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My plan is this: I will take two weeks to read the necessary literature that you provided and after that start taking LSD and 5 MeO, I hope to wrap it up in the next 2-3 months in conjunction with therapy. I have a history of serious psychological and physical abuse. I'm really done with my old ways. I feel like I need to take some radical steps. I already did the necessary prep with therapy and reading. I can't really do more.

Luckily I have therapy though. Last 3 months I studied psychology (while taking therapy). Next 3 months I will dive deep with psychedelics. Wish me luck.

@acidgoofy damn, thank you so much. That is what I was looking for. I know there is a lot of bad info out there. That is why I asked it here. I already took 220 ug of LSD and it was fine. I just missed the guidance for healing. IMHO actualized dot org has to focus on this stuff. Trying to be enlightened while having traumas is a recipe for disaster.

Being good looking or charismatic will get you nothing if you don't have anything to back it up with. If you have things to back up your good looks, then yes, otherwise no! The thread question is too black and white.

John Welwood?

Leo being cold hearted and blunt is very Russian. Like Russia's symbol the bear. It will be difficult to be heart centered if he doesn't see it.

This was my point. Good to know some people got my point.

@Leo Gura in the past I brought up the dangers of mental illnesses/childhood trauma and psychedelics. You shrugged it under the table and you said you give multiple warnings in your videos and people can google and research stuff before taking it. You yourself don't have any mental illnesses so it was hard for you to empathize what I was talking about. I think now you understand my point. In your recent videos you said you give warnings but these were obviously not enough. People are UNCONSCIOUS of their own mental illnesses and childhood trauma so just giving them "warnings" is like telling a blind person to stop at a red light. Perhaps you should make some specific videos on trauma healing with help of psychedelics: that is actually practical for most people and would make their life better. People come here and they think enlightenment is the magic pill while being deeply mentally ill. That is the problem.

Today I approached a lady on the street in an indirect way. Started talking about the traffic and bunch of other stuff. She was married. This was my only approach of today and I got kind of down because of it. I have to keep reminding myself it is a numbers game. I'm trying not to judge myself if I don't do 3-5 streaks. Still it was an interesting approach. I got to practice teasing and frame control. Letting go of control and only controlling frame in broad strokes is kind of difficult. I'm a control freak and this is also my biggest problem. PUA is as much internal as external. Internal I would say is more important since the internal because the external. The girl who's number I got couple of days ago doesn't pick up my phone calls and answers my text. Why did she gave it to me if she was going to ghost me? These women suck.

The expectations you put on Actualized org forum are just your expectations. The majority of the members here don't share your expectations. You already get a lot of freebies and wanting more is kind of ungrateful.

My health insurance covers it so I just go every 2 weeks although it does not really help me with my back problems. I found another one and he is a little better. There are minor improvements. It is not a magic pill.

Some people use this tragedy to project their daddy issues on Leo. The point is that you shouldn't do hard-core spirituality if you have mental or emotional problems and can't afford therapy. Is this fair? No it is not fair but this is how it is. I wouldn't do spirituality if I couldn't afford therapy.

Frame control nob: informal <> formal I approach 2 girls I the gym. In the gym I usually approach formal. It is not a place to do direct game because the chance of awkwardness is high. This is important: when being formal it is important to be congruent. If one is having a friendly casual chat, but one is subcommunicating informal (sexual or needy) things, it is a huge red flag for her. It is OK to play with the nob of formal and informal but your body and mind has to be congruent. I see formal game as what they call vibing in pickup and I see informal as hooking/attraction/man to women frame in game. Direct game: opener > hooking (informal) > vibing (formal/informal) > close Indirect game: vibing (formal) > hooking (informal) > close Evaluation: With the first blonde girl that I talked about. I got stuck in qualification phase. This is the first time I do game in the gym. I don't blame myself but I do have this tendency when girls don't give me a lot to work with. Next time I will just keep going forward instead being stuck. I noticed I disengage from my feelings and start thinking and get in my head during these moments. The second girl was a cutie in a crop top. Also in the gym. I saw her looking at me couple of times. I got really turned on by her. I did formal opener. We were vibing and suddenly I got really excited about talking to her and my vibe was kind of off. Same thing happened as with the last girl. I just stopped engaging and got in my head. I'm not really disappointed about these approaches. It is the first time in the gym and the first time I'm doing Indirect game. I still have to find my way around but I do get annoyed about getting in my head, stop engaging with her. The thing is that in the gym there is no hurry. I can play long game and it is better to take it easy and not take big risks. I will be using a different strategy in the gym than on the street.

To build upon my last post about frame. Game is really all about game and the ability to maintain and project it. I approached a 9,5 blonde girl in the gym. I had a frame of iron. She was all shy and reserved. She did qualify and id ask me some questions back. I know I had to push through but my calibration was kind of off. She was just rrrr. Calibration is key in game. It is really about sensing her vibe in a teakwando way and using her momentum to push your own momentum in your favor to create the desired man to woman frame. I'm too polite. Way too polite but I'm still doing better than 90% of the beta males around here. Now I understand how and why the 10% fucks the best females. Setting proper frame is comparable to fucking her. Not physically but mentally. You really have to catch her at ground zero and lead her to man to woman. In day game, the emotional frame of girls is not hyped up like during night game. Catching her at her ground zero is really important and than gradually upping up the emotional pumps. It is not about the words you pump in her. It is about the emotions you pump in her.

Luckily my therapy is covered by my health insurance. I wouldn't do spirituality if I couldn't afford the professional help.

I made a shift from word based game to frame based game. I was not even aware I made this switch but it was a gradual process. The last girl that gave me her digits gave me the insight. I was able to turn the conversation man to women and it was transrational. It was not explicit. It was implicit language. I used my words to point towards a frame, man to woman, in a span of 2 minutes. I discovered that it is very important to keep the lead. The moment you lose it the girl just get confused. I will be training leading my frame. This ties very well with psycho cybernetics: set the intention/frame and let go of micro management. Be instead of do. And if you do only do in broad strokes. Being certain of your frame is matter of confidence. If you spoke to hot girls and they liked you, you will carry that reference experience (past frame) with you to the present and the future. So when you talk to another hot girl, you will have multiple frames and more options to navigate the situation.

A 12 year old will have a parent to check in on him/her. That is why we don't need to build a world that is made for 12 year olds; they have their parents who will keep a short leash on the kid if he is being dangerous.

That won't change anything for his family. To come back at grounding. Especially for airy fairy types it is important to ground and integrate because if you don't do that, you will go "up" very high and then come back very "hard". I made an extensive topic about this a while back but it didn't get a lot of attention on this forum because it is not popular to speak about it. Unfortunately now it is too late.

Those two statements are contradicting each other. That is what I'm saying. To integrate one needs to relate.

When doing spiritual work it is important to ground yourself in Shakti. If he had studied Buddhism and then come to New age spirituality I believe he wouldn't committed suicide. Leo's teachings are dangerous to airy fairy type of people. I read the dudes post and he comes across as such. It is very easy to misinterpret Leo's teachings if the person is airy fairy. Spirituality should go hand in hand with grounding and integrating. Otherwise nasty stuff can happen.

Probably it was the psychedelics. People who have depression should be careful. I made a topic on this matter a while ago.

With RSD it is around 2k With others like The Natural lifestyles 3k and 4k <> 15k for a weekend Just look at this: I always wanted to take a seminar like this until recently. 1,5 months ago I started cold approaching without a coach or help; just self study. Now that I watch videos like this I'm like "wtf?" people pay thousands of dollars/euros to a pony tailed dude to tell them to say "Hi, what's up?", "You are cute", "what is your name?" to women? It seems people just pay the money so somebody can tell them and give them the permission to approach another human being. Of course there is feedback you get from the coaches but just buy a recorder put it in your pocket while doing approaches and you can listen back to yourself. This seminar is not even going further than the pickup phase. This is how you can simulate a PUA workshop: Buy a recorder to record your interactions Go to a neighboring city (not your home city) and this will significantly diminish your approach anxiety; and just be yourself even if that causes shame Find a good balance between theory and practice; if you are too deep in the theory; stop studying theory until you took equal amount of action Find a PUA friend so you can do it together; he doesn't even need to know PUA; I found one who is just a natural

@Muhammad Jawad my condolences

Sexy, beautiful and especially feminine women love brutality. Condition: the brutality has to be in a tamed way. Uncontrolled brutality is a turn off but if you can show light hearted genuine brutality she will shake on her legs from excitement. Being a horny dog is much better than being fake and nice to her. I still have this "wankerness" inside me; I will need to take my time to integrate and transcend this part of me.

Hookup culture is different than dating culture. For dating they look at long term value in a partner. For short term they don't look at long term value like what your education and fat your wallet is. For short term the only thing that is important is how she FEELS. If she feels she want to unzip her pants for you, you need to get the logistics straight and make it possible for her to do that. Plant the seed in her brain and make the plant grow.