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@Valach Its possible to love many people at the same time. If she is friend material and the only thing stopping you from long term dating is that you want to self actualize with pick up then find another way to self actualize. A natural part of self acualizing is going to move away from pick anyways, So long term you want to move away from it, better off doing it now and find new training tools. Maybe you and her can do something social together, explore possibilities.

You like her, date her exclusive long term. 2 years. Experience all of that. Connect deeper with her. Have you ever loved a partner?

1) Consider expanding what a relationship means. Open relationship? Swingers? Polyamorous? 2) Do you actually like her? Do you actually see her as a friend with out the sex glasses on? Remove the sex and affection, would you spend time with her? If she was male would you be spending any time with him and enjoy talking to him as friends?

I know so much fun Right this was what i was imaging would happen in the current climate. But if children are born with no filter in this way, these issues wont have the same weight behind them or they will be seen as normal/accepted. With open book emotional needs are communicated with the issues, so it should lead to better understanding of things like cheating. Deeper understanding and empathy and less demonizing, a vital layer is communicated at all times, there full experience and perspective. Its possible someone having an affair and it being public is common place in this scenario. Its nothing to be ashamed of or hide. To survive in this setting means adapting to these life conditions. The game of secrecy disappears because there is no one to want a secret. Incentivesed integrity? Or if people are incapable of this capacity then it will probably lead to strong oppression. Every little issue being punished. Filtered book will always be unwise, because open book communicates the full perspective that triggers deeper understanding. Maybe just speculating ideas. Its like forced empathy. lol but ok... you might not want to experience someones full perspective if they are suffering and its killing your vibe...

Open book style. Control is needed to fulfill survival agendas. Wouldn't want to open book neurolink with your boss in this climate. But this technology will change the norm/expectations. If we install these in children they will know nothing else but 100% openness and so control wont be necessary.

Grey Rage sounded like Red.

Like the matrix, but im really looking forward to brain to brain direct communication. The sex is going to be next level, jacked into the partners direct experience. Synergy with mind merging. I want to experience all of our minds merged. The real singularity? The next major communication network that supersedes the internet? Global mind network.

@Loving Radiance Yes, right now its reading brain activity. In the future i expect it will be able to apply that brain pattern to force that behavior. Imagine recording brain activity for psychedelics or meditation, the clicking a button on your phone to trigger that state.

@fopylo ye man haha, i know the feeling, she might remain that way until the day she dies. It was like that with my father, to survive it i had to fully detach and play there game, telling them what they want to hear, go with the flow. Try to see them as children having a temper tantrum, it makes it alot easier and is less draining.

Most of us have parents like this. The only dysfunctional states that are reparable are ones that effect survival. Most people can go their entire lives coasting on a mehh way of being. Took me a long while to really face the reality of how limited their minds are. They dont listen. When they do listen they dont care. If they do care and learn something, they forget it and default back to there original perspective on the topic. The learning pathways are blocked, a broken method. This is why they are so behind the curb. Cant teach what cant learn. The only method that works in my experience is exercise. If there is a habit of their that you should try to change, its to get them into some kind of physical activity. From there doors can open up for growth.

It can read but can it write?

@Danioover9000 Why do you want control?

Some people want to socialize, they enjoy it, they seek it out. I also question peoples motives constantly, so i know where your coming from. There could be scars from childhood, being deceived by children, can make someone overly sensitive to other people hidden intentions.

Bird man movie, drum only sound track.

I dont have a phone, problem solved

@neutralempty https://www.actualized.org/insights/water-fast-ends-carnivore-diet-begins

@neutralempty no @shahar uriel Figure out what food is causing it.

@datamonster Watch the video first. He explains its temporary and part of a strategy to fix his gut. What he wants is to eat vegan. Also have you considered his sufferings? Or the only thing that matters is the animals? He just got his life back from switch to this diet. Some people have debilitating gut issues.

@Leo Gura Side not, the blog mentioned stomach pain, in my experience this went away after switching to grounded meats. The steak is to tough or not being chowed properly. I started blending everything, that solved it.

lol just got to dig in and watch a bunch of videos. If i had to give an INFP advice it is to learn to make good financial decisions early in life, read books and learn from other peoples mistakes. It is there biggest weakness. Learn how your making purchasing decisions and how that backfires. INFP have the hardest time playing the financial game and often find themselves in wage slavery and burnt out. Good luck! They also tend to think "naaa i know what im doing, i have a good feeling about this purchase". NO, just NO, this is the wrong way to do it. https://i.insider.com/54e64da56bb3f74c75b6c78c INFP is one of the lowest earners. There is a very good reason that introspection and self discovery will reveal. Compare your thinking process to the ENTJ (Highest earner), to get an idea of how to be effective. Yes hah, i used to do this all the time, its normal. It develops naturally with time after people enter the work force, because your more motivated to. But what ive observed with my family is it still takes them a lot of energy and its draining. But dont discount nutrition, toxins or exercise... The test is not MBTI, its 2 different subjects. The only way to really type oneself is to learn the model in depth. Dont be so quick to discount something before understanding it. It takes years of practice to build up the a internal model of a subject. The key word = practice. This takes work. Reading a book on guitar is not the same as practicing and playing guitar. Reading MBTI is not the same as practicing and playing MBTI.

Potential ESFJ romance

Her level of development seems solid blue, that played a role in the mindset that got her into this relationship. There are many perspectives that can and cant do this. It looks healthy at least on the surface. He does seems to have a great personality, played a role in the attraction... so to all does men struggling... theres no excuse.

Testing is accurate enough for what it needs to do, reveal issues. Mercury, lead, every mineral ends up in the hair, because hair is a detox system of the body. Hair is a waist product lol, odd to think of it that way, but thats the bodies perspective in part. The ADD label is over simplification or i should say it doesn't see enough of the big picture. It comes from the stale psychology domain that hasn't seen a new idea in 100 years. carelessness and lack of attention to detail. continually starting new tasks before finishing old ones. poor organisational skills. inability to focus or prioritise. continually losing or misplacing things. forgetfulness. restlessness and edginess. difficulty keeping quiet, and speaking out of turns haha googled ADD symptoms and laughed because its basically describing my mother and sister, who are INFP and ENFP. Their journey in life involved overcoming these issues because society demands these skills. Its bad luck, some personalitys are not adapted to this "modern" world. If we think about it, our survival needs have changed quite abit but our biology has been lagging behind, mostly unchanged. So some types are labeled ADD, because they dont have the natural skills to meet societies standards. Its ok, this is a gift, because you will be forced to grow. People that really have ADD nearly always have underling issues with gut or toxicity that never get treated. But you could have the personality and the bodily issues. lol

INFP also tend to do this alot because they dont care about what the person is saying. Its hard to listen when you dont care or find your own thoughts more interesting. lol Wouldn't call this ADD. Its just extroverted intuition (Ne). INFP, ENFP all think they have ADD. When really their operating exactly as designed.

@intotheblack Do a hair mineral analysis test. Good starting place, will reveal heavy metals or deficiencies.