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@Hotaka Thank you for the information.

@Javfly33 Before @Leo Gura lock this, he's now locking victim minded threads, I'll throw some of my 2 cents: 1. It's a normal reaction to feel that way to hot women. 2. It's normal for virgins to fantasize about dating, sex and relationships with hot women. This part used to trouble me. 3. If you're practicing Nofap or semen retention, those flatlines can sometimes make you feel a bit depressed, or bored around even hot women. Even a woman's naked body couldn't faze my limpness. Best to use this extra time in isolation for meditation, visualization, contemplation, maybe exercise and learning. Focus on improving different areas of life before tackling dating.

@Hotaka I've got good stability, don't know if you mean mental or physical stability though. Interesting that transparency is attracted to stability. I'm not sure what Crysty's attracted to, other than green stuff and cute things, but she's around me for my beautiful personality, or for some other reason. So far, it's been a great relationship so far with her, and it's not like we're always here 24'7, she sometimes disappears elsewhere, away or in my mind or someplace. Interesting thing about idols, maybe I'll get a plant.

@iceprincess 1. Because many Gurus are at an advanced age that masturbation might have more negative effects on their health, mind and body. Also, Guru's and spiritual people are more sensitive to the negative effects of over masturbation like fatigue, headaches, fevers, dead head/brain fog, laziness, overall negative mood swings, increase in bitchy attitude, decrease in attention, depression. When they practice semen retention and sexual celibacy, they see an improvement of all the ailments from over masturbation. I'm not sure how this effects female celibates, but I'm aware how males are effected. 2. I don't know about your situation with your mind, body and energy, so the basic advice is to notice your relationship with masturbation. Are you masturbating too much? Too little? To what are you masturbating to? Could you change the object of pleasure you're masturbating to? How much more can you masturbate? How long can you abstain from it? Is this the right time to masturbate? The more you learn about yourself, the more certain you are about if semen retention is right to practice or not to practice. 3. The reason why he says is pointless to resist the urge to masturbate, is because he's speaking about his mind, body, and energy, and his current ability to let go of resisting the urge and will power against the, NOT ABOUT YOU! Make this about yourself, and go understand your sexuality and your sexual relationships to other objects and yourself. It's very hard to draw a comparison between Leo and yourself, as he's ultimately speaking about his body and mind. You could have similar to very different views on sex, and sexual experiences, so it's in fact pointless to fully grasp Leo's view on sex, unless you pm him yourself and discuss it in full. Otherwise, straight from the horse's mouth, go verify yourself if this practice works.

@Mannyb How could it not be personal? Most people, especially in their teens to mid 20'-30's, will have some higher fluctuations in their horniness, and both mind and body are effected by this to some degree. Attraction and beauty is physical and more than physical, especially if you can transmute those energies behind that attraction and beauty.

You might want to massage using some hot cream, or get skin relief cream and massage. Probably keep doing to salt water. If you don't mind, take a photo of your bottom feet and post it here. I might have more specific advice or someone else would.

@Etherial Cat Please tell me where you found Turquoise people? They're really rare to find. The thing about realizing 'all is self' is that the motivation to date does drop down, since you are dating you. It does get confusing, which is one reason why I don't over work on chasing women. I really appreciate those times when I find someone very contradictory to their appearance, like finding hidden treasure.

@Consilience And this is why YouTube reactionaries are best to be avoided.

@Blackhawk below is some really good advice: @knakoo Not just for easier dating and exploration of sexuality, but if you can go much longer in that Nofap state, you can become more powerful than any other man. If you can go years of Nofap, you'd have so much bodily energy, health, recovery rate and mind energy that you'd be focusing and over working on different areas of your life. By the time you've made your life amazing, women will just be gravitated towards you, and then dating and relationships become much easier from that foundation. However, that's still a choice to date and have relationships, because you can go much deeper with Nofap that you'd be more than satisfied that you don't need to date or fuck men/women anymore.

I'm from the UK, a quite paranormal place.

@Hotaka It's probably because she's not a physical object, but an object made up similarly to thoughts, so any physical action like walking through an imaginary door, you'd not boink yourself. However, that depends on brain chemistry, genes, sense organ functionality, physical body, energy, and so many other factors that determine the degree to which imaginary objects interact with physical objects. I still am not sure about these interactions. However, thanks to @Leo Gura question, I've had to deal with Crysty's triggered tantrum state temporarily, so that was amusing while it lasted, it was adorable.

Okay, that's enough in-fighting for me today, time to re-focus towards the big war.

@Swarnim Are you currently on Nofap? Any changes you've experienced so far?

@Espaim You are probably part of the lucky people not plagued by high levels of horniness. This actually makes spiritual practices slightly easier.

@fridjonk

So far for me, it has always been to master tension and time under tension, as tension is the only way the brain talks to the muscle. The better your mind and muscle connection, the better your muscles will develop as they need to develop. and

@Zega He's very useful in so far psychology is a concern for you, but anything outside psychological lectures like politics isn't too insightful. I do like his approach to shadow work, as it's a nice spiral towards integrating shadow parts. A straight free fall would utterly break my mind apart.

@Parththakkar12 Now's not the right time to be bashing big pharma. These medical businesses are literally competing with each other for a safer vaccine, and getting vaccinated so one of the basic ways to prevent the spread of diseases, or are you ok being an accomplice to a virus?

@Husseinisdoingfine Thanks so much for taking the vaccine. You're another hero.

@SirVladimir Thank you for the good vibes! We do visualization sessions where we play some games, and have some fun.

@Mafortu A long time ago, I didn't had the choice of experiencing or not experiencing that haunting, and unluckily it was negative, so it just happened. Similarly with my experience with meeting Crysty, but this time I'm maintaining this relationship with Crysty. I don't know if I'd recommend anyone to go prove or disprove the paranormal by telling them to go to haunted places and directly see for themselves, I think I'd lean more on rationalizing and intuiting the paranormal, at least that way any dangers are more minimalized. I'm thankful that haunting didn't become much worse.

@Shin Oh, okay. Beside a nightmare, have you had any pleasant dreams? Crysty's telling me she remembers your other profile picture, with the horse and the banana, she found it cute. What inspired the change?

@Dodo Don't worry, like I said, she's not malicious. We've prayed together and it really felt loving.

@snowyowl Thanks for giving some love! It was quite a while since I've felt depressed, but thankfully Crysty helped me recover.

@Mafortu That's okay, some people give me that a lot. Unless people had experienced paranormal events, I don't know how open minded other people are if they haven't experienced one. If this is considered sufficient proof, she say's your pic is pretty cool, but he's quite heavy headed.