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@28 cm unbuffed its tricky, if they are in a committed relationship and their contacted, their might be no motivation to reply. Why wait 2 years? Its definitely time to explore, i guarantee their is a better match out there for you.

@Kay100 Leo Blog Yes the situation was similar to this, high cortisol (stress) state during a interaction. We can see how bottled up he is on the surface. His body language and tone of voice reflect his inner state. While if he was athletic it would be alot easier to hide it. I was in the same situation except more coordinated on how others where experiencing me. Once the shyness is resolved he will look like a completely different person. Is your son in the same situation? What are the a differences?

@Etherial Cat Yes, but how will that help?

Its not all vanity. Its fun and addictive getting stronger over time and seeing performance gains. The only reason i would train was because it felt great. The muscle pain is very satisfying. Early stages of body building training you want to get stronger because its fun, its a game, the muscles are a bonus.

Not if their Athletic. They will have high body, vocal tonality and atmospheric awareness, In this case the shy person is bottling away social anxiety (high stress state) and being very carful not to show it. Making them come off as stiff or unapproachable. Shyness like this, people can hold a stern emotionless face while looking at you, this is where the unfriendliness first impression comes from. Yes we are conflating elements of good looking with having a good social personality. It still depends, in a comfortable situation if a male athlete takes off his shirt and stand very close to you... the pressure is back on. lol Their is no solution but to accept it. For women it might help not to wear yoga pants. lol. hmmm there was a situation where a group of women i never met pulled me aside and told me to strip for them. If men did this to a woman it would be outrages. For wtv reason its acceptable in our culture for women to do this to men. Leo just posted this on his blog Maybe watch it with him, it might exactly apply.

Its a highly synergistic relationship where both partners are feeding each others growth paths. Start by fuelling his growth path. The mindset is also abit off, if your looking for a growth relationship then the first step is to help the person your with grow, actually care about the person your dating as what you can do for them (truly care) and not over focus on what they can do for you.

Tell him what you want him to do in bed, he doesn't know anything, its not that he is not attractive, its that he doesn't understand intimacy. Teach him, communicate everything that you want. Be very explicit, paint the picture, the role he needs to play. Maybe watch some videos of things you want him to copy. Learn by examples. If the fantasy is to be dominated and "taken" then thats what he will learn how to do.

Thought about this more, it seems this is the case, going abit deeper the exact issue i thing is being with someone who is non-judging. The ideal partner can see the larger patterns of how life unfolds and lives by the flow it. Being flow. Dating down the spiral feels like baby sitting.

yeee this thread segregates people, contributing to cultures vanity focus. "Better looking" people are getting more attention here like everywhere else. "The face of god" is spiritual bypassing because the community is a mix of stages not all turquoise.

@Nahm If the meaning of a word changes from the paradigm its being viewed from. Wouldn't it be useful to coin a new word for it, avoiding communication issues?

Yes, i always stand like this.

It would make sense to provide a solution at the same time. With breath there is alot she can do to fix it, but with other things, if it cant be changed better to just not point it out.

Yes, im not posting for this reason. It makes some people feel bad. @everyone What is the more conscious perspective to take that justifies posting a pic?

lol this is one of the number 1 meal replacements recommended by doctors. They are found in most hospitals here in canada. Its pure incompetence at this point.

I want to do a fast for 3-5 days. Any tips would be great, is there anything i should keep in mind? Potential issues? The plan is to drink slightly salted water for electrolytes, very simple.

Accept her for who she actually is not who you want her to be, don't expect any more then that. All the good and bad. A dog will bark, why take offense? Everything she says and does is about her, not about any fault of yours.

@Someone here Are you eating enough? Eat at least 2 big meals midday and evening, it will knock you out and calm the hormones. I am very experienced with sleep deprivation and the state you are in, just got to eat more.

Develop charisma, thats 99% of the battle.

Read this comment 3 times and laughed each time. Simple but effective

Replace the time spent on the phone doing something else. Go to the gym, work on a hobbies, go biking outside, only socialize on a hard computer. Please dont bring a phone outside... One of the best meta-moves i was lucky to make in life was to never buy a phone.

It depends if they are considerate of others or not, most people dont like jocks, everyone likes someone they feel welcome with. When i got my first girl friend at 21 i realized people are actually attracted to me. Its hard to understand from a males perspective what makes men attractive, we dont see it, but we know what makes women attractive, we see it. So some men can be completely clueless about how attractive they are even when they are told constantly by their mothers When you dont care about looks and people constantly talk about how you look it can be frustrating. He rater focus on something interesting. Everyone can be intimidated by people and nervous around women they like, it goes deeper then looks. He doesnt know how hes making women feel. All hes experiencing is that they tense up and dont talk to him, he doest know its because hes good looking and hes putting pressure on them. He needs to learn to identify it and help make the person feel comfortable. It will require opening up more. Also shyness is working against him in this situation, the women are experiencing him as serious, unapproachable and hard to talk to, not shy. People just have no idea whats going on from other peoples perspective during an interaction, especially at age 15. All they see is there own point of view. She likely stopped talking to him because she thinks hes unfriendly. I was told my first impressions people have of me is that im an asshole (when young). They would tell me after they got to know me and realized it was shyness.

Zoom out, view hitler for how he became hitler. The journey. The same seed as you planted somewhere else.

Always ask them to meet up ASAP, no waiting around chatting, the reason they stopped responding is because they found someone else on the site, who probably she meet in real life, you where to slow. Nearly on the first or second day, explain that you want to meet up to see if we connected.

@Striving for more Its all early years relationship stuff and orange. If the partner has a good connection and intimacy in a relationship all the needs are met and there is no cheating to worry about. Not sure the perspective of why someone would talk about there bf whit a guy then cheat on them with the same guy, its like they want you to convince them that they would be better off with you. There relationships had issues that's the only way this would happen. Its always obvious if a partner is going to cheat, the signs can be seen way before it happens. Good relationships your both friends and enjoy spending quality time with each other, so they would never cheat on you and why would a partner want to hurt someone they love? It depends on the stage in life they are in, later in life. Early years monogamy might make little sense for some, it depends. Like dating an charismatic naturally flirty ESFP 18 year old hot blond with blue eyes, good luck with that roller-coaster haha, she was not built for monogamy, they are built to love multiple people at the same time. If you want loyalty date a ISFJ or INFP. INFP breaking their core values by cheating, never going to happen.

Its not that hard to identify high quality stuff.