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On which SP stage are you?

I understand psychology at a very high level thanks to vision logic.

When you get a girl on your hook you still have to pull it in. She is not going to do your work for you.

@Carl-Richard systems thinking: seeing patterns in everything and being able to connect it to the larger pattern. It is just a small taste of integral holistic thinking. I have too many gaps in the lower stages.

@Ulax do you have a link?

I had an amazing date with a Mexican girl. Very sweet, extrovert, open and spiritual person. I could totally let go and be myself. I discovered that I date for validation. And it sucks. But that is where I’m emotionally. That is where I’m at. I’m trying to be more accepting of where I’m at. Which is difficult.

I think Leo is not elaborate enough in his wordings and he doesn’t give enough context. Some of his older videos on spirituality do more harm than good.

You are not your brain exclusively. So you are and you are not. I think people are mistaken who say you are not your brain. That is not the whole truth.

To run what she has one needs to develop the masculine archetype of leadership. Otherwise it is bound to be a huge shit fest with emotions and tampons and shit flying around. It is naive stage (semi) green that thinks if you put a bunch of stage green people together that it will be heaven on earth.

Is it possible to break into 2nd tier while having holes in your lower tiers? I have still some toxic SP stage orange and weak stage blue. But I feel like I broke into 2nd tier and other people are noticing it too.

On average yes. No need to get stuck in statistics or verbals.

Approached this girl in the park and it was all fun and games but when I tried to close she said she just broke up with her bf. A month ago. After that she said she wasn’t in the market for dating. What should I have said at this point? The honest answer would be to tell her the truth: I’m interested in dating you. But I chose to say it was ok and we could take it slow and just have a coffee. Do you think my approach was ok or should I have been more open and direct about my desires? In general I have problems with this. She also threw a shit test, one that I get a lot: “ do you approach girl often?” In this instance I answered with “yes, everyday!” but I saw her shocked face and “quickly said “I thought she was interesting and that is why I talked to her. I got her phone number. I enjoyed the set and that is the most important. I’m just a little insecure about how direct one should be about one’s desires. This was a nice girl so I thought being too direct would scare her off.

By embodying it. Don’t hide your feelings behind your ego. Wear it on your shoulder. You will have a different aura (vibe). Most of the communication happens unconscious and non verbal as they say. You are rather focused on the verbals which is like 20% of the communication.

You don’t need to confess with words. You can confess with your being. It is much more powerful.

Good line My game is semi-direct so it can come off as gamey. The thing is indirect game is much harder; when I do indirect game, a lot of girls are confused like "what is the purpose of you talking to me?", and direct game takes that question away but the downside is that it can come off as gamey. Usually I'm direct. I'm not proud of it but I'm really that shallow haha. That is what I'm trying to do. I'm doing a good job of not emotionally investing too much; just mirroring her emotional investment. But in terms of "being bought", I think I'm just being curious but now that I think about it I could do some more qualifying.

This is what learning game is in a nutshell: Throwing yourself in the pool of emotions you are afraid of is the way to learn. In the past I made the mistake of only putting my legs in water and do that again and again. You don’t really learn anything from that. You really have to put yourself in the unknown and just jump in the pool. You won’t drown. In the worst case you will make an ass out of yourself. But if you had the choice between that and wasting your precious youth, what would you choose? I rather choose to get everything out of my youth rather than being scared of making a fool out of myself.

Doing game 2 days per week is ok once you crossed a certain threshold in PUA skills. In the beginning, like first 2-3 weeks of your journey, you should go balls deep to shell shock your system and afterwards dialing it back to 2 days per week is ok. You want to jump in the pool, not only put your toe in the water and come back again next week and do the same.

@Preety_India uhhh ok.

Not all women are the same. Some just want the cheap deal and don’t look for something serious. But this girl in the OP is not one of them I think.

I clicked the link and I couldn’t find anything.

I see what you did there

You don't understand David Hawkins. No offence.

@Gidiot which scientists?

Ego is an instrument. Don’t identify with the instrument but be an user of the instrument.

In the third eye. Images are imprints from the god head.