Raptorsin7

@wwhy Haha sad @Roy Who is the other member

I regret all those interactions dam. I feel remorse. I have to stop posting so much nonsense and just focus on finishing. I want to move on from this and live my life.

I think this thread has run it's course. Thank you everyone for your responses @Forestluv @mods please close the thread

I gotta stop getting into arguments with people. I feel like a melon ready to burst, but then again people end up seeking for 20 years haha.

@wwhy Cool. Literally complete delusion but do whatever you want.

@wwhy Haha you must be trolling me now. Dude at least have some good faith. You may disagree with what i'm saying or resent my jabs but i am telling you what I believe and have experienced. And if you want to a question a specific belief i'd be happy to discuss it. But you don't want to engage in good faith.

@wwhy Haha you have no idea what you're talking about. I'm not bitter against success, how are you getting that out of what i'm typing. You are delusional. Go learn how to meditate.

@wwhy What response. You are calling me out on my ability to articulate. How do you expect me to engage with that? You are an unwise fool from my pov. You don't need a youtube channel for me to see that

@wwhy You are not engaging in good faith. You're playing ego games

@Preety_India That's fair, I acknowledge it's possible to balance both

If I meet a woman who is a partner at a law firm and works 90 hours a week and expects me to value that the same way woman value highly successful men I wouldn't find that attractive. It takes a masculine woman to become that kind of success. You are a joke. I listed you 5 things. You just didn't read them and instead chose to attack me.

@Eternal Unity Yeah i've heard a few people here mention that. I'm on the last stage of my life before I stop caring about what stage i'm at haha

@Consept This is a problem in the Indian community in Canada too. The men were babied and coddled, and the woman were forced to be more responsible and now you have a situation where many more woman are educated than man, and the Indian community values intelligence and education. The result is a shortage of eligble Indian men for Indian woman. Many of these woman are first-second generation immigrants who's parents weren't educated. It is clear to say that many Indian woman effectively hurt their dating/marriage prospects because of their decision to get highly educated. I know you guys like to judge/look down upon stage blue around here but it's a real thing

@Emerald Okay I completely acknowledge that attacking your spiritual ability was unnecessary and childish. I don't what exactly you are disagreeing with about my perspective. If you bring up a specific point i'd be happy to discuss it. As far as lacking experience, you don't have the relationship dynamic I want. Just I because I haven't been in a close relationship doesn't mean I don't see people around me and notice certain patterns about what's happening. I do believe that your personality/life experience makes you unique when it comes to finding a partner. We are speaking to different parts of the spiral and how they are embodied. I appreciate you staying on point with good charity through the discussion though As far as what I want in a relationship and me running into problems I'm not worried. The most important thing I'm going to look for is if she is a loving person, I can literally feel myself changing as a person because of learning real meditation and I know what it looks like in other people.

Haha I gotta work on how I interact on the forum. I went too hard. I wonder if I should set a timer for how long I rest as awareness. It seems like I start the process of surrender and then i immediately distract myself. I'm at a weird spot on the path. I think I'm right here at the gate, but I don't feel a strong urgency to enter. I'm in a trance of procrastination. Self inquiry is the way. I remember how typing out my current thought process during psych trips helped me surrender because it would hurt when I typed something wrong

I would say the same thing about you advising people on spiritual enlightenment and spirituality. And it is relevant because you're trying to invalidate my opinion by showing that i lack direct experience. You made a video advising spiritual seekers on how to progress, when you clearly had no direct experience at the time of making the video. I have enough experience with woman and desirability to give my opinion. And you shouldn't be advising people on the path or spirituality. I woudn't go so far to say they will ruin their life, as if my advice here would lead someone to ruin their life lol, but you are a dime a dozen in the spiritual scene. You can read a book on meditaiton and spiritualtiy, have some experience with psychs, and your audience can't see how you're just filling in the gaps.

He must be a gem

@Emerald What am i saying specifically that you disagree with? You are talking to me about speaking without an authority. Why do you have a series of videos on the common traps of seeking spiritual enlightenment when you aren't enlightened? You made that video in 2018, but you made a post recently about this paradigm shattering DMT experience. Isn't that misleading? Would you say you are qualified with direct experience to speak about spiritual enlightenment? Don't you think it's misleading that you have a youtube audience that you have led to believe you an authority on spiritual enlightenment?

This is a good point I agree with.

@Emerald What i've said in this thread has been supported by the vast majority of men who are responding, If you want to single out a point to disagree i'd be happy to respond to it, but if you are trying to question my authority to give advice, I don't know what you want me to say we're on an internet forum, and you are in the online self help/spiritual field. I can only speak from my experience, in terms of what i would want in a partner and how I view men around me and how they judge females. I have high standards, I guess i'm biased in speaking to what i'd look for in a woman. This is laughable. You are talking about living from the heart haha. Are you speaking from the heart when you write this?

@Emerald I don't recognize your authority in providing wisdom. But to each their own.

@soos_mite_ah Do you value looks? Do you expect your partner to value looks or would that be low on the list?

What did you find contradictory, I have a pretty clear picture in my mind I can resolve any inconsistencies you find. I'd say top 5 not necessarily in that order. Beautiful, Happy, Intelligent, Wealthy, well developed feminine side.

@soos_mite_ah Wow that's a big list haha. Yeah I feel the same way. It does change when you come to relationships from a place of want vs need. In my opinion, and from the opinion of a number of men that have commented here, men and woman value different things when it comes to valuing a partner. I am skeptical you will find a man who will value you the same way you are valuing him, but it's possible.

Would you be content dying alone? Also what do you want in a partner. Also, the type of men you would date.. what do you think they want in a partner Basically every guy here is saying more or less the same thing related to the topic, I admit I have very high standards and it remains to be seen if I can meet someone to fits the bill, but it sounds like you think the majority opinion here is off and you're going to go out and find a man nothing like us but hes going to be conscious etc etc I never said conscious men are like children, you didn't understand what I said.