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@Preety_India Leos videos has perspectives worth thinking about, thats why i linked it. Everything i said so far was not addressed ,instead you attacked the messenger. This path is NOT spirituality, its believing what ever suits you best. This is all a lack of honest self awareness.

@Preety_India If i where to link 100 enlightened gurus all contradicting your beliefs, you would reject it all? Convinced you know better?

@Preety_India This is solid green thinking. The morality you follow is human morality. It is not absolute. Have you been watching leos videos?

@Vagos Heat = mold activity, a possibility... in general take a variation of tests, hair mineral analysis, mold tests...

Probably something in-between "bored and lonely, lets talk" to "i want to kill you, wear your face as a mask and steal your identity".

Have you tested the house for mold?

@Roy How do you feel about it?

@Preety_India Our needs dont, but our instincts want to have sex with every good looking man/women we see, of course we would not pursue it because its impractical in this altitude. We are also compatible with millions of people at any given time, we then pick one organically and block out the rest. Why not have a free relationship instead that takes all of this into consideration? lololol makes sense. He was suffering, being able to step out side the game, take breather can help, also helps to understand the mechanics of the game hes playing instead of being beaten up by the rules. Games are ment to be fun.

Doctors are not trained in nutrition, find people who have experienced this exact illness and learn how they went about solving it.

@Preety_India Have you tried it? Just act until you make it, its always been a play. Cheating is part of the paradigm, the idea exist because monogamy does not truly reflect human needs. Our instincts are to sexually engage and love multiple people simultaneously. Relationships contracts are a reflection of fear, not love. We are on actualized.org forums, we are here to grow, the advice given on relationship is great and valuable to survive, but why stop there when we can escape the game entirely? I agree that different stages have different needs, they all have there purpose, but they are good relatively, the higher stage is better if possible. We need to help people grow not survive. Both our methods are valid here. 1) giving people the tools they need at the stage there at, to be healthy at the stage there at. 2) introduce them to the next stage, a bigger picture. They are both needed.

@Roy Its not that hard, being exposed to the most conscious perspective/solution is necessary. Gurus dont help people navigate there circumstances, they show them that there circumstances are ridiculous.

@Roy @Preety_India Love and care is not dependent on relationships. The "i am in a relationship" perspective is one where 2 people sign a unspoken contract with each other. Breaking the rules of that contract = suffering. This is the insanity. Going meta means designing this contract from scratch, to something realistic, not to what culture has mandated. lmao, great analogy, but not at all what im talking about. All of this is 2 immature people applying methods to "make" a relationship work, by navigating each others flaws. Maturity means independence and oneness, there is no need to receive anything from anyone and love is given with out attachment or requirements. A mature relationship understands the impermanence of the relationship, the individuals do not want or need anything from each other. The relationship is dissolved, there is only 2 people enjoying the time they have together with 0 expectations. Codependency is a spectrum, your view of it is from the right "unhealthier" position. where your views on what a "healthy" relationship looks like is more left on a "healthier" position, both sides of the spectrum are dependency, the entire spectrum no longer applies from higher paradigms. From stage green and lower all relationships are built on dependency/survival needs. Just because something is common does not make it sensible. "Normal" relationships that the masses pursue are unhealthy at its foundation but very useful for survival in there life conditions. The relationship that your advocating is healthiness relatively. There is a conflation of relationships and human instinct. They are not bound to each other. Relationships are contracts of human design. Do not put energy finding reasons why your world views are correct, instead take a step back and view them from a larger lens. Monogamy = "If you dont behave exactly how i want, i will suffer", this is foolish, outdated and indoctrinated into you by culture. Everything that your advocating is tooling to force relationships to work with a broken foundation. Fix the foundation and you wont need the tooling.

Bodybuilding, this is a long term investment to your body. Bodybuilding increases the number of mitochondria in each cell as well as lowering insulin resistance and many other things. It literally makes you biologically younger. Build up the body to the athletic level, the amount of energy you will produce physically and cognitively are incomperable to your current state.

@Roy Sacrificing in relationships is foolishness. This entire thread is filled with unhealthy co-dependent relationship talk. Blindly walking the path culture has told you to be. GO META. Wake up.

Where is this love coming from? Isnt this ego?

I was chosen for glory, by youtubes algorithms.

"The world will remember your name"

@Khr makes sense, but arent we all here to grow? At the least its healthy to be exposed to the path forward for growth even if its impractical. Seeing the foundation of his desires could free him from them. He should reinvent it because doing so solves his current problems. Its a sustainable solution. Staying in the paradigm is just running in circles. The problem if "solved" will just become something else.

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@Preety_India why not reinvent what a relationship is? Grow out of the need for loyalty and commitment. Change the paradigm.

@Onemanwolfpac This is the way to go about a relationship indoctrinated into us by culture. Its cultural.

You dont own her, she can do what ever she wants. Its not your responsibility to control her actions. Monogamy exists because of human insecurities. Its not a sustainable way to go about a relationship. Really try to look within and figure out why your so attached to this person. You dont love her, you love yourself, she doesnt love you, she loves herself.

Most people i introduce to leos content are turned off by how aggressive his communication style is. They would rater listen to someone that resonates higher emotions.