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Follow your heart.

Very simple: focus on what you want, rather than what you don't want.

David Deida's work. Read his books.

I once wrote a poem. This is the poem.

I've done some kriya yoga. Check out Santata Gamana's books.

I've met some beings in my lucid dreams. Some spiritual masters too. I just call them and they appear. Not very different from "not-a-dream" I suppose.

"The deepest secret is that life is not a process of discovery, but a process of creation. You are not discovering yourself, but creating yourself anew. Seek therefore, not to find out Who You Are, but seek to determine Who You Want to Be." - Conversations with God

What reality? The one you're thinking about?

@Blackhawk By not thinking there is a difference.

lol No it isn't.

Yes, sharing what I love with others. And taking in what others want to share. There is always a story why we love certain songs/artists. A love story.

Imagine saying that without smiling. Just staring at her with a serious face. LOL

Listening music together. Just sharing our favourite songs together is one of the best things I know.

So you enjoy masturbating but you have adopted this belief that it is somehow bad for you so you want to stop. Or is there some other reasons too? There is nothing wrong with masturbation, sexual desire or pleasure my friend. If you really enjoy it, and it does not harm you in your direct experience, why on earth would you stop doing it? If you seek some refreshment, or you are getting bored, perhaps you could try some new ways to masturbate - be playful, add some flavour. Perhaps you could ditch porn and start using your own imagination. Play with some toys or spend an entire day masturbating by the wildest ways you come up with.

Go to your highest vision of the greatest version of yourself who you can possibly imagine. What is their answer to your question?

Just keep solipsisming until you come out from the other side.

I once heard someone say Ben Shapiro is a stupid person's idea of a smart man. I very much agree.

Don't know if it's about enlightenment but I must say it tickles me in a funny way.

A beautiful song called "Kesäyö" (A Summer Night) My poor translation: I sat in the twilight A moment began which felt like it would never end For a second silence arrived like a being (creature) and shouted "do not fear the world!" We sat together for a while and the space stared at us And outside, a summer night Tears rained on the faces And outside, a summer night Tears rained on the faces I wake up at a beach it's a night brighter than a day points of light in the sky sliding into morning I have forgotten from where I have come here I veil into a robe of oblivion Still I remember ships flown over the horizon And outside, a summer night Tears rained on the faces And outside, a summer night Tears rained on the faces I sit in the twilight still waiting for a moment that never ends Silence would arrive and tell me everything will ultimately disappear I see the lights in the sky cold shivers run along my back And outside, a summer night Tears rained on the faces And outside, a summer night Tears rained on the faces

@Gesundheit What a weird answer. @Preety_India What would you say is the difference between wisdom and intelligence?

You realize how unaware most people are. Including yourself. And then, real philosophy and actual metaphysics. These things become a part of your daily life. They directly affect how you behave & see the world.

It's normal to feel what others feel. Especially when talking about sex. That's the best part. This reminds me of a dream I once had where I was the woman being fucked. It was quite weird. I can still remember what it felt like to have a penis in my vagina. It changed me forever.

If it does not cometh, will you shut the fuck up?

A while ago I got this weird idea and it has completely changed my idea of what a girlfriend, a boyfriend, friend, or any human relationship in general is and what is their true potential. See everyone as your partner! Literally everyone. Even those you have never met. Open your mind for the possibility that you are in an actual partnership with every person you can think of. You see, we have all these limited concepts and rules that play in our social lives. For example, we may think that there is some kind of contract between partners. There has to be certain rules, emotions and activities so that you can call it a relationship. But why? Why not just think that every person is your partner? That you are all in with everyone, all the time! The way you want to express your partnership, or love towards different people may vary, for example, at least for now, I have never wanted to have sex or a romance with a man. But I don't always want these things when I'm in a "actual" relationship with a woman either. Also, there might be women I want to have sex with, but no romance. Or the other way around. Or both. Or neither. But why say this person is my girlfriend and the other one is not? It's a lot more freeing way to think that everyone is your partner and to love everyone, and the life & world you share, and express it in a way you feel like is the right way to do it and just flow with the emotions as they come & go. Be free and let others be free. Is this not the purest commitment? Do you see what I'm talking about? Why be sad thinking "I'm single" or "I can't find a boyfriend" when you could just be lovers with everyone? It's hard to explain this idea in a way I see it myself but I hope that you understand what I'm trying to say here.