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Love for me depends on if i switched into a perspective that allows me to view the subject lovingly. Normally the switch is made consciously not automatically to broaden my understanding of the subject, like an exploration exercise. or that i value being a loving person so i'll make the effort to look at it from the correct angle that fulfills that value. Loving vision won't happen by default, it happens by intetionally shifting into the loving vision state. I could probably train it to be the default but i don't what to evolve into an INFP.

Word games might be what your looking for?

Male and Female biology Male and Female Identity, +others Masculine and Feminine Spectrum

I agree, it would take some compromise. Its not serious this thread, sharing random incompatible experiences and ignoring the good.

@Loba I'm actually compatible with everyone, the issue is this site breeds the worst social experiences.

The confession someone makes in elementary school to there crush, right before a horrible rejection. It also means and i'm directly translating, i like you.

Next we should rate our compatibility with people on the site. Maybe not, i'll save my self the suffering.

Romantically from my experience INTJ x ESFP: First relationship and i was not able to handle her life style, constant need for dancing and attention with other men. Loyalty was always in question. But the conversations where great, healthy ESFP they love insights into things and look up to INTJ like your a genius, they ask many questions, makes you feel special. The sex was incredible, ESFP know how to be in the moment. INTJ x ISFJ: Disaster paring, completely different values, they think your jokes are genuinely stupid and have no interest in interesting things lol, nothing in common. INTJ x INFP: The most intense love romance, how hard can we childishly love each other? Fi sex. Conversations are endless in every topic. But hard to keep the INFP on track, clashing alot over INTJ Te mode destroying feelings by accident. Need to always speak nicely to INFPs. INTJ x ENFJ: ENFJ is very giving something INTJ is not used to, ENFJ judges INTJ a lot for not being good at the things they are good at, they both look down on each other in a way. Hard to form a deeper connection, ENFJ is constantly confused for INTJ lack of Fe. INTJ x INTP: Instant compatibility with no conflict, similar life experiences and can't hurt each other. INTJ x ESFJ: Mortal enemies, literally cant communicate. Left BAFFLED after every interaction.

Building While Chatting - New Forum Concept Goal Environment for conversation merged with collaboration. Set style, terms, mindset and expectations of conversation. Incentives creation, building and exploration rater then debating. Organizes different perspectives and the ideas as the conversation unfolds Productivity naturally built into the environment Integration of ones notes, knowledge graph and chat Storage and quick access to past collaborations for one endless exchange between people Optimize learning between minds Possible Implementations Collaborate on 1 Mind Map like environment integrated into a forums thread, different perspectives are organized by branching options for that idea or sub idea. Organizes the body of knowledge in one growing place instead of scattered on a forum Each thread focus energy on building something together Removes things being taken personally Removes the need to repeat yourself. Focus on the ideas not the person Explicates the persons perspective/paradigm Avoids miscommunication Allows for much large and complete knowledge exchange as these maps will be built up over time Guides are placed along the way, best practices Templates for integral spiritual metaphysical philosophical thinking. Conversate with Mind Maps back and forward, distill a thought or paragraph into a mind map Sets a mindset of building or mapping out the idea instead of sending another person a message. User profile: Allows for a overview of the person and there pre-existing beliefs, so you know who your talking to and how they think before engagement. Past work recycled: Organizes ones knowledge and integrates into there every day chat. Builds up a personal database of knowledge that is one click available to send out for communication, integrated into life Personal Learning Tool Scaffolding and templating for crafting a comment

Chat Emotional Tool - Chrome Extension Chrome extension indicating someone's mood by text analysis and recommendations with best paths. Simple Emotion Barometer Alerts to avoid continuing down current path Advanced: It calculates the best possible move in every conversation depending on goal (defusing tensions, persuasion, teaching, changing mindset, change mood, seduction), gives strong recommendations

@puporing i was wrong, sorry for pushing things, have a good day.

The test is not accurate, self assessment is more accurate, when typing you i came to INTJ from my own analysis of your writing style. It's going to be better then a test. The idea that a type can't change for this model is something that has to be taken seriously and studied. It's not intuitively obvious why a type can't change. All the growth and change that is happening is still within the same type. It's something that people growth oriented prematurely throw models away, making the assumption that they are 100% flexible. This is false and a very easy way to prove this is that you will never not think like a human. So there is structure here that we can model.

When i was younger i empathized with my parents choices life trajectory and struggle for the first time, i never saw them the same way after that. A different relationship began.

I look at it as another tool in ones box to understand one self and others. It definitely an issue if its used as a label to define oneself as, a limiter.

@puporing Are you familiar with Integral Theory by Ken Wilber?

Its likely the first time in her life someone turned her down while shes naked lmao, shes likely wondering what she did wrong or if it was her the issue.

INTJ as suspected. Green INTJ will look nothing like the description MBTI gives of the centered orange INTJ, also feminine and masculine and many other factors, this is why description of types are completely misleading.

Search Engine for Perspectives When searching a question it returns a list of all perspectives one can answer that question from. Interesting article Picture below is a primitive example, imagine having a list of many categories that reflect all aspects of the mind, every branch of philosophy. We could categorize by the perspectives great minds in history have, then categorise or tag them into other subcategories, like spiral stage or personality theory or culture or metaphysical bias. We could search for cancer treatments and get a list of every possibility and there statistical effectiveness or the sentiment analysis of the people in that category. We need data insightful search not a popularity contest skewed to our biases and culture. If i had a yellow search engine as a child my thinking process would be centered yellow very young. I would have a default intuition for multi-perspectivalism. Every interface we use is single perspective drivin and its a bottle neck. We perceive as we are conditioned to.

There is an over focus on what you want. Flip is up side down: Focus on what they want and by giving them what they want that gives you satisfaction. Dont over do it. Needs to be balanced. Also practice seeing the beauty in everything with mindful observation. - Not to sound like an ass, but when a girl bends over its all the same. The holy grail. Its extremely stimulating.

I received a message from a friend looking to vent her emotions today and i have little insight into this as I've never experienced. She wrote this: "I’m sitting down now and I’m realizing how fucking self centered I am. I want to be everyone’s favourite and always dig for compliments, I feel like I can’t do anything for myself in terms of confidence and love towards myself." How does someone move away from seeking attention and love outward and finding it within? What are the key insights here? What can be done to grow?

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@lxlichael How long have you been analyzing me? Is it just today?

@lxlichael Is it possible to address what i said and not who said it? Everyone has there strengths and weaknesses on this site. if im looking for an answer in a specific area i have a sense of who created the best internal models for it. When it comes to MBTI, ive surpassed preety, its just what it is, when it comes to many aspect of psychology that she accels in, she is beyond me. Im aware of and respect her abilities/strenghts for that topic.

@lxlichael Why use trust as part of ones sense making process? It makes no difference who is speaking? I see if your in the habit of trusting to discern what is true or not then its important. The preety one doesn't trust what anyways says anyways lol, so its a non-issue. She will stand her ground to the death.