regrets too. To be honest, only older females like 30+ and who are a little bit desperate are chasing me. The young feminine girls who are in the age range 20-25 aren't chasing me so I do have to change my approach a little too I think. You are right that they only signal receptivity, they don't want to take the masculine role so perhaps you are right but I don't how it works for the top G's. I'm not a top G and I don't have my shit together. It is funny because last night I was in a dance school, and I was sitting and the dance instructor said, "why are you sitting? " I said, there are no girls for me to ask for a dance, he said "if you are sitting no girl will come to you and ask you for a dance". ?So probably he meant to say what you said about being open and signalling openness.

That one is the alien consciousness.

That is a huge age gap, people weren't looking?

Let go of your spiritual ego. I have trouble with this too. But I think God doesn't have favourites. God judges you on the merits of your heart.

The egg versus sperm cell comparison is not a good metaphor. For example if a top G decides not to fuck an average girl, there is no chase between the egg and the sperm to begin with. Of course any average looking girl can be knocked up within half a hour if she wishes but she wants to be knocked up by a high quality guy, a guy she likes, and that will stick around.

Women chase in their own way, obviously women don't chase like men, they would be viewed like sluts but they do chase in their own way (the way you explained), and they compete. That is chasing too. I'm not top G but just regular guy but when one girl likes me in a venue, sudden more than one girl likes me and they compete and become hostile toward each other; while in the beginning when there was no competition they weren't that receptive towards me. Top G's (men who are the total package) are too busy with their life purpose. They don't have time to run behind cinderella and jump through all her hoops that she lied out for him. That is just a fantasy that females developed thanks to Disney movies. And that is why there will be tons of lonely women by 2030: 45% Of Women Are Expected To Be Single And Childless By 2030, Per Recent Projection https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/45-percent-women-are-expected-to-be-single-and-childless-by-2030 And on top of that most women have too high of an expectation for what kind of men they can get visa-vi what they are offering in terms of beauty and so on. Of course women can settle for a simp or an incel and in that case, Emerald and you are right. You two girls would be the adored and the guy would be the adorer but the thing is that most girls in their prime won't settle for a looser. So in some way you girls are right. I'm not pulling down my pants that quickly.