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"Misogyny (/mɪˈsɒdʒɪni/) is hatred or contempt for women or girls. It is a way of keeping women at a lower status than men. In other words, misogyny maintains and enforces sexism. Women who reject subordination are punished by misogyny." When did this happen?
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I was communicating the mindset of the men that don't act on it. That some women might not realize is even happening. They might think they are not being fantasied about in does situations with their trusted friend that didn't act. I thought this added something. The second point is not advice, its not a justification, i do not recommend it. If you have good connection and you know exactly how your partner will react then its fine. I agree its even better to communicate it before hand. Its also a perspective people might not realize exists. I speak in perspectives. There is no one here. lol
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Its interesting how this was misinterpreted. i don't have a position. I was adding to emeralds position. Look closer.
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First show them that you fully understand and empathize with their perspective, they need to feel that your on their side, then softly introduce the concept and make them empathize with your perspective. "i understand how you feel" In general your just not a likable guy during these interactions, be likable. Tone of voice is basically everything when dealing with feelers, nothing else matters. I grew up in a feeler green family. This is the way.
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I give up.
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You've never been a 14-20 year old man. How many times do you think your father or uncle or brother or best friend looked at your ass? How many men and how many times do you think your ass is looked at every day by random people/coworkers? Saying this again to expand on the female perspective. It worst then you guys realize.
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"It's selfish and rapey to feel horny and prey on an unconscious body. " @MatteO22 Nearly all men have experience this desire and restrained them selves or suppressed it or let it go or used better judgment to not act on it. I say this to help women understand the male perspective. This is likely hard wired some how and statistically means some men will act on it. I say this so to add to this topic, not to discredit it, broadening our understanding of the whole. I then added a bit of nuance mentioning a context where its acceptable.
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@MatteO22 No im not lol. Im saying she is in shock of the male perspective. Everything i said was to add to emeralds testimony by showing the male perspective in these situations. I fully sympathize with the female perspective/struggle. All men have these urges and its shocking for women to even comprehend it.
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Not talking about acting on desires and raping women in there sleep, Im saying the desire is there, thats it.
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This might be a kneejerk reaction/culture shock to the male perspective.
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I'm saying ALL men have strong urges to do these things, single, in these kinds of situations especially younger men. Most restrain themselves. Relationships are different, your already having sex, the urge is no longer there, its instead done as a fun game.
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@Etherial Cat They woke up aroused and ready for action. I had a good loving playful relationship with them. At no point did they loss any trust. I think your missing the context, its not black and white. Yep and all men have the urge. Accept both perspectives. If a good looking man is sleeping in your bed, while in a loving relationship... all pretty and relaxed, its very welcoming.
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@Emerald I've never done any of these things do to being raised well. But there was definitely a very strong urge to do them when i found my self in any of does situations. Just trying to add to what was said. Its not a blame game, there is something hard wired about this and its very hard to resist. The men at blame are the ones that didn't. Sleeping the same bed with a partner, I've admittedly stimulated them while they slept a few times. It was all in good fun because of consent. But that urge to do this is there regardless of consent. Speaking generally for all men.
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Beta women? lol Am i doing it right?
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Found this after Leo mentioned that men can have female orgasms. What did he mean exactly by that? What is the technique? "Based on existing research Arcwave knew that the Pacinian pleasure receptors found in the penis are very similar to those found in the clitoris. To be exact these receptors are found in the frenulum – the patch of skin attaching the foreskin to the head of the penis. But why aren’t these cells stimulated during regular masturbation? " -Source It looks like just avoiding stroking and instead stimulate the frenulum long enough is the trick.
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Can you elaborate more on this or point to a resource? It seems tantric related.
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Canadian/Italian. Ok good luck, im sure we will get a update in the future. Everyone's looking forward to it
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INTPs don't romance.
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@Preety_India High synergy with what your looking for. Loyalty/Committed Hard Working Emotional Connection, Intuitive Feeler Encourages partner to grow https://www.quora.com/What-would-a-romantic-relationship-between-a-female-INFP-and-a-male-ENFJ-be-like Feeler types should date other feeler types. its just works out.
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Date a ENFJ. At this point just give him a MBTI test. 1-2 months into the relationship. Do you feel that it is not genuine or "wrong" to pick a man based on a method like this?
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I would of blocked them by now, they are not providing value.
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At 11 someone stole my Pokémon cards, truly devastating. After 2 weeks of suffering, i realized my attachment to these physical things was causing suffering, i appeared crazy to myself and minimalism was unlocked. That led to questioning the meaning of all attachments and self-development was unlocked. I still think about does Pokémon cards to this day... Have you seen the price of that Charizard? lmao, the growth dividends keep coming. What a blessing.
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^^^^^^^ i left this comment 8n the other thread about shit testing, please try to understand it ^^^^^^^^^ Exactly what i said not to do is happening: by focusing on how he makes you feel that then sent you into a fantasy world. You don't even know who he is and fell madly in love. Your strongly projecting what you want to see. Please recognize this. He is not unique or incredible or the ONE, in fact you have absolutely no idea who he is. Take a step back and only evaluate the facts rationally with out your feelings or stories you've invented. I thought the strategy was to date many people at the same time to find a good match. Its very unlikely that the first guy you date is the best match.
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The clearest distinction of INFP vs INTP comes from their journals. Its unmistakable what the INFP is focusing on and what the INTP is focusing on. INTPs NEVER write about their feelings. While the INFP that's about all they write about. INTPs NEVER write about their romance fantasies, their is no dating struggle to find the perfect match, no identity struggle, will never write about how someone made them feel or make a list of all the things they like and don't like. NEVER lol
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Yes but aren't you beyond all that now?