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Will this solve my gf problems?

It points to solipsism and in that case there is no other to say that realization to.

So what is the point of saying it? I know I have a big toe, it doesn’t mean I go around telling it.

Wear a mask

That is not the point he is making. It is only a tiny part of the mindset.

He knows about the astral plane. LoL.

I read some of them but I didn’t take notes so that I why I’m looking for summaries

Most casual dating is transactional and there is no deep love involved. Who are you to tell me I shouldn’t do any casual dating? I’m not out here to find a wife. I’m trying to get on my top game. You seem like you never gamed in your life but I could be wrong. Most human interaction is transactional so it is good to learn this “game”. There is nothing wrong with guys learning game, getting theirs and learning transactional side of things to get a good deal out of life. If you want to stay naive and just settle down with a wife without learning the game that is on you but I wouldn’t want to put myself in such harms way and be depended on a female. I rather learn fishing.

My proposition is not to make it worse. It is to have a good defense. I don’t know why anybody would be against men defending themselves. There would be sinister motives behind somebody saying that.

You have to use their game against them. If they want to fuck you over, you have to one up them and fuck them over before them or not put yourself in a position like a marriage where they have an advantage to fuck you over. Game is just like chess.

Who they fuck? Actions say more than words.

I was naive enough to believe life was a love simulator. It is not for the individual, perhaps from God's perspective it is. Survival is a game, a very harsh one, and one can't spiritually bypass it. Play = game = learning = evolution The hardest thing for me to integrate in the coming period is to choose for myself, and play my game and let others play their game. Not wanting to play the game of life is a big weakness which hampers my life quality and it is also not an attractive trait. True, I'm thinking too much.

It was a female but not from Bakhmut No signs yet

You talk from personal exp?

Seems like all the info is out there on how to make money through affiliate marketing and businesses. This guy is selling me on how to set up an Amazon shop. And I didn’t told him in his face that all the info and teachings is freely available on the internet, YouTube and books but I feel like I could missing. For example when doing the product research (to pick out products to sell) he says they can fine tune processes and show me the way.

All is Self, so just like organs in a body, every human has its function. It is ok to take "nutritions" but for the benefit of all, not for the benefit for yourself. Bullsh..

There are a lot of people who have no self esteem or self love and they get late through manipulation just by catering to female desires and insecurities. Although self esteem is an important factor for self development. It is not the crucial factor. Self esteem is not the cause, it is the effect of the cause of competency. What women's boobs and ass is for men, male competency and authority is for women.

I'm heavily focused on self development because most of the problems I have other people can't help me with. Not even a therapists because most are idiots. Talk therapy helped me some but not a lot. So I'm doing my own thing with release work, meditation, breath work, and so on. I defeated by addictions on my own but I still have some trauma I have to process. Most of the problems I have are with females so I go out once a week to get triggered. I do some dates but I don't want a relationship because that would interfere with my healing. My last gf was pushy with sex which made me hate her. I'm 3 months in no-fap and I want to do it for 6-9 months.

Why you want to know this? I need to learn that. I'm an empath. It is not the first time I encountered this problem. In nature there is evolution and devolution. We all have to evolve otherwise we fall into devolution. I mean, I understand it mentally but emotionally I'm still stingy lol That is a strawman and not a fair comparison. As a guy I'm not fat or whatever. I'm just a nice guy. So why should I be treated like shit for being a nice guy? Women who only date up and fuck up (and not down) are spiritually broke. I would never trust such a woman. Because she is not yours, it is just your turn.

Where does this carelessness come from? Because of abundance? It plays a factor but it is not everything.

Mother Nature is ruthless and selfish but it couldn’t exist if it wasn’t that way. I think I need to accept that selfishness is essential part of Mother Nature. And for that I need to integrate that selfishness and ruthlessness. Integration is the only way to transcend. You don’t have feelings in a relationship?! ?

What does he do when you orgasm into an Ukrainian?

I want to get into Ralston.

@Federico del pueblo @somegirl you would be a great couple. Just sayin.

I’m planning to do a spiritual retreat for 1 week. Is it ok to go to the gym two times per week? And do some home exercises? I value physical exercise a lot.