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@Etherial Cat That metaphor wasn't really nice so I apologize. I was using the pickup-frame which is low consciousness. Currently not looking for a long term relationship. I'm not at that stage. On the long term I definitely need to change my mindset though. I agree on that.

Is bringing awareness to their mechanism judging? There is definitely a part of me that judges and I'm trying to let that go. There was definitely a part of me that just didn't get women, but now I do and I'm not trying to "fix" them. I'm rather fixing myself.

@preemo I guess people who are not musicians can still learn from this book?

If you look at the model of David Hawkins is this a good figure of speech? I discovered that understanding sticks more with me when I use figure of speech. These abstract shit don't stick with me. I'm easily getting lost in the content.

The frustrating part is that most women are not even aware or honest that they want an asshole. There was a period in my life that I just expected women to be upfront about their intentions and values. At the moment I don't even try to enlighten them. They are what they are. See a donkey for a donkey and life will be easier if you want to ride the donkey.

Who dat?

@Jacob Morres meta skill is a skill you can use in multiple areas in life. https://www.fearlessculture.design/blog-posts/the-metaskills-you-need-to-thrive-in-the-21st-century#:~:text=A meta-skill is a,%3B meta-skills are permanent.

What I noticed. All these meta skills are skills of the higher observer but it also uses the intellectual and emotional modes. The higher observer is a constant though. I see the emotional and intellectual mode as a muscle. The eye, the higher observer can only do his job if you the capacity to control/release the emotional and intellectual modes. What I noticed. All these meta skills are skills of the higher observer but it also uses the intellectual and emotional modes. The higher observer is a constant though. I see the emotional and intellectual mode as a muscle. The eye, the higher observer can only do his job if you the capacity to control/release the emotional and intellectual modes.

True. Leo calls it introspection and he has a video about it.

Implicit understanding is a skill too. It is being able to connect the dots. It is one of the bedrock skills a person can have. That is why it is called "meta skills".

You don't see the value of not getting lost in the content of a topic? Or not getting lost in the content of life? If that is not a skill, what is a skill?

She read the book the way of the superior man Pickup lines and shit are really secondary. It is really about what (male) energy you are projecting outwards.

I hope he posts his video early so that I have enough time to pick enough chicks to do an orgy for valentines day

Leo uses this phrase a lot but isn't it incomplete? I would say: The moon is a conceptual place unless you have been there. And if SpaceX offers trips to the moon and you personally exp the place it is not conceptual when you are there.

I get that. When I look outside my window I see the moon, it is round. I don't have to be there on the surface.

What about rover exploration vehicle that is on the moon right now? That is direct experience I think. Ok. Soon going to start with Rupert. I hope it will become clearer after that.

It is not hunting. It is dancing. Prey don't want to be captured but women do. With hunting mentality you still can get pussy if you are high value. You can use both mentalities but it really depends on what you want; just pussy or a relationship? If you want a relationship you will need to dance as in figure of speech. Show her that you are high quality male and that you can provide for her. If you just want pussy, you need to camouflage your high quality traits (if you have some), and just be fun and pump out good emotions for her, let her qualify herself to you in exchange for fun. If you are fun,pussy will come.

I was walking in the park. I got approached by a woman. We had a nice chat and the vibes were really good. At a certain moment she dropped a few times she has a bf. I still got her phone number. Why is she even approaching me. Doing all the sneaky stuff and maneuvering to get close to me and to talk to me. And say she got a bf. I'm not simping. I was spot on with my general vibe. I didn't need to game. Lately I'm just trying to be natural and non needy. I'm trying to just let it happen. Did I do something wrong?

Usually they don't. They position themselves to be approached and make it easy for us but they do want their innocence to be kept. She didn't approach me, we just started talking and one thing let to another.

As somebody who is involved with spirituality you should know that you aren't the body and shouldn't be identified with it. At the same time, you want to keep your host healthy. Try cutting out wheat, sugar and salt as much as possible. Study Ph balance and keep a good Ph balance. As for aging. Being old is relative. When you are 40 and you look back, you will say you were crazy that you thought you were old at your age. You can't avoid death so the best option is to accept it. Look what is underneath the fear.

That is what I'm thinking too. There was too much tension in the beginning for it to be friendzone interaction. I think I just fucked up by leaving too much silences. Other than that the conversation was 10/10 and I think we both enjoyed it. This woman was like 9/10 in terms of beauty. I think woman are picky about the energy that guys radiate. I was calm, funny witty overall but there were some moments that I thought: "damn, I don't want to lose this fish" during those micro silent moments.

Body language told me something different.

Hard to tell after one conversation. She was a little nervous.

Everybody has its own path. I don't have to be a cheerleader to watch his videos.

Only mistake I made: unintentionally leaving silent moments. I was ok with the silences but she wasn't I think.