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Those oneliners can be understood in one sweep. What Nahm says can only be understood if you read it 3 times, if you are lucky.

I agree but I don't see how it is connected to what I said.

In my opinion Leo should be ruthless on this point. A lot of people are here for self promotion and "finding clients" and it just taints the character of this forum. Self promotion should be banned.

I felt like Nahm dailed it back and became more down to earth in the last few months. Sometimes I didn't understand what he wrote and I thought it was my mistake; I had to reread it. Afterwards I discovered it is just his style. He likes to talk in riddles so to say and you have to unpack it to understand it. He helped me a few times and I'm thankful for that. If one doesn't want to change it is spiritual ego and I don't think he is the only one guilty of that.

Would they have the same level of consciousness? I mean, if they had the same life experiences and people in their life. I know it is technically not possible but if it is was possible to run such a model, it would reveal this life experiences = who you are!

The author says nothing different than you. Yes. It is all 1 but that doesn’t mean such a model doesn’t give as understanding. we pull something apart and put it back together to understand it better. that is the whole deal with spirituality. There is a difference between a bum who says he didn’t know nothing and somebody who meditated for 10 years in a cave and discovers he doesn’t know nothing.

Are you familiar with David Hawkins?

I have the same experience. I haven't finished the book and I already feel like a different person. I need to practise letting go more often though: I'm just too lazy to build up a meditation habit. Meditation is actually just that: letting go.

The best remedy for "not knowing what to say" is this: When that thought arises go back to the feeling that belongs with that thought and let it go. Game really boils down to the letting go mechanism. David Hawkins has a book on it. That book is really transformational. I tried this yesterday: stop identifying with thoughts and emotions and start identifying with the letting go mechanism, and I really made a leap in my communication. I felt immersed and just a natural. It showed me how pickup and spirituality have commonalities. @Striving for more Julian has a program on this topic called RSD transformation, so I agree with you that he has a lot of good things about him.

Porn or masturbation addiction is a real thing. You are right that those addictions can’t be overwin with guilt tripping but that doesn’t take away it is a real problem. Too much dopamine release in the brain fucks up the reward/punishment mechanism in the brain and it can cause motivation problems and such.

I'm not advocating treating girls like dirt. I'm just stating a fact and observation that girls creep away from nice guys and they don't creep away from narcissist (who doesn't over do it). It is about finding a balance though. The words a human speaks is like 10-20%. So when expressing yourself, the words that are used are like a tiny part of your expression. It is about the vibe and radiance of your presence more than anything.

So what is your routine then? Which kriya yoga exercises?

What I noticed that guys who are good with girls, they love themselves. Formula = talk about yourself + love yourself. These guys treat these girls like dirt and they love it. I mean, they ask and we serve, right? Pickup is really an inner job and loving oneself is not easy (at least for me). I never thought pickup would be so hard. I'm faced with all my inner demons.

Oh, ok. I thought you were Indian.

@Preety_India why do you have a german flag as your ava?

That is not funny

It is a hard knock life for the members who thought they were smart.

True

The ecstasy of real sex is much better than porn. The smells, the intimacy, the sweat, the immersiveness and interactiveness is unmatched in my opinion. I think it depends on what your kink is, my kink is a girl´s submissiveness.

I had it once or twice when girls ask a financial favor in an indirect way, indirectly signaling me so I get the hint and buy her something. It is a very clever way of doing it because it is covert. For example: This girl told me she is cold, that her coat is getting old, that she doesn’t have another coat, and some other similar remarks. I acted like I didn’t get the hint and just showed sympathy for her coldness. Is this the right way to do it? I only knew this girl for 2 dates and she started ignoring me afterwards. She probably found me boring and then tried to degrade me to a sugar daddy. LoL.

There is nothing to understand, they are more emotional than us, while we are more logical.

Yes, I offered her my coat but she said no. Haha, I undestand but thanks. I already bought us pizza, coffee, we went to a lounge. That investment from my side. In my view investments should come from both side, we dated twice, it would skew the investment ratio in the relationship. Anyway, the real sticking point for me would be to find ways to become more fun and entertaining to be around, which should be the real issue of this thread. David Hawkins stuff helped me to become a less negative, depressed person and be more loving and upbeat in general but I'm no where close where I have to be. It is true, it happened more than once that girls blocked me after a date. It isn't the coat, guys. Especially where I'm from girls are not that materialistic. They want connection most of all.

I want her to have sex with me because she wants me. If I have to buy a coat, I rather go to a prostitute. Also the problem is not this particular girl. The problem is I'm not very emotional (apathetic) and a little bit stuck up. I rather spend my money on some kind of therapy to fix that, rather than to pay that money for coats. No, why? She liked me when I approached her but she got bored. People can change their minds. Also I don't look very rich or something, nor am I old lol.

Yes, I liked her. I'm not going to lie, she looks stunning but she also had a kind and warm personality. The first half of my time with her was amazing, the second half was getting boring. I wasn't surprised she blocked me.

No, she really liked me when I approached her. I could see it in her eyes. I just messed it up by being boring, not knowing how to game her. The thing is that, I had girls tell me I'm boring so it would be a disservice to blame her. She is a very beautiful girl and she deserves the best. I could afford it. Agreed