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  1. @mmKay that’s a reasonable take Lol The situation I’m in is when I interact with people we form a connection very quickly and it always leads to them opening up and telling me their life story and their issues and whatever else, like I’m taking the role of peoples therapist automatically or people feel comfortable talking to me about everything and that will naturally end up leading to possible solutions! In the end they don’t wanna hear the solution, like how do you tell someone with two failed marriages Who is desperately lonely and desperately seeking love that The reason these women are avoiding him is because he can’t control his emotions and he’s dumping his emotions onto everyone around him and he’s overly verbal and communicates too much every little thing he feels to everyone. A girlfriend is not your therapist do not put your emotions on to them they can barely handle their own lives. The repulsive thing that he is doing has to now be spoken about. The only loving thing to do is to point them in the right direction. it’s not that I’m forcing opinions onto random people it’s that they’re dumping all of their emotions on to me and then while we’re connecting I’m like OK let’s Play a completely different game! Why are we playing this game at the lowest level? All ego problems are solved by more consciousness! Let’s crank this shit up! I need to figure out how to keep conversations light and about humour And avoid somehow connecting with people lol 😂 that seems to be the general strategy other people have recommended so far lol Maybe there’s another solution every guru has the skill of converting an idea to a piece of candy that’s easily consumable. I need to learn to make candy lol
  2. That's actually exactly the technique I ended up using is where I just give people hints and I hope they eventually make the connection but the thing is it is extremely difficult for people to make a connection between two things even when you spoon feed it to them. Like it's a insane superpower to make connections between two things outside of there box. Insights happen often when making observations over time and eventually a pattern is formed through the observations and then you see something hidden right in front of you. But that Insights cannot be taught to anyone unless they're awake to the process of insights.
  3. Seeing as two people asked I'll just provide an example, my aunt takes thyroid medication every year or two they increase her medication whenever they increase her medication she has severe panic attacks for about 4-5 months, this connection between the increase of the thyroid hormone and the panic attacks she is not able to make. The process of making the connection between these two things she's not capable of doing. Whenever she's having panic attacks I ask her did they recently increase your medication? She says yes, she then dismisses this simple connection because "I trust doctors and who are you?". This exact pattern has repeated itself for the past 20 years for which I've been keeping track of about four to five instances where I ask her the same question in the same situation, every time she has panic attacks I asked her if they increase their medication recently she responds with yes. It is a very clear consistent pattern, the process of making this connection is too much of a mental leap for this person. She never has panic attacks at any other point in her life. A basic Google search can connect anxiety and panic attacks to hyperthyroidism, this is not a unfounded claim. The conversation is also open-ended I just asked a question she then contemplates it and sort of dismisses it as a possibility and nothing more and doesn't really want to think more about it because there's no way for her to validate where it's true or not. So it's like I asked the question a connection is suggested between the increase in hormone and the panic attacks but then she takes this possibility and does nothing with it because she has no way to validate it. Then she forgets entirely and the next time it happens she completely forgets the conversation we had completely has no awareness of this connection. It's a baffling thing when someone is not in the process of making sense of anything they actually just forget everything. Forgetting is a powerful devilish defense mechanism. Another example is the air at my father's house causes me a sore throat within 30 minutes of being in there, within 4 hours it causes both my kidneys to hurt (do not deny my experience of this I know exactly what kidney pain is in this body). So I decided to investigate to figure out what was causing it and I discovered that because he uses bleach in his laundry machine and his laundry machine is poorly ventilated that the chemical is actually coming into the house and filling up the entire building enough to smell it in every room. When I tell them this they actively deny smelling it, they simply cannot smell it and they are incapable of understanding the simple connection of how airflow Works in a house and how anything related to inhaling this would directly affect biology and that it would create the sore throat. They also actively deny my direct experience and physiological symptoms because it's to Strange for air to create a sore throat in a person especially when no one else as mentioned anything in their house and they cannot smell it because they live in that house so they're just used to the smell and toxic effects on their body. I also explain how what they're inhaling is directly affecting their state of mind and putting stress in their bodies but this is far too complex for them to understand. Also communicating to them that my kidneys hurt is a astronomical concept that they have no idea any human being is even capable of detecting, like higher levels of body self-awareness is not something they know exists, so when I communicate that I can feel things they don't believe me. Another thing is whenever my mother drinks coffee in the morning she becomes noticeably agitated and she has a very specific emotional state she enters into because her cortisol levels go up too high, its too much stress on her system because she's 63 and she cannot drink coffee like she used to when she was a kid without any consequences. Explaining how coffee is not a beverage it's a stimulant that affects the system is too complex, and more importantly they are incapable of making the connection between the coffee and their emotions. This connection between two things is too much of a cognitive leap to make. On top of that when she drinks coffee and experiences a stressful event during the day from the external environment she gets a sore throat. This sore throat is directly related to stress and not sickness. She mistakenly Associates the sore throat with " I am catching a cold". While I repeatedly explain to her that it is not a cold she's catching it is the accumulation of multiple days of stress and poor recovery. I've carefully observed this pattern over and over and over again and carefully kept track of the circumstances, you're going to speculate that I might be wrong I'm not this is a very clear pattern that I've observed in isolation over and over again. My solution instead of convincing her is to switch her coffee to decaf and that solves the issue. The examples above are in the domain of the practical I rarely say anything that is outside of that to people around me because it becomes a battle of opinions where they are not able to see how to figure out which perspective is more conscious, they just default to their own perspective using the technique of out talking me and ranting. Like if I tell someone that the only way to get out of their situation is to follow a path of self-development, it's just too hard to convey this to someone within their attention span and within a conversation where they expect entertainment not insight. Of course I should merge entertainment and inside but I'm not that skilled and most people are stuck in their ways.
  4. God can create any absolute, a Infinity of absolutes, God can create any dream with any absolute properties . In this dream consciousness is absolute. Foundation of reality. God can do anything it can even become finite at the absolute level. God is infinite imagination in this dream absolutely. This all sounds like a massive contradiction and breaks whatever logic anyone can come up with. Clearly this can not be taught or understood or made sense of, it is beyond understanding (old news). All discoveries about the absolute are only absolute to this dream. The rest is hidden? Hidden you’re never gonna see it… God can make this dream so it is hidden absolutely and you’re never going to grasp this. God can make infinity an absolute. God can be hidden absolutely! It is beyond clear that at no point am I going to understand this. 👌 What do you guys think about any of this. thank you, it’s very helpful honestly. God is pure infinite imagination is this statement absolute or not, is it absolute only in this dream?
  5. I can relate to the struggle it was a Confusing dream logic of a kid. No guide just pure determination and love. But how old were you? I think i was 8-9
  6. 😭 if I could keep up with your level of output I would. Unfortunately I just can’t! lolol i’m really not that smart I’m just trying while no one else even realizes that they’re not trying. it’s like intelligence is realizing whether you’re trying or not. 🥲 People don’t know that they’re putting no effort in making sense of anything. To make sense of even the simplest thing to answer even the simplest of questions takes a massive effort. And they have no idea it takes that effort!
  7. Did you have full knowledge of the contents of all these books? And then you lost it when your state came back down to normal?
  8. it’s like we are reenacting gods structure at a smaller scale.
  9. A lot of guys struggle with this so it’s time to lay it out this Model was taken from a YouTuber called hoe math. As you could see from the chart there are two axis, good guy traits vertical and bad boy traits horizontal. Someone who only has good guy traits but no bad boy traits is friend zoned.
  10. This is a very useful model I just realized people are not giving it any attention because they think it’s a silly drawing. 😭
  11. i’m glad this topic went in a positive direction. 🙌 I just received a sick joke from the YouTube algorithm obviously this is divine intervention.
  12. @Someone here I tried summarizing with ChatGPT and it just froze on me, it’s too long even for AI 😅
  13. Beautiful, i’m looking forward to AI lowering the production cost and time to make games. I dream about Creating A masterpiece. It’s incredibly challenging.
  14. I am aware of this what I’m asking is consciousness is an absolute yet it can imagine absolutes. This creates a circular paradox. Do you know what I mean how is this possible?
  15. My childhood. I beat this game countless times as a kid. The holy trinity?
  16. I want a clue lol, because I have no clue what’s going on, the fact that anything exists at all blows my mind every moment, and I spend my daily life surrounded by impaired zombies. 🧟‍♀️ But your also on To something, I have taught about transitioning to Just being and flow and to give up the mental. I think I’m also really really tired And just want to sleep. 🛏
  17. Infinite imagination is an absolute. It can imagine any absolute, create any absolute. It can make Christianity an absolute. Now that Christianity is an absolute which is more absolute infinite imagination or Christianity? I just viewed this as a basic teaching mistake a basic wording mistake and this needs to be clarified. Telling people that imagination which is an absolute can imagine any absolute is a massive miscommunication that I think deserve to be clarified. The ability to create absolutes for anything to be an absolute is a massive back door that will break all paradigms. if it is true that there are infinite absolutes this is by far the most profound contemplation. There is nothing else to think about talk about experience figure out on this entire topic. It Breaks any possible paradigm, all paradigms can be immediately broken it’s the ultimate back door. infinite imagination is an absolute so it’s a complete self Referencing problem that makes no sense. All these paradigms cannot handle paradox like this. How can It create itself? How can infinite imagination create infinite imagination? if this is a sea of infinite possibility then how can the sea create the sea? Consciousness is total it’s the whole thing, the entire sea, to say it can now create absolute means it’s creating something beyond itself, that it’s creating more of itself, which is impossible because it’s already the whole thing.
  18. On the forum we are in the business of insight, you raise a good point but it’s time to push our understanding deeper or else we’re just pushing toxic ideology. in short there are bad boy traits and they’re a good guy traits and both are necessary to attract and have a healthy high-quality relationship. Women are attracted to bad boy traits but stay for a good guy traits. A good guy that has no bad boy traits is not sexually stimulating for a woman and so they are ignored or friend zoned, a guy who only has bad boy traits but no good guy traits are in the friends with benefits zone or worse than a mistake zone. Exam in the chart provided below for more insight.
  19. Title says it all. Clarify the hidden nature of things beyond metaphysical solipsism.
  20. Then maybe it makes sense to differentiate flexible absolutes versus inflexible absolutes? A dream is absolute in every dream, absolute Christianity is only absolute within a specific dream, not all dreams. Existence is absolute in every dream, other types of absolutes that you’ve described recently are not? God can make anything an absolute with enough imagination because it’s infinite imagination but some absolutes are more absolute than others. 😅
  21. “”A Manic Pixie Dream Girl (MPDG) is a stock character type in fiction, usually depicted as a young woman with eccentric personality quirks who serves as the romantic interest for a male protagonist. The term was coined by film critic Nathan Rabin after observing Kirsten Dunst's character in Elizabethtown (2005).”” Unfortunately these girls rarely really exist, I think your girl is the centre of attention type ESTP, loves the spotlight. Young dumb, Playful to a fault, You only live once paradigm.
  22. Yes because at any moment you might just be your authentic self and she won’t be able to handle it. Lmao this is the issue dating women that you’re not compatible it is that you need to tiptoe around them. Random women on Tinder are all Normies, you need to limit yourself and really understand their psychology to fit there puzzle piece so they can have a good interaction with you. long-term this is not ideal and there’s just gonna be conflict. but you should definitely just keep trying until you acquire all this experience and knowledge for yourself
  23. @Brent Rothwell on every dating app click on the filter option and filter by spirituality, make sure that you only see women that have spirituality somewhere in their Description. The purpose of this is just to figure out a strategy to filter out 99% of people you’re not compatible with. Find the ones that you’re most probabilistically compatible with using the tools available and in this case it’s filtering and one of the simplest options is a spiritual filter. You are only compatible with people that have some competency in self development, do not waste any time with lower level people because they are not open for open minded discussions. Your Naturally just to open, growth minded and exploratory for the average person. A conversation about growth literally offends most people. A communication about how you feel can offend most people, because most people cannot bear the burden of someone else’s emotions.