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You have the mindset of a rapist, are you aware of this?

I said that to explain how when she says no, it means no, but the guy will rationalize is as "she is playing hard to get" because hes blinded by lust.

@The Redeemer Rape happends exactly the way you are discribing this situation. Rapist are not people who go out trying to rape women that is rare situation, nearly all rape happends with the guy not having any idea he just raped a girl, he thought she consented. Because hes in a "I want to fuck her" mindset and rationalizes anything she sais and does as consent. No = she is playing hard to get. "She is saying no but she will enjoy it when it starts" <-- the most common. Its a LUST rationalization trap

Women dont owe you sex.

Got to relax bit, I get its a false accusation but the only men this happends to are men like you, overly masculine with aspects of toxic masculinity and issues with impulse control causing a out of balance in your behavior with women. The interaction was you only saw her as a sexual object to satify your needs in that moment. You where very close to actual rape and most rapes happen exactly the way your discribing it right now, the guy doesnt even know she didnt consent because there in a lust state making them "hope" she is concenting. "She was into it then she wasnt", playing guessing games with yourself trying to convince yourself she wants you. Its the most common rape mistake.

Yes 100% she also didnt know how to say no. Women are conditioned by sociaty to avoid conflict at all cost, be people pleasers and keep social harmy, when things like this happen they freeze up and dont know what to do, so they bottle up there emotions hoping it will stop, then they start crying, all before ever saying the word No. Especially if she has childhood trauma or past rape trauma, she likely has alot of psycological problems. Its called the assault freeze response.

On another note, your behavior was very uncalibrated and you got to learn to take no for an answer. It was way to agressive, seduce woman properly next time and have there needs as a priority in your engagement.

Yes a rape conviction takes more then an accusation, she at least needs semen evidence or other types of evidence like physical harm, video or eye witness. Or else anyone would go to jail just by accusation.

@The Redeemer Basicly the only time your getting into trouble is if she can prove rape and thats by going to the police and getting a rape kit done on her to take a semen sample. If she does not have semen she cant get a conviction. So only you know if your in danger of this happening.

If she started crying it means it was really bad and she did not consent. What ever the truth is, she felt sexual assaulted, rape or not.

@The Redeemer So you never touched her and she felt like you where to forward in your advancements making her so uncomfortable she ran for her life and now she is accusing you of rape?

@The Redeemer Did you guys have sex?

@Benton As long as theres no bad behavior, ignorance is bliss lol

People are banned for bad behavior, if there is no bad behavior there is no reason to ban them.

@The Redeemer Please explain in detail the events of the night she is accusing you of.

An Atheist could be a materialist or a idealist or a Panpsychism or a ... Atheism: Atheism, on the other hand, is a stance on the existence of deities or gods. Atheists are individuals who do not believe in the existence of any gods or divine beings. Atheism does not necessarily dictate a person's perspective on the nature of reality beyond the question of deities. An atheist could hold a variety of philosophical or metaphysical positions, including materialism, but they could also hold different viewpoints such as agnosticism or spiritual beliefs that do not involve gods.

Based on the above Experientialism is like a Trans-rational-Empiricism Transrationalism is probably a thing.

@r0ckyreed ChatGPT Empiricism vs Experientialism "Empiricism" and "experientialism" are related concepts that both emphasize the role of experience in acquiring knowledge, but they are often used in slightly different contexts. Let's compare the two: Empiricism: Empiricism is a philosophical approach that asserts that knowledge primarily comes from sensory experience and observation. Empiricists argue that our understanding of the world is built upon what we can see, hear, touch, taste, and smell. Empiricism is often associated with the scientific method, as it values evidence-based reasoning and experimentation. Key Points of Empiricism: Knowledge is derived from sensory experience and observation. Empirical evidence, gained through the senses, is crucial for forming beliefs. Emphasizes a scientific and systematic approach to understanding the world. Rejects the idea of innate knowledge or ideas that exist independently of experience. Experientialism: Experientialism is a broader term that encompasses the idea that personal experiences play a significant role in shaping one's understanding, beliefs, and perspectives. While it shares similarities with empiricism, experientialism extends beyond the strict reliance on sensory experiences to include a wider range of personal encounters and reflections. Key Points of Experientialism: Acknowledges the importance of personal experiences in shaping knowledge and understanding. Includes a wider spectrum of experiences beyond just sensory perception, such as emotional, psychological, and introspective experiences. Encourages learning through direct engagement, experimentation, and personal involvement. May incorporate subjective and qualitative aspects of experience that go beyond empirical data. In summary, while empiricism specifically focuses on knowledge gained through sensory experience and observation, experientialism encompasses a broader range of personal experiences, including emotional, psychological, and introspective aspects. Empiricism is often associated with the scientific method and a more objective approach, whereas experientialism is open to considering a wider array of subjective experiences as valid sources of insight and understanding.

Experientialism: a philosophical theory that experience is the source of all knowledge. In that sense, direct experience is the only Truth

I think he should be unbanned at this point. ?

That's the inspiration of my name!

The best thing you can do for her is not be a part of her life, how narcissist work is that you just existing as part of there live causes them to come up with negative ideas to project on to you. If you didnt exist she wouldnt be able to generate does negative ideas and that benefits her lmao. Most people are like this, just the fact that something exists in front of them causes them to project a dislike for it and creates suffering. There better off NOT SEEING IT.

Its not that, the issue its asking it to be banned does not work in practice as we can see it in iraq. So your only hope is to live with your attraction in a healthy way. But i empathise with you because to me yoga pants destroys my sexual brain, its really sucks and i don't want to see it. I agree with you that there is a part of society that is sexualizing woman in the west. Painting nails can be viewed as a part of that. But the solution is not to ban it. lol

We dont need to eliminate every signal, most men are basic, ass, tits, face, figure thats it. You went to far, that does not mean doe that woman are not sexualizing themselves in western culture. I can see how nails and face and stuff like that are unavoidable but Yoga pants and cleavage are, there needs to be a balance. Regardless of culture a naked woman will get blood flowing and thats biology. So there is still a line we can draw in a healthy way. There is a reason sex workers dress the way they do, it works. Woman can wear attire that is less sexual and not be a part of male suppression. Biology of male sex drive is happening, a skin tight ass and figure in a dress is going to stimulate more then not wearing it. --- The way western culture works right now is woman have 0 awareness of what yoga pants do to the male brain and are indoctrinated into sexual fashion trends as children. Its the reverse of iraq, woman are conditioned to be more sexualized by media. There needs to be a healthier balance.

First of all you have some kind of fetish because I find painted nails ugly. Secondly If we take this topic to address how our culture hyper sexualize female clothing, hair, make up... then yes its a pain in the ass and only males understand this. Women live in a bubble where they have no idea whats its like for the males primitive sexual brain to be hammered every 5 seconds just walking outside. Imagine if all men walked around with a massive Bulge and when you talk to them it flaps around in your face. ? Woman reading this might think "oh i would love that world" and NO you wouldn't because it gets very tiring and annoying and has major repercussions on your psychology and how you relate to people.