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If she just used the magic words "I'm not interested" I would left her alone. She talked to me for 10 minutes just because she liked the attention, asking questions, flirting, giving me the impression she liked me. Fuck that.

Getting a fake number last weekend really destroyed my mood. Why can't she just say she is not interested? She gives me a fake number to just play with my feelings. Last month this happened more than once. Fuck that. I'm going to be selfish too.

Thanks for the advice. I don't think working on my LP will get me more game. I'm seeing guys with no LP having way more success because they are confident, fun and whatever. I'm a dude that is highly polite and I have high EQ. What I'm missing is respect for oneself and innerstrength. I need to work on that. Finding a balance between being a fuckboy and being a doormat is hard. I will just make a 180 degree flip and just be the opposite from what I'm being right now. This issue cuts into the very core of me. I'm in therapy right now and being nice, not crossing boundaries and being liked by others is in the core of what I'm. I really need to go of that shit. Even if that means I'm overcompensating. I'm stuck in my old ways for way too long.

I'm so done with women. I'm only doing day game for a month or so and I discovered that I can't trust them for shit. They make promises. Say want to do this and that in my face and then just ghost me. Fuck them. Women are highly selfish and why shouldn't I be? It all evolves around whether the guy is confident and fun or not. Fuck her. I won't raise her kids. I'm not even in that stage in my life. If she wants to have fun I'm open for that otherwise it is a no go.

I'm working on this but it is a multi year project. It is just frustrating to see that assholes that don't put in the effort get the ladies by putting zero effort and all the shenanigans you talk about. I know that girls say they want that kind of profile in a guy but they react to a totally different guy. I'm done with that shit.

I don't get what is wrong that is being said in this video. He uses funny language but that is to trigger people so they improve themselves. Within 10 minutes she told she had a kid. I don't know if she is interested in a non-serious relationship. Stupid me just cut the conversation off after hearing her saying she has a kid. I know where she works and I can talk to her again but something tells me that she is looking for a beta provider guy, why else would she mention her kid when I asked her if she has a boyfriend or not. I'm sick of being a nice guy. I'm seeing assholes just totally treating women as crap and the women like them. For the coming year, I'm going to be the opposite of what I was.

I'm doing Todd's system right now. I'm kind of frustrated by day game. It is rainy outside for days. In the last 3 days I had bad runs. It is not even the girls not reacting bad but having steady consistent confidence is hard. I'm using such videos like in the OP not for ideology but for motivation. Why would I want to raise somebody elses children? If I don't improve myself I will be forced to choose a hot single mom or go for a mediocre girl. That is gas-lighting and strawmanning. Nothing wrong with soy boys by the way.

Yesterday I talked to a nice latin american girl. It was 5 minute talk. Just regular what you do what are your hobbies kind of talk. There was some flirting and interest from her side. I asked her number. She thought about it for 3 seconds and said yes. Today, I called her and it turned out to be a fake number. Wtf. She either did that on purpose or it was a mistake. Either way, in the past I would get butthurt about such stuff. Nowadays I started to just laugh at these things.

If you are the girl in your ava you have nothing to worry about, hun. You have to do mindfulness while approaching random girls. Your attention will tell the truth. If you focus more on your own feelings than focusing on what the other feels, it means you are grounded within yourself. If you neglect your own feelings to focus on if the other person is "entertained" or likes you or not, it means you are not grounded. The metric is fear. The more fearful you are the more you will focus outside of yourself. The more relaxed you are, the more you will focus on yourself.

What others think about you is secondary. If you think you are attractive, YOU are attractive. I didn't say you would become attractive to every person. In retrospect, if you think you are unattractive, even the people that might find you attractive wont find you attractive, because why would anybody like you when you don't like yourself?

That is common sense, and I didn't even dispute that. I did that but I have trouble distinguishing good and bad criticism on feminism. For example, why can't I be angry at girls who expect me to pay for dates when in my country we get equal pay? If we get equal pay, I think we should share the bad stuff with girls too, not only the good stuff.

I know some people who are worse than Hitler.

I love women with that crazy look

The point is to do pickup without attachment.

I'm triggered by both but I'm triggered much more by feminist extremist because they hurt my interest as a man. Thanks for the insight. It was not easy to read and accept what you said but I think you are right. I think this is called shadow.

The tables have turned. I would know what to do but it is up to you.

@SamC I'm not anti feminist. For the record, I support healthy feminism and denounce overcompensating behaviour portrayed by feminists. You might have a point about my inward disconnection with my feminine side. I'm stoic and dissociative and I'm working on that with a therapist and on my own, but I don't think that is going to change how I view feminist extremists when I'm "healed". Even the word "feminism" is not neutral word and in practise this proves to be true. Are you not triggered by women always getting custody over children?

That is not charisma. That is being a clown. lol.

@Spiral Wizard "not gonna lie"... why would you be afraid to tell the truth?

This is the first time I'm seeing Leo interacting with another human being. It was kind of weird. I thought he would be as much or more charismatic as in his solo videos. His chest hair saved his charisma a little bit though.

I don't have good experiences with feminists. They demand equal pay while they work part time and their male counterparts work full time. Since a year or something I'm following "feminists". These are not prominent feminist but just girl next door types. Most of them are just man hating on social media and saying sexist stuff to men. If we said the same stuff to them we would be lynched on social media.

Feminism has definitely a dark and toxic side:

I went through the program in 2 days. The instructor is a technical dude. I believe he is an engineer or something and his model for PUA resembles that. It is very resembled and technical and I liked that. The downside is that it is a dump of information. It isn't structured like a program with theory and exercises every week. Luckily I did another program. The other program I did was on weekly basis. Todd's program is great. Today I practiced his stuff in the field and I noticed the confidence "the system" gave me. The system is basically a tool to resort back to when you are lost in the game. What I liked the most about the program is the road map that Todd gives. It shows how to develop your skills as a beginner, intermediate, and advanced gamer. I didn't even know these nuances. This program is probably the most broad program on the market. Todd seems like a nerdy and stiff guy but his model fits very well with natural game. Eventually you want to depend on natural game but as a beginner your natural game will suck. This is where this program comes in and helps you. The downside of this program is that it is theory based and not action based. If you are a newby and newer took action I wouldn't recommend this program. First do action based PUA programs and then come back and do this program. There are some programs out there that are on weekly basis and requires you to take action every week.

@Superfluo Hot Seat at home by Tyler is on my list. Is Tyler's blueprint decoded covered by the newer Hot Seat at home? I tried watching blueprint decoded but it was so much fluffed up and long-winded that I stopped. The thing with game is that it has to be learned in the field. You need boots on the ground. For me Todd's system was the missing part. It is like a Swiss knife (outergame). It is better to have it than not have it. I think you guys don't understand what Todd's program is for. He says you shouldn't depend on the system. The system is only there to fall back to if you are stuck or start plateauing.