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@sleep Can you visualise yourself having sex?

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Think about her sexually, stimulate your self, the cause of erections is the story and emotion you are playing in your head. If you think about sex you get an erection, thats all there is to it. Look at her cute face and talk dirty to your self in your mind, say something like "shes such a good girl with my cock in her mouth", "thats my girl, do a good job now". The story in your mind and the emotion needs to be aligned. +be confident. When you loss the erection its because your emotion and the story in the mind wondered off. When in the moment having sex there is no inner dialogue but your in the sexual frame of mind (looking at her ass and thrusting and enjoying her moans, wtv) that keeps the hormones for the erection. The real issue is a lack of confidence.

The issue could be that you just need to relax and slow down you might be going too fast and not breathing properly. Also notice how high your stress level are and if you’re losing feeling with the bed you’re lying down on and the sound of the room around you.

@Bobby_2021 I dont think jews are doing anything cognitive that is all that special, if we look at there culture its clearly playing a huge role. My uncle is a successful business man and he made sure his kids where business minded while they where growing up, something i did not receive from my parents. Its a HUGE advantage to have a parent who talks business opportunities to you as you grow up and encourages you to look at everything from a business opportunistic perspective. This wires the brain to be entrepreneurial. He also told his kids he will financially support any business ideas they come up with and are willing to pursue. I literally got 0 business communication from my parents and as a consequence i was just not thinking at all in that direction do to a complete lack of awareness. Instead my father took me to a steal manufacturing shop, sat me in a chair and told me to press a button for 8 hours a day to learn the value of a dollar and because "teenagers need to work". Ridiculous I was a genius, i was a chess master at 12 and he sits me down and makes me press a button. He could of sat me down and told me to solve literally any problem and i would of figured it out, i was a mule and my master was a fool.

If they actualy did that it would be pretty clever but i think the reason they are so successful is because people destroy there own cause. No need for manipulative tactics when the competition self destructs.

Use a stimulant of some kind it really helps for introverts.

Its not really that people actually think independently, There are a sea of ideas circulating in our culture and people gravitate to the ones the best fit there values at a given time. Its like picking your favorite flavor of ice cream. There are literally no novel thoughts just values picking reasons. Discoveries take a small step outside the bubble. The ecosystem of living idea holons. Is it people who have ideas or is it ideas who have people?

They grew up watching TikTok not Disney movies. How tailoring media to maximize views indoctrinates the next generation.

I went on a date with a girl who told me she was looking for a platonic spiritual relationship and I also didnt want sex and wanted friendship with deep intimacy forms of love making/connection. All of this was communicated to her at some point during our long intimate conversations and obviously it lead to sex lol.

Board game hang out places. There is this local place that host board games for people to play on Friday nights, its a casual place to meet people and have fun. Out door movie drive ins, where your in your car, or parking the car in a nice area with good scenery and just talking, this some how happens often on dates and we talk for hours. Obviously if you have a place of your own, cook for her and watch movies, but if its a first date this is usually not going to happen

Learn to carefully observe her and the right thing to do next will come intuitively.

Side note you could try changing your diet and seeing if that stops it.

Start shaving daily. Also welcome to the club my man.

Im looking for a way to make heavy foods easier to digest. Cooking of course does this to an extent but the energy it takes to digest these foods is still very high. Is there maybe a technique or dissolving agent that can break things down before consuming? Maybe a product can be made from this.

I understand how you feel, I was like that my whole life and still struggle with it and have autism, but the rules still remain true. You don’t wanna date anyone like you, you wanna date someone fully developed! And you’re not gonna find them without seriously challenging yourself to go outside your comfort zone. We get the work we put into it and nothing more. I worked very hard to develop social skills and to go out and talk to people and to go on physical dates where I had to perform and put myself out there despite being seriously nervous and unable to function.

@Tyler Robinson The only guys who enter purely long distance relationships only online are low quality men that can’t get women, the majority are incel types with deep insecurities. Needy men with no options seek these kind of relationships.

In the future we will no longer need to eat.

@Tyler Robinson Red flags and mistakes to never repeat again. Hes interested in a long distance relationship. (avoid all online only long distance dating, only date local) He tells you he loves you before any physical contact (exceptions for highly developed people where the meaning of love is coming from understanding and not a needy emotion) avoid needy emotional attachment forms of "i love you", literally if you have not had physical contact with this person and hes attached to you in any way and its long distance get far away from him. There is to much passion (hot sex and attraction) and early dependency (cant be separated) and not enough intimacy/friendship (shared values, interests, world views, lines of development...). Friendship is KING. These rules should be followed like absolute truths.

So what kind of relationships do you guys tend to fall into?

Its a mindset issue, the mindset of what you want a relationship to be. Think of a relationship exactly like a good friendship and not a soul bond, complete me, make me whole halleluiah pursuit that is prone to overly high dependency. The good stuff is in the friendship and the intimacy that comes with it. 2. Friendship develops when two people share intimacy through an intellectual, interest-based, or spiritual resonance in kind and degree through their lower left quadrants. The quality and depth of their friendship are determined by the alignment of their respective interior lines(cognitive, communicative, worldviews, values, moral, spiritual, etc.), as well as shared interests and hobbies. Friendship is often the pre-requisite for a woman to enter into a sexual relationship, while men tend to be more driven by their physical/sexual attraction in the right-hand quadrants that may (or may not) lead to friendship after sex. Vulnerability, truthfulness and honesty are vital factors for the development of mature friendships through intimacy, since integrity is the main ingredient for building trust. Check this out.

What are you curious about? if you have curiosity then doesn’t that mean you have questions?

@Carl-Richard Bars, Clubs... forget it, We need playgrounds and jungle gyms for adults. Billion dollar idea.

lmao I agree not all mods are made equal