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14 year old girls are having sex with much older men all the time here in canada. Its very common.

One look at this chart and i know its wrong, the legal age of consent in canada is 16 and it was 14 just 10 years ago before the conservative party changed the law.

14 is the legal age of consent in most countries and no one is groomed into it. It’s very common for 14-year-old girls in gen-z and younger to pursue much older men and have a normal relationship with them. If you’re surprised by this you just have no idea what’s going on in our culture right now.

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Its no where near the quality of my imagination lol

Art, movies, music, games... is going to explode with more interested then it ever has. We are HARD limited by the excruciating time and money it takes in getting our ideas from our head out into the world. We need a more direct tool. Big movies have stifled in originality because its not profitable to take risk on anything. AI will lower the time and cost of production. We will have full 2 hour fantastic movies and weekly tv shows produced by a SINGLE person. Indie game development is going to get a lot easier.

This is what is happening, you want her and because of that your unable to behave properly and make intelligence decisions. Its the most common trap, its an altered personality change that happens when you want a girl. If you had any other mind set you might have a chance. Talk to her like she is a guy friend and things will go better then this.

lol thats great, but the situation is its not inductive of the deep connection I'm actually looking for. The connection im talking about is 10000x what is bonding vai honeymoon hormones.

Yes I do everything i can to give my partner the best experience possible. But I want to explore new types of sex that is not all about orgasms.

Yea it's vanilla sex. But when you truly love a partner at least in the moment, you want to give them maximum pleasure. You not only want them to orgasm you want them to orgasm multiple times. Personally I won't be satisfied until I see my partner orgasming to the max and orgasming even more. It makes me crazy happy to see the guy orgasm multiple times. Well I stopped having orgasms a while ago, id rather prolong the intercourse as long as possible with no end, more like a meditation then a race to ecstasy.

Yes (predisposition, socio-economic environment, cultural background, available nutrition, and personal circumstances) = trauma lol Ok lets call it conditioning.

Ive only seen people criticizing does who care, but ive never actually seen "does who care" lol, do they exist?

Is arousal needed for sex? Is arousal needed for conversation? Is arousal needed for love? Is arousal needed for intimacy? Can we have sex with out the desire to maximising pleasure and orgasm? What about a different approach?

Its a marathon before you become a mirror that reflecting there deepest desires back to them. When your highly socially calibrated you don't need a penny in your bank account for them to fall for you hard.

Here is it the mother load of all double standards She wants you to be emotionally available for her but doesn't want to be emotionally available for you or else she losses attraction. ? A Primal hard wired double standard of the feminine-masculine polarity. All of attraction is a double standard. To be in the position of the opposite end of any polarity is to hold double-standards to the opposite side.

Well i don't know how to really make sense of this, maybe we need some good examples. What kind of sex is @Leo Gura having? Have you reached Transcendent sex? If so what does it look like?

Projection and Interpretation.

Agreed, now build on top of this idea and you'll reach my perspective , take even more into consideration. We can accept them all non-judgmentally. Beautiful as they are. Now from that place we can begin making distinctions between them. There is a lot of projection/misinterpretations happening here. Im not judging anything or saying one level is better then another. Never have been. I'm trying to say things tend to naturally converge to something. When under the effects of psychedelics the love is far more direct and fantasies are no longer needed for that "extra" boost.

Your right lol, it might be useful if someone filled in each circle with a short description.

I've seen similar graphs before and I have no idea what information this kind of graph is supposed to convey. Literally everything below the top X axis contributes nothing. Its one map that can be derived from the bellow meta-map.

Reasonable , the thing is when high on psychedelics or kundalini energy the experience naturally becomes motionless or flows with the river. Id say personal preferences can disappear and fall in favor of more gentle means of engagement both body, mind and soul.

Whats so threatening about a narcissist? Its just another shape a person can be. Its like pointing to a rock and saying "I HATE YOUR SHAPE YOU SHOULD BE LIKE THAT OTHER ROCK OVER THERE". Whats the difference? Its another shape its another form its made of rock its made of love. The difference is your shaped into something that doesn't like other shapes. You like rocks shaped like you and hate the others. Rockcism.

So its possible to have 5. TRANSCENDENT SEX with all these kinks and fantasies at play? I was under the impression they would naturally become less appealing. Everything is love and if someone's language of love is to be caned ? then that's beautiful the way it is. Anecdotally I'm seeing a lot of people replying with plenty of trauma pasts and plenty of kinks, while I have no trauma in childhood and no kinks. Meaning the love language that best communicates to them is colored by different life experiences.

Link Thought experiment: If we genetically modified humans to only give birth to woman and woman use Self-fertilization technology to reproduce. Would we be better off? Why do we need men? Edit: The answer is not as simple as "men built all these cool stuff and they do all the manly things woman cant do", the truth is with out men woman would of been given does opportunities and filled does roles, its not a good reason, this question goes far deeper then that.