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Yes but why did they take it to the extreme?

Alright so they have a feeling that arises making them scared. They know there is no reason for the fear but they are scared anyways. So its maybe not a framing problem.

I disagree now that you disagree. It is very difficult to understand why someone would have a fear of being poisoned. It think its worth discussing.

If does patients where left alone with not treatment what would happen? There is no need for financial incentive, your already prescribing them once a day based on your belief system. The business component effects culture that effects the paradigm doctors view health. Take them while your healthy. How can they possibly not be over prescribed, its very clear that your not intimate with any of these patients over the long term and likely see them occasionally, you asses there state as "still alive" and go on with your life. How could they be given a chance to do that when the moment they come into contact with you they are put on drugs. Yes, your not following up on any of them, you dont understand the effects any of these drugs had on the quality of there life or mental state. If they die or have complications you don't believe it has anything to do with your practice, in fact you believe you helped them live longer. There is no indication that putting them on statins changed anything. They lived there entire lives with out statins up to the point they met you, now they suddenly need intervention? Why would that intervention be better then nothing at all? My father was put on statins and blood pressure medication at 15, his brother rejected the doctor advice, they both had very high blood pleasure. At 40 my father had a stroke, his brother didnt. At 60 my father is on 30 different medications, his brother is on 1 anti-rejection. They both have polycystic kidney disease and had there kidneys removed and donor transplant. From this experiment I came to the conclusion that statins or blood pressure medications cause hardening of the arteries (father) for long term use. I also came to the conclusion that doing nothing can be better or wiser then intervention. How do you know statins don't raise cortisol? Contributing to mood issues (anger)? Are a stressor and agitant on the system. The statin needs to be tested on healthy people and metric not related to cholesterol need to be tracked.

I agree, so why are they scared of ghosts? They need to work on the trauma not the Schizophrenia?

@undeather We agree that statins are over prescribed. The position your making is that your use of them is correct and your distancing your self from the mainstream. That's reasonable, I'm not doubting your approach is a good one. but your approach is 0.1% or less of practitioners. The environment is a business that over prescribed every drug and statins not existing would improve the quality of life of the majority. Weather statins are of any actually value or not is a different discussion. Take them yourself and ill respect what you have to say. Thousands? What do you think your accuracy rate is on that? The thing is you don't even think it matters if they need it or not because you think there are no side effects, its harmless. The foolishness of the entire industry is revealed right there. How do you know you helped any of does people with statins? How exactly do you know?

I'm not seeing why, lets pick a random invention whos introduction into our society did more harm then good. Some people genuinely benefit form that invention but at the same time it hurt the majority. We can say that Its better if it was never introduced to begin with. What we are disagreeing on is how bad the health care industry is screwing up. From your perspective these drugs are more beneficial then harmful. I think if we remove the majority of these drugs from the system overall health will improve. 1 out of 10 prescription of statins distributed everyday was the right decision. The entire situation is barbarique. While your world view is that 7/10 times it was the correct choice or something along does lines.

@undeather There's another dimension, yes if your old and its absolutely nessisariy statins have purpose but because of the availability of statins they are 99.9% of the time used when not nessisariy. Making statins a drug that is better off not existing and we can extend this to the majority of drugs that exist, the benefits of there existence is outweigh by there drawbacks. We are better off if guns where never invented and nukes, just like we would be better off if the majority of drugs where never invented. More options is not always better. From the big picture perspective anti-biotics and pain killers are the very few drugs whos benefits outweigh drawbacks. Its crewl but the majority of people that genuinely need these other drugs should just not have access to them, just like the people who genuinely need a gun should not have access to them because the whole outweighs that one circumstance.

I don't think he ment it like that.

Lmaoo, its possible yes, could be undereating and high cortisol. it doesn't fully explain why 1 egg is enough to get the erection back and stamina even If im still undereating.

They take some pride in living outside the norm.

Weed Edible?

I loss my erections on veganism's and determined the cause was a issue with fat absorption so I need to eat foods high in cholesterol like eggs to get it up.

I cant even fart on LSD. There is a need but it doesn't come out.

She does not have a secure attachment style, this means she is constantly asking the question "Does he love me?" or "Can I Trust him?". Then you come along and temporarily put her mind at easy and reassure her. She detaches again and asks the question "Does he love me?", stuck in a state always unsure of the relationship, a wall that is erected preventing deeper connection. This contributes to lies or telling half truths avoiding deeper intimacy. The reason for this is she is bringing the relationships she had with her parents growing up into all her friendships and intimate relationships in adulthood. When she put trust and seeked love from her parents they betrayed her, she could not rely on them and so feels she cannot rely on anyone. That same wall is between you guys now. For someone with a secure attachment style we don't even think about it, there is no evidence that would suggest the partner lacks integrity, is unreliable or cant be trusted, but for her no matter how many times you prove to her you love her and that she can trust you its not enough, she defaults to separation, how she feels about you is always in question. There can be fear of abandonment leading to a need to remain detached from a partner to protect one self, a preventative measure. On the subject of integrity, her parents likely lacked it and that means she lacks it. Becarful of that because it leads to some very hurtful acts and double standards. HAHA a hopeless optimist , Great talk glad it was useful!

Like I said earlier the kind of guy she will end up dating is one that does not challenge her. That means a guy that does not talk about psychology or who wants to go meta all the time, go deeper all the time into everything. She's not ready for meta talks yet, it challenges her beliefs and so are personal attacks. This is the main reason she experiences you as always negative. Of course your not the negative one she just cant relax and see how going meta is fun in that moment because everything is a threat! Another issue is your addicted and hooked on going meta, finding deeper insights into everything so its a really bad fit and a major incompatibility in the relationship. A better fit is going to be a simple guy that makes her laugh and talks about mundane things and whos lost in Maya like her. She needs to be in maya for a while until she is ready to peak her head out on her own time when curiosity hits and is emotionally comfortable and ready for it. While on the other hand your a Whac-A-Mole sniper that slams her head in with a hammer when she peaks her head out or even worse you jam your hand in the hole and rip her out of the illusion when she's sleeping, its stressful being woken up. When you date someone at your level it just all clicks, you have a insight, you say it and they get a dopamine hit from it, they bounce off your ideas with there own, they view you as a super star, its synergy that creates love. As a rule make sure she is feeling comfortable and relaxed before introducing meta topics, the mood has to be right and use language that will not be interpreted as a threat, the rest of the time and most of the time keep is mundane and fun, she's not ready and needs to peak her head out at her own pace. ??? The reason I'm appearing like an all knowing oracle right now (who im not) is because we are actually very similar and your in a very similar situation to the one I was in with a past gf, who after the break up left me completely puzzled and seeking deeper answers. Now I'm giving you does answers. Hot cold hot cold. It was good for you but not for her. Your so healthy you turn everything into a positive ending, she doesn't and has selective negative memory. When she remembers things she remembers negative things more predominantly then positive things. While you remember things fairly, balanced or positively. That's a result of a loving childhood, a gift. She didnt receive that gift. Also your in a healthier state of mind and extract the positive from every negative experience. Another note is even if you help her, even if she makes huge progress with you because of her terrible memory she wont credit it back to you, she wont remember how she changes, who she was before and after she changed. The memory she is experiencing is like a fleeting dream, forgotten and inaccurate. She remembers how she feels about that memory right now in the present moment. The details of the memory are distorted to fit how she feels right now. Its a radical thing and she will only remember the negative memories. I think your doing the best that you can and if your learning and constantly improving then the relationship has served its purpose, relationships are rapid growth facilities bringing us into closer alignment with love, purging us of all of our luggage. Its natural to want the relationships to work out and to do what ever you can to make it work. Do what you can, maybe find her therapy that can target childhood trauma. The type of questions your asking it seems like she is destined to self destruct and its not your fault. There is a incompatibility and its not your fault. Its a trap to over adapt to her every need, it will leave you feeling suppressed long term and like your always walking on egg shells around her. At some point your going to show resistance and it will fall apart by your own hands. It was unavoidable despite your best efforts. Does she know or acknowledge her trauma? Her hyper sensitivity? If she is blaming your for being negative there is likely a gap in her self-awareness. She has to some how become aware of this but its a level 10 threat, so pick peak premium opportunities to crack that nut. She's not into psychedelics but that would put her in a peak state of love and acceptance where resistance/blockages melts away and allows for complete comfort and a openness she has never experienced before, a break through opportunity. It can be worth more then 10 years of therapy.

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Do people actually succeed doing that? It seems things find a way to heal indirectly?

Well ok lmao, there's got to be a genetic component to that or a fake news component.

I wouldn't know exactly, attraction is a very primitive process and we tend to want complex answers to explain it. Leo covers this topic in the "how to get laid" videos.

Are you familiar with the practice of Non-Violent communication? She seems to be very sensitive to the words "you" and "I" and experiences it as a personal attack and competition, the ember is defensiveness. It can be tricky but a possible way she can rewire this pattern is to have positive experiences when ideas are exchanged instead of negative ones, in this case you would have to play the right melody when introducing topics. Its possible repetition of good experiences over time will rewire the habit she has but in my experience I could not get it to work so its definitely tricky. Another thing I've seen improve these kind of things from personal experience is couples psychedelic experiences that creates deep bounding and psychedelic sex. She will become more comfortable and open with you, her guard will come down, your no longer a threat. She also experience things that challenges her beliefs as personal attacks, her beliefs are a reflection of her, when she introduces an idea she believes she is putting her ego on the line, so challenging them is challenging her. A masculine mind doesn't do this as much, but in the end communication, beliefs and "logical thinking" is people justifying how they feel with ideas. Logic, ideas and reasons are to justify emotions. Its counterintuitive for the masculine mind that emotions is what your communicating to a the feminine mind not ideas. How she feels is more important then what is true, the truth is how she feels in that moment. Even if she acknowledges the truth and agrees with you if she did not feel good about the conversation she will forget the truth in time and default to her previously held beliefs. When it comes to survival in her position when she decides she has to "not like you anymore" the negative emotions craft a image of you that does not represents the truth of who you are or any of the good you did for her. Actually all the good you did for her will make her feel self reassuring when she thinks about it because she will frame it as "he was always negative all the time", depending if she is in self-denial she will literally frame it as you where always negative and the cause of drama. Its one possible way women go about break ups. There is often childhood trauma involved with this kind of behavior in adulthood, have you asked her about her past? It can be related to growing up with parents that blame and accuse a lot and her needing to constantly deflect false accusations they put on her.

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