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Redpill over generalization, everyone is really immature, I see it everywhere, most of my friends when they get gf, the gf is at the same level of development as them and that's the only way it can be. Women that fit some red pill stereotype date men who are equally as immature as her.

"The experience you're describing could potentially be related to a few psychological concepts. One possibility is "Depersonalization" or "Derealization," which are dissociative experiences where a person feels detached from themselves or their surroundings, sometimes leading to a sense that people or things around them seem unreal or robotic." ChatGPT Again is goes back to have a issues with disconnected feelings. @Holykael This guys has major Derealization

The origin of the feeling does not make a belief anymore true. But direct experience is a good starting point.

Conscious Politics to change the fucking world.

Have you validated any of this? No its just speculation, we can speculate all day about anything doesnt make any of it true. But what most people do is the strongly conflict how they feel about it with truth. It feels true, intuition feels right, gut tells me something, So. Its. True ... oooook then. Sure

@lostingenosmaze Well I cant tell its an AI, but thats expected as his character not saying anything deep, its mostly predictable kids sound byte kind of talking. Still impressive!

Free will is taking absolute concept and thinking it applies to the relative ego. It does not. Predeterminism does not apply to you. Its an assumption that you know what is going to happen next, i read before you said "i had 26 years of happiness now im experiencing 2 years of hell i guess i have another 24 years of this suffering to go". That's OBVIOUS negative emotional thinking, its a PURE assumption with no ground behind it.

That girl is a problem you dont need in your life. Leo is right doe you missed the obvious sign. This girl can still be right for you if your a party guy, who goes to clubs and is extroverted. To each his own.

@MarkKol ??Listening to old men talk is boring, we need ACTION, We need hitler and adrew tate debating the first Homosapian on politics while Socrates gives witty remarks on the nature of human incompetence.

Guys where is your imagination, you want to be in a room with a radical intelligent different mind then your own. The first alien to come to earth.

DUDE you guys arent living, The First Homosapien HItler, Vlad the Impaler, Adrew Tate, John Lennon Plato/Socrates/Diogenes All locked in a house together for a month.

When she hates the dog I make a joke that the dog is jealous of her superior vagina, she wish's she can experience perfection. Saying "I admire your opinion" sounds like it would work, but saying "Amazing! Beautiful expression" aloud will probably not work lmao, Ill feel it and experience it internally but in communication with her ill give her what she needs to hear in that moment. Im going to add admiration + and - to our play and see what happends, good experiment!

Is unhealthy, these are kids games people play when there young. head over heels is not stable and is 90% infatuation and both men and women do it with equal frequency. Relationships as we become more mature become more sober and the love that shows up is more real. Healthy love is not a peak rush of emotion towards another that is actually coveting in disguise. Healthy love learns to first love oneself then move outward to love and nurture all around it in a stable way that does not rely on personal gain, it comes from understanding of oneself and "other" and deep cultivation of love for life There are levels to love we grow through, it starts very selfish and move towards very selfless.

Thats a good goal, do you already have a background in programming if so maybe try to get hired into a big company like google and apple to start off the financial and expert skill building process. After building a foundation both career, financial and skill wise you can start a business as that takes $$$. Its ok working at google will pay very well.

This is not "im frustrated about other people not being awake how do i change them" and "I hate cant handle undeveloped people" This is a "how do I nurture this flower willing to learn" That is part of it but she does want to learn its just the critical transition point is not clicking. It sounds impractical to her. I think she needs Tony Robins lol Emotional mastery stuff

We need a game where the goal is the generate a insight or idea and your reward is the capacity of creativity unlocked within. We need a Elo system for insight and wisdom generation, AI can be used as the engine that rates the quality of the answer.

5 Stages of Spiritual Awakening... Which Stage Are You In? I just saw this video and it reminded me of how easily people use the word awakening on the forum when what they are experiencing is mostly self-development and a new state of self-awareness or even just altered default states and mood. How do we clarify this? I see alot of people that experienced a increase in self-awareness to then relate to it as "i had an awakening". I guess we can say awakening is a verb to use to describe a increase in self-awareness, but i feel thats a overuse of the word, it should be reserved for something more profound? Give me a clear definition here and how it shows up at different stages of development.

Oh no lol Everything i say is a real time coping mechanism for her that sooths her mind and makes her feel better when stressed. It just doesn't stick long term lol We are not in any conflict and i dont need her to change and there is no stress during our communication, im the therapist. Im asking if there are ways to teach this better?

Leo is a scientist of consciousness, his focus is on Truth so it makes no sense to believe what any other teacher has to say, he has to validate everything for him self. If his conclusions align with another teacher then they are coincidentally in agreement, so far there are not many that align.

That just might be the first time a man has said that. ?

@Aaly The biggest limiting factor is most people are really bad at assessing the quality of a person someone is. So in your search to find that mature man youll go with wtv opportunities present themselves and it will likely be not ideal. People can only date as high as they can see. Immature attracts immature.

How awake is your default state? Or what are the qualities of it that you consider to be awake vs others who are partially-awake?

Thats not true, you need good opening principles and understanding, + you can get to 2000 with strong tactical and calculation skills. Get your puzzle rating up to 2200 on this site and youll be a monster https://chesstempo.com/. Puzzles should be done with no time limit with the goal of seeing everything before making the first move. If you didnt see a move your opponent made before making your first move of the puzzle consider it a loss even if the puzzle is not, thats the training standard to set for yourself. Memorizing opening is for good players, its useless for people below 2000 what they need is to learn how to think about the opening. Also the reason i recommend https://chesstempo.com/ is because the puzzle generation is based on master level games and sites like chess.com and lichess.org generate based on online blitz games. So you want to expose your brain to the highest quality tactical positions. This influences intuition long term for pattern recognition as its been trained on long time control over the board master level games.

Yes but its the fun part, tactical puzzles and self-discovery after 2200 you need to grind. People taking 10 years to get to 2100 are not training effectively they keep repeating the same mistakes and plateau as a result.