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You need to put your dick down and tell her how it is.

Men fall for beauty that can reproduce Female fall for success (social, financial, status, intellectual). And success flows from raising consciousness. As a guy you should bet on raising consciousness.

It is called a shit test

I can imagine it is hard to be a girl. But these struggles will last until you pass 30. After that male attention you get will be considerably less. And then you will open a thread why you don’t get male attention. In my opinion you should judge them if they are good hearted or not.

@Arcangelo I usually spend below 15-20 on first dates, perhaps even less if it is a coffee date. Couple of times I spend more on girls I liked and they just dropped me and didn't even have the respect to tell me why they decided to ghost me. This is really the core of this topic I guess: I don't feel respected and I don't want to be taken advantage of. I know it is probably a reflection of my inner self: I don't have respect (love) for myself so it reflects onto the girl and they treat me like I treat myself. This is something I'm working on.

You could imagine him being with you, use sexual fantasy, you girls are good at that, use your fingers and shit like Leo does and then finish yourself off with the vibrator.

don't pluck the apple (from the tree of knowledge) if it is green

I have more gifs but I can't post them here ?

I don´t really have diet. I always eat healthy food combinations. It is hard to formulate it here but my go to is (green leaf) vegetables and fresh cut meats, fish and other protein. So it other words mostly mediterranean.

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You need to go to the source of neediness which is inside. If you find other girls, those will just be another emotional tampon for you. Trigger yourself & let go of identification of neediness and related emotions & repeat.

My old therapist found dogs scary because of a childhood trauma which I found weird. I judged her in my head and felt guilty that I judged her. My thought process was like this: "how is she going to help me if she hasn't fixed her own traumas?". Is it healthy to judge professionals this way? I felt guilty and I suppressed it and now I'm with a new therapist and I'm seeing similar red flags. I've talked to a lot of therapists and a lot of them don't know what they are talking about (purely an opinion and nothing more). Seems like most therapists only study for their university courses and when they are finished they don't really do self-help and own research. Finding a stage yellow therapist is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. I don't have time or money for that. Most therapists don't even know about meditation or about subconscious work: I have to do it myself. I'm really going to therapy for emotional support; with my real problems like overthinking, apathy, dissociation they can't help me with. So my question really is how to deal with these kind of therapists? I'm really not trying to judge them. Currently I use them for emotional support, accountability, feedback and reflection. It is much better than having no therapist; if I didn't get anything out of the sessions I wouldn't go.

Techniques to remember

You haven't seen my collection lol But to give a serious answer to your topic: sounds to me like you are trying to fuck away your problems which won't work because of the principle of hedonistic adaptation. you need to find God's love and you won't be that overly horny.

Learn office politics. It is not what you do but how you make people feel. They can’t read your mind so you have to explain it in a language they understand.

Get yourself a good bf

Easier said than to be done

Not all of them are stage yellow but to name some: Ken Wilber, David Hawkins, Allan Wats, and so on

What helps with me is sexual transmutation (which is nofap) as an alternative to getting drunk: kundalini up can fuck you up.

@UpperMaster I know this is going to fall on deaf ears but I'm going to say it anyway. This is what you need to do: a lot of meditation! Perhaps you are not ready for it. Perhaps you need a lot more suffering to understand it. But just remember it. That is what you need. I recommend RSD transformation if you need more details. It is a good course of trauma release and raising consciousness. All those make-shift surface level solutions like porn filters and shit won't work. You are not a kid. Don't treat yourself as a kid. Have respect and love for yourself. Don't run away from the suffering but face it as a man. And how do you deal with those sexual urges? Get into sexual transmutation. Busting your nut is not the only way to get rid of your libido.

Stay off the hard drugs bro ?

Rather listen to stage yellow audiobooks.

@Tahuti you mean DMT or 5MeO DMT? And what method you use to consume?

If I'm in the mood I don't need alcohol but sometimes I'm not just in the mood and alcohol loosens me up. If I'm out there for 1-2 hours it is ok and I can push being in the flow of the night but when I'm in a bad mood and can't find my flow; I'm better of just going home rather than forcing myself to be present, have fun and be in the flow. Alcohol is in a sense a super power, it is called Dutch courage for a reason. It is a super poison that gives you special powers. It can make a bad night a good night. Dancing becomes more fun too.