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She did not have a sex change, this is someone who does not identify as male or female in the traditional sense, but is still high on feminine polarity not masculine. if they had a sex change and pulled out a dick right before having sex then yes i would say that's a rug pull and unethical, but to say your non-binary is more of a philosophical note about how she views herself. Transgender is a major identity crises where they really don't like the body they are in and want or wish they where the opposite sex. The gf is, feminine, does everything in a feminine way but does not identify as being strictly female. So it cant possible have any impact on the relationship. Basically he never thought of this before and his preconceptions (GUT) is a state of fear and judgement of the unknown and a form of phobia towards it. Sex: Man/Woman Biology (DNA) Gender: Male/Female Identity (Non-Binary...) Energy: Masculine/Feminine Polarity (Spectrum) The GF is a Non-binary Woman with a Feminine mental state. That's the majority of progressive women nowadays and when you reach any higher level of development you deconstruct gender naturally. It has nothing to do with transgender. If they are more masculine in energy then they tend to want to dress and behave more masculine but when they are more feminine they look and behave exactly like every other GF. Gender identity is not that important when it comes to relationship. What's more important is there Sex, Energy and if there stable in there Masculine/Feminine Polarity. If they suddenly switch to Masculine midway during the relationships it would be a problem. If you really contemplate on your gender identity long enough you'll eventually have no idea what you identify as. But how you relate to people, behave, think or value youll asses as more masculine or feminine.

What are you smoking, it will have 0 effect on your relationship. The fact that you would end a relationship based on this is equivalent to being homophobic.

When she tells you she broke up with her boyfriend she wants people to understand her struggle and empathise, she might also have alternative motives to seduce you as a replacement if your not a friend-zone type of male.

I get exactly the opposite feeling, it puts doubt in my mind when anyone agrees with me. I must be completely wrong then because my perspective aligns with some other fool like me. People underestimate how deeply lost in non-sense everyone is. It could also be arrogance, i asses that i have better insight into the subject so if someone agree with me i know i must of missed something.

"The physical jobs will be the last to go" That's really not a good sign short term.

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It takes time, that's it, it will all come back around and you'll relax. There is no need to force things to change or happen. Focus on life, career, girls, have fun with it. its a game. Go PLAY.

I'm still at that assumption stage where I'm 100% sure I cant figure this out.

Ye but it seems to me your taking this thing pretty seriously? lol

If you have access to GTP-4, ask it to solve Collatz Conjecture or any unsolved math problem.

Apps where the marketing and attracted audience is higher on the values spectrum. So OkCupid and Bumble are going to be higher tier list then Tinder. The audience for tinder is hook up culture where people don't read profiles they just swipe based on looks. On any app, always filter matches based on religions preferences, only date does that say "spiritual". You can even go on facebook dating app and use this trick, it greatly reduces the noise.

Its about changing the situation to be positive. Make jokes, smile + laugh things off. Guide her to a new frame during the conversation.

This can seem harsh but the best option is to find another partner and try again. The only thing that helps here is time will heal and to block/remove her on all social media, delete all possible ways you can contact her or view her life progressing. Its vital to start meeting new girls.

Im 34, are we the same age, is this a match made heaven?

Yes and why i find it hard to believe that you never had a relationship go bad because of this. If I where to guess (this includes my own experiences) some of your relationships where slowly chipped away and eventually ended because of this problem. ? Just Guessing. ?

*guessing* Stop using tinder, i use high consciousness apps only and never had a problem, all my relationships lasted years. If your on tinder you'll get a tinder girl. Tinder girls are higher on the ONS spectrum disorder. Avoid.

lol I just realized we are similar. ?

Addicted to me.

This is slack lining but at the local park i found a long hand railing and been walking across an hour a day and i noticed that I'm now constantly in a state of trying to balance my body. I like active ways to practice meditation, I feel its significantly more effective at inducing changes in perception that last because of the high engagement. Training Thinking/Subvocalizing will cause you to fall so you need to remain silent, this is HUGE! The moment you start thinking you loss balance and fall. This is an amazing feed back system. Relaxing is vital or else you'll fall, so basically you relax or you die, it cant get better then this! Maintaining a wide field a vision and perspective movement or else you'll fall. Maybe it can be done blindfold but you need to have incredibly high proprioception to not rely on visual cues to rebalance. Concentration of relaxing some body parts and the balance points between the center of the body and limbs with the tension of other muscles, a full body concentration exercise! Innovations Home slack lines linking all the rooms together, no need to use a floor. Balance beam standing desks Balance beam chair, keyboard and mouse to induce a continues sense of balancing proprioception.

"It is terrible to rob be in this way of my most treasured feelings" "How can I live if my enemies who are many believe I no longer poses the one sense that should be perfect to a higher degree in me then in others"

Well done! Next step, naked on stage

I think its about not letting peoples bullshit waist your time. To view your time as your most important asset.

I have a history of 10 years of severe sleep deprivation, that was resolved a few years ago. So maybe my perspective has some value here. Its highly stimulatory, ive only recently started LSD and it always gives me a bad night of sleep, reduces my recovery rate and gives me a headache the next day. 3/4 trips now it has happened. Im still figuring it out doe, im sure i can get a smoother experience with practice. But the main observation is that it reduces sleep quality that 1 day, so if your prone to sleeping issues, 1 bad night of sleep can trigger a stressed state that can induce consecutive bad nights in a row. So basically hes relapsing. The danger here is he gets stuck. With my brain chemistry that happened and it lasted 10 years. Its important he knows the risks. Its related to how neurotic you are. The more neurotic someone is with supressed trauma/insecurities the higher chance psychedelics will impact there sleep. The only thing that really helps when your really in the grip of it is to eat a huge meal. That's about the best advice that i can give. It changes all the hormones and sedates. It can induce some sleep that will restore sleep confidence that frees him from the grip of it.

I agree, i believe this forum should incorporate productivity focused features. Shift it to a platform with various features making it much more then a forum.