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That’s what she said

Are you out of your mind? lol she was just being socially nice because she’s conditioned to avoid conflict and to make you comfortable while you act like an idiot. if you’re really good at reading the room, then you could get away with a lot and you could understand implicit consent. But it’s a gray area. The situation matters if you’re in a club it makes a lot more sense and there’s a lot more room for implicit signals. going to random people and kissing them within seconds, it’s just stupid, if anyone came up to me and kiss me within seconds of talking to him, I would feel very uncomfortable. —- On the topic of rape, I need you to do some work to show me that you put some effort into this topic to understand it, use AI and really try to make sense of rape and then post back here. If you’re not willing to put some real work into this, I’m not gonna indulge in this kind of topic because it’s too sensitive. It’s like trying to understand theoretical physics, but you didn’t bother learning anything about the subject.

🤦‍♀️ Do not use logic to understand rape as a male, you guys have not experienced it from the female perspective so you know nothing about this subject. Most women experience the freeze response and so Russell probably didn’t even know he was raping them. Rape is not A violent struggle most of the time, she will say no at the beginning and then give up. Women all over the world are ashamed to go to the police because of social backlash which is extremely real. People will blame her for it. And her whole life she’s Condition to avoid conflict and would ratter die then face the emotional struggle of prolonged social struggle. It is also very difficult to convict because you need DNA evidence most of the time. Then you need to re-explain fresh horrific traumatic memories over and over again to bunch of people who half of them don’t believe you. The last thing a woman wants to do is fight. Instead she wants to lay down and die because she was just emotionally destroyed By life. Women are hyper sensitive they’re not like men.

He's explaining that you're a shapeshifter and you could shift into a better reality for yourself?

Naaaa the women on this forum are battle VETERANS, for years they've plowed through the trenches with their bare hands on the very grounds we text. This is a walk in the park for them!

None of us are engaging in personal attacks, we are exchanging World Views, without judgment.

So you interpreted it as my girlfriend's scolding me for not playing my masculine roll correctly?

Because my girlfriend is not offended by this conversation. Or anything Leo said.

This conversation has been like walking through a Garden of roses in comparison to the conversations we used to have on this forum. This is a very impressive clean conversation overall.

It's ranking countries based on standardized testing. South Korea and China have the most ruthless slave labor education system and high pressure zero childhood schooling. They rank children on their ability to pass tests and it's extremely serious.

There's no need to tiptoe around people's emotions when they're serious about truth. You're Assuming he has contempt and that he's shaming people. My girlfriend has told me multiple times that she's just a child and she wants me to take care of her and she can't handle life. If you want I will get her to text me that right now, she has enough self-awareness to know who she is and I didn't implant any ideas in her head.

So leo was not victim blaming? I'm glad we agree? lol I guess we have something in common?

He said "boiling frog", it implies an abusive man will put a mask to Swindle you into a relationship, so its starts off good.

He's talking about taking 100% responsibility for your life. Which is a core self development concept. Regardless of how you got yourself into the mess of an abusive relationship which was likely not your fault it is now your responsibility to get yourself out of it. If you are ignorant and don't understand your own mechanisms that are keeping you in that relationship or if you don't even recognize that you're in abusive relationship these are all aspects of your own lack of self-awareness and development. None of this is "your fault", none of this is "blame", it's just what it is. your lack of development hit reality in a way where you got hurt. Like you said you learn from your mistakes which is responsibility and you didn't make that mistake again.

If a frog is placed in boiling water, it will jump out immediately, but if the water is heated gradually, the frog won’t notice the danger and will be boiled alive. It illustrates how people may fail to notice gradual, harmful changes until it's too late.

The goal post is not moving... There are very clear biological differences in how our minds work, we have different needs, and when you treat a woman the way a man wants his needs met, it goes wrong. A man will treat a woman the way HE wants to be treated. -> AND ITS WRONG. What I'm talking to my guy friends we're throwing philosophy shit at each other or laughing like crazy at each other, poking fun at each other, there is no limitations what we can say, we take nothing personally. A woman takes everything personally, the words she says represent her identity. And when you have a logical conversation with a feminine mind you are attacking her identity and she's unable to separate it, so it's a huge mistake. Her beliefs are part of her identity and she can't separate it. A woman is speaking with her Identity On the Line, which is why her whole domain is an emotional language. Which is why women speak to each other indirectly. Men men will just say the facts right to their face and that's what they want to hear, a woman will literally avoid the truth as if her life depended on it in the middle of a social scenario, because she rather die than experienced the emotional burden of conflict. YOU do not do this. You are able to have a debate => enjoy that debate => and take nothing personally. This is masculine energy not maturity. There is no emotional burden for you... Besides the challenge which you enjoy! which is pure masculinity! A feminine woman who is mature could have a debate but she certainly would not enjoy it and at the end of the conversation she might even have to take a nap and get away from society, because there was an emotional burden there for her. Debates are exhausting for the feminine mind. Cuz it's an emotional burden she has to bear. It's not about maturity. It's a completely different language and how the mind works.

It's about positive ownership not negative ownership. In the same way you love your child... The phrasing instills empathy within the man that allows him to view the woman in such a way that diffuses all conflict. It is very effective. We should all treat each other like children, the world would be a better place.

You're pushing for gender equality... you think the Sexes are nearly the same and we're exaggerating the differences between them. You are in the middle on the Spectrum. (masculine- feminine) Other women are not in the middle on the Spectrum. THEY ARE NOT LIKE YOU.

The feminine being bad at certain parts of survival is just what it means to be feminine. The masculine is also bad at certain parts of survival and that's just what it means to be masculine. A fish is a fish, a shark is a shark. If a fish wants to go out and start killing other fish, then that fish behaves like a shark. The feminine becomes masculine. There's nothing misogynistic about this. Our minds and bodies do not work the same way genetically from birth. This is equality, his statement is equality... How do you know it's a unsustainable Foundation? How do you know it doesn't work? Your solution is to go find a healthier woman to date? Well that's not a solution as we just discussed because highly feminine women can be healthy. You're assuming it's not going to work because the man is "looking down" on the woman. When he's not. When in reality hes just recognizes her needs. And the most loving thing to do is to frame her as a child and not put all the burden of truth and survival of the real world on her shoulders. The whole conversation was emotions and I'm supposed to burden her with truth? Why? I'm not looking down at my dog, I recognize what their needs are and then give it to them. It's the most loving thing to do. But I feel like you're blinded by this need for equality of the sexes.

@Emerald Highly feminine healthy women are NOT irresponsible. They just cannot take responsibility for hard parts of survival because that's not what they're designed for, that's not what their biology equipped them with. A fish is not irresponsible because they can't fly.

You’re a developed integrated GigaChad woman 😅 who likes debating, you have not experienced a man dating a normal woman. Highly feminine women hate debates. I have directly experienced dating women over and over again. I’m not suppressing them by any means by helping them get through their emotions every day… it only benefits them. Biology creates hard separations. It is not true that a person is only healthy when balanced in masculine and feminine. Healthy and unhealthy are separate things from masculine and feminine. You can be healthy at any place in the spectrum between masculine and feminine energy. It is not exclusive to those who have balanced and integrated both sides. Some women are naturally highly feminine and also healthy. And it will only put stress on them to hold a masculine frame for a long period of time. They will never feel fully comfortable as anything other than a very feminine state. This is natural for them and for most women. A Fuck boy is an unhealthy masculine. A man child is unhealthy. Andrew Tate is unhealthy masculinity not that he lacks feminine integration. He lacks healthy integration of any kind. A woman who’s naturally highly feminine and healthy wants and thrives within masculine containment. So you’re projecting that only healthy people are these kind of integrated hermaphrodites. A healthy masculine man integrates the feminine while still looking masculine. It’s what healthy masculinity is. A healthy person can have any type of energy anywhere on the spectrum.

@Yimpa I was to mean 😪 I’ve had nine relationships. It is always an emotional language that you need to be aware of how to communicate the entire time. And I spent my time carefully guiding them to be the best version of themselves and to apply themselves and to help them through all aspects of their life. But at no point is it no longer my job to constantly help them with their emotions whether they’re conscious of it or not.

Go date a woman. Stop assuming you understand this subject without experiencing it.

It’s the exact opposite, by giving her a safe space -> she thrives. Everything you’re saying is completely off, every woman I’ve dated needs to be spoken to through an emotional language. Very carefully. “”And if I were female, I'd feel like my agency was being stolen and that I wouldn't be able to fully bloom and have my partner appreciating my blooming.“” I don’t know why you would think this the woman has no idea what’s happening? She has no idea if she’s been contained. She’s unconscious. If you challenge her, it puts massive stress on her, and if she doesn’t have a self-development mindset, she will not grow. The relationship quickly breaks down when you don’t support her emotionally.

@enchanted no matter how good you are socializing people are not interested in these topics and you’re always gonna run into a wall and if you try to push the wall, it makes them uncomfortable because they don’t wanna talk about these topics. They wanna talk about mindless things that happened to them yesterday. It genuinely tires people when they have to use higher brain function to think about any topic. They don’t enjoy it. at some point, they will always think “I don’t know” and this is often one of the worst pathways you can go down in a conversation. You don’t want them to ever have to think that or say that. It makes him feel bad. Me and you will have fun in the world of “I don’t know” and exploring possibilities, while for them it makes them unhappy.