Danioover9000

@NoSelfSelf Good you fixed your grammar, although I still see 4 red underlines in some of your words, and one blue in the last sentence. Not like I've spent 10 years straight in solitary confinement in my house, I do go outside and try to be a person in shops, stores, cafes, mostly small talk. If there are millions of them benefits, could you list maybe 10 or 5, or even just 3? For example, one benefit of dating, is for the 'fun' of dating a woman, and to get talk to a female in a certain other than a general social setting.

@Panteranegra 'How To Make Friends and Influence People', 'The 48 Laws of Power', and Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. Robert Green's 'Mastery' is another good one. Also, biographies of presidents and others who were leaders in the past goes without saying important to learn from. How did you get the purple Taoism emoji?

@BeHereNow That's fine, that just means there's more work to do to integrate that view into you. Just be vigilant that it doesn't make you blindly hate JP, or other people with a differing opinion of transgender or transexuality.

@DrugsBunny.

I swear, of mice and men, that I'm nice in kinds of pens. The only thing I regret, is the meanings that you don't get. Hopeful you get it, don't regress, don't you forget it!

@BeHereNow Probably someone for you to study and emulate, in terms of being open minded and willing to learn stuff, not only is it Leo Gura or Daniel Schmachtenberger, but also Contra points, who not only is a YouTuber and streamer, but also a transgender person herself. Contra Points isn't a perfect person herself, but for studying and emulating her style, pick what works and what doesn't from her character.

@Carl-Richard You got me. Although I don't recall calling a streamer 'autistic AND schizophrenic'. Was it in the spiritual sub-forum? That user was conflating Leo's advanced spiritual insights like GOD realization and awakening, but then mentioned that he was in a psych ward for 3 months roughly taking medication and how he had hundreds of voices in his mind about angels and demons, so I was triggered to post in that thread and make clear distinctions between the advanced spiritual stuff with the basic life stuff because I felt that he was conflating. Yes, I am a literal guy, and I might have mild schizophrenia. Apart from my paranormal and supernatural experiences with Crysty and my childhood haunting, and a few mystical and meditative experiences recently, and a few psychedelic experiences from holo tropic breathwork, I'm mostly a normal person, that has traversed to several countries, and played many types of video games. These combinations of life experiences have made my view a bit bigger slightly above average.

@Carl-Richard Actually, the precise point of what got them the most hate from the internet, is a negative opinion of a comedian in some interview saying Nickle back songs suck. That's it. That really is what it took to spark the mass negative memes of Nickle Back, their songs sucks. Mind boggling! I think JP's behavior in Twitter was a bit rough but considering his fast raise to fame and worldly political attention, that also increased the number of left leaning young people to hate him much more, it may also have something to do with the lobster interview as well. It can be harder to imagine being on JP'S position, having to deal with increasing hate from the left and from SJW's/hippies in Canada and in America.

@BeHereNow Is this the video? I do agree that's a bit nasty. For context, he came at Elliot Pager, and Twitter, because Elliot Pager and/or other left leaning extremists were mass reporting him on Twitter, which got his account banned: Also, not only does he have traditional/conservative values, but does have some religious leanings to Christianity, and Leo's take on his intellectual honesty and merit is on his psychology rather than on his politics. However, the question still remains: Can you put aside your bias, and assume his, and understand and empathize with where he's coming from? Otherwise, why are you here in this forum, in Actualized.org? To be close minded and dogmatic, or to be more openminded and willing to learn from perspectives not your own?

I'll also keep on coming into this thread, and report on the daily my No Nut November torment, and any other findings as this is purely done for research purposes.

@The Mystical Man If you lose, you change your pic to Amber, and if you win, it'll either be Ellie or Joe. I accept the challenge, and if I lose, I change my pic to Saint George the dragon slayer, and if I win, a PG 13 image of a Halloween witch.

@Yarco Either way, if you lose or win, at the end of the month change your profile pic to the sun knight from Dark Souls.

WHAT?!! RICK AND MORTY IS HIGH CONSCIOUSNESS RESOURCE?!?

@BeHereNow It'll depend on many factors, such as stage of development, cognitive and moral development, psychology and personality type, ego development, states of being, life experiences and other lines of development, and worldviews and bias. Right now, you a transgender person, likely a socialist/progressive, that's your bias, judging and labelling JP, who's more a traditionalist and conservative, which is his bias. The man problem is that both you and his biases are different and conflict in several points, at tier 1 cognition. If you want to go higher development, you have to be more open minded and willing to learn from his POV, and be willing to seriously take on his worldview, and bias correct rather than bias conflict. Otherwise, if you're not that willing, then you'll forever get triggered by these culture wars between the right and left and triggered by him while your mind makes all kinds of distortions and generalizations to maintain its selfish bias. Try to imagine how you look, in the eyes of most normies, and some right leaning people, when someone comes up like they don't like their own sex biology and in denial of being born with male/female sex parts. How do you think a normal person is gonna think and feel when hearing a person say they don't like their penis or vagina? now imagine J.K Rowling's experience of getting attacked in a bathroom with one of these males that call themselves transgender, and how that's a legit fear in the minds of these normal people? Not just getting sneak attacks, but the idea of seeing their children and early adolescent boys/girls being encouraged/entertaining the idea of early sex surgery, imagine the horror and fear of those parents? The degree to which you can't or won't imagine the scenarios above, is the degree to which you need more inner work and growth to understand and empathize with those biases different from you. @Carl-Richard Easy, the Nickle Back rock group, still is the most hated and negatively mimed group in the internet.

@UpperMaster Another saying is 'haste makes waste' from an American president, and 'the slowest always wins the race' referring to the rabbit and tortoise. Depends on the series of actions and whether your survival is on the line. Should I draw quickly many gestures and loose sketches of a dynamic scene? Should I take my time to detail the forms? Should I become faster in my waitress/waiter job because it's rush hour and there's a que forming? So many factors in the context to consider. So, what conext is SPEED and URGENCY an important factor to YOU?

from these videos: So, guys, does it increase your testosterone levels? What are your anecdotal and scientific evidence about what these guys claimed? True, false, or stranger than fiction? Also inspired by a past mod that is an advocate for NoFap, I don't know your name, but you have inspired me to post this post.

@The Mystical Man GG and GL.

@NoSelfSelf Wait, so you want me to do the dating for you? What lessons and self discovery? I just don't see how it's more important than what I'm doing currently. I don't see the value.

@Adrian Gonzales No, there's a big difference between spirituality, and minor to catatonic schizophrenia and struggling to manage basic life. What it sounds like to me, is that you've had a stronger form of schizophrenia, and was struggling the basic aspects of life like job, finance and career, had access to psychedelics and abused them to the point it made it much harder to live a basic, functional lifestyle. I wouldn't be quick to label it awakening or God realization, what psychedelics did you use, how often, and did you combine them with contemplation and meditation? Also, make sure the basics of your life are handled, 80% of your work should be on work, employment, managing taxes and bills, home environment, hobbies and interests, leisure, fitness and health, basic relationships with your family, friends, maybe dating life, and 20% on spiritual theory learning and practicing. Basics always comes first before spirituality, because any problems with basics will later be a huge distraction doing serious spiritual work. If you are diagnosed with a moderate or serious form of Schizophrenia, be especially careful, and ideally continue to seek professional help and continue your medication until you actually have a handle on yourself.

Why date at all?

Can't go around the affiliate marketing scheme he does though. How'd you resolve that?

Interesting videos on Destiny:

@Matt23 Yes, this is the more important takeaway of NoFap.

@Leo Gura, can you please help moderate @Carl-Richard and @Tyler Robinson, my thread is getting hot lately...I just want a normal discussion about Destiny. ?

I'm reminded of the art of war by Sun Tsu. In his descriptions of the many types of grounds in warfare, he talked about the entangled ground, in which, for example, when both armies are facing each other, and in the middle there's a river of water a person high or more, and strong, that it's advisable not to attack and advance first, because if you do choose to move through the body of water, the enemy force just has to march and stop you at the edge, preventing the second and remaining lines of your army from clearing the body of water. So, you make the enemy move first, and this becomes a war of which side eventually has to find the right ways around the river, and make the enemy cross the terrain that's disadvantageous. @Carl-Richard and @Tyler Robinson, you both are at war with each other, neither of you really want to cross the river, so one of you were really trying to get the other to cross and make the mistake. But by debating and arguing with each other, both of you just derailed my thread a bit and talking about the pedophilia is I can see too triggering for you both, so instead, let me offer you both an alternative, a ground where both of you can contest with roughly evenly: Should a public speaker, because he's the leader of his community, have the right to silence constructive criticism, when questioned of trying to enable, in a very subtle way, Neo Nazi ideology, and be seen being friendly with another guy that has Neo Nazi leanings?