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I agree, if the intimacy where there then it would not be a problem. Another component is her sex drive is very high and his is low, she wants sex more then 3-4 times a week and he never wants sex. Another issue in compatibility.

That's true pride can manifest as unhealthy orange, but at some level if you want to keep a girl you got to develop skills and you need some self-competitiveness to learn and grow. If it goes into unhealthy territory that's a problem. I think your right that he is green, he often does LSD alone and likes to chill in peace, The issue then is not meeting his partner and there needs, hes in lala land and he will learn this mistake the hard way. The heart breaking part is i recommended that they try doing LSD together last month and they had a wonderful experience, he then opened up and confessed his deep love for her... they bounded and unfortunately right after the trip he went back to his old self and she was left feeling unloved, and as you stated there love language is not compatible. So she cheated a few weeks after that experience, brutal as he has literally no idea what's about to come to him. No need to outperform other men, just listen and understand your partners needs and do your best to meet them with a open mind and flexibility. There are endless things that can be explored with a partner that 99.9% of people never do because they are stuck in the norm or misconceptions about intimacy.

I'm baffled how clueless some guys can be. Claim your woman. Where is your pride as a man to satisfy her??? Have some pride! Im guessing this is un-spiritual in some way, but at some level i feel like a guy should take some joy in his ability to satisfy his partner and be maybe competitive about it. Don't you want to out perform other men?

@ValiantSalvatore Im not sure this advice applies, she easily has orgasms with her husband he is a independent guy that wants to spend time alone and do his own thing, so as a result he gives her no affection or quality time and doesn't really want sex, she has to schedule sex with him and push him to have it or else he will never do it. He enjoys being alone and doing his own thing, while she craves intimacy and love. She cant tell him properly, your right if he understood how bad the situation was he would take more action and wake up. He really doesn't get the issue and what it will cost him. I'm not in a position to talk to him directly. I spoke to her and told her everything she should do but its just didnt work in practice, the guy doesn't get the message and does not show love with physical touch or affection, he just ignores her basically. Some times shes trying to seduce him, he gets turned on then seconds later hes off playing guitar and spending time alone with him self. Its ridiculous, and she is left there hanging and frustrated that he showed her no interest and didn't want her.

lmao no but ill watch it. This is a real life situation where a friend of my gf confided in her about her unsatisfying sex life. After years of frustration, the past few months she finally went for it and got in bed with some hot random hook up guy from Ashley Madison. Older women over 50 hooking up with a guy in his 20s, while the husband is working full time to pay the bills and supports her.

LSD puts the brain in peak performance at everything. If the dosage is to high then It will probably interfere with socializing at the peak, other then that your unstoppable. I've been playing chess competitive since childhood on and off and taking LSD in my 30s drastically boosted my performance. The brain just works better.

@StarStruck Its possible to superficially get them if you take psychedelics during the hooking phase. As a super human enhancement.

Its likely you know the truth just by interacting with them but have a habit of looking the other way, dismissing red flags and looking at people with rose colored glasses. Its also takes an enormous amount of energy to truly understand people in this sea of diversity. So there will always be people who will bypass a filter. The best filter = indefinite skepticism. Its not about "I figured them out, I trust them now" no! That's literally insane. Forget the need to trust, that's naïve-codependence, learn to be independent and predict peoples behavior based on observations.

Its not about finding people you can trust, you simply stop trusting people and form realistic expectations of others. The need to trust is a paradigm/game that doesn't not need to be played, there is no need to trust or not trust someone, that is a unhealthy attachment you created. Instead you identify there qualities and understand them, that leads to then predicting there behavior. Saying that filtering out childish people is pretty easy you just talk to them for 5 minutes and understand how they think. How to do this is by being skeptical of the person they are presenting for that's always a mask. If you remain skeptical and don't naïvely trust everything they say you wont get screwed over again. This skepticism lasts indefinitely, it does not go away once you understand them, because your understanding is always partial and incomplete, many unforeseen factors are always at play, you don't know what people will do under stress. But if you get a good sense for there values you can predict behavior and so predict (not trust) they will do the right thing. That good feeling you get about someone is a lie. Its what blinds you from being skeptical and realistic. I see it alot with people who had parents with low integrity that makes them struggle to identify people with high integrity. They get tricked easily. I think it has to do with them not receiving enough foundational love from there parents that then makes them eager to receive love from anyone they meet making them quick at trusting them, they also tend to create fantasy story about them in there mind of how great that person is and get all exited about this new person when there is absolutely no evidence to support that fantasy or they where tricked by first impressions.

It would be meeting mature stable people to date who have a similar world view to me and can laugh at them selves.

@Princess Arabia There are different kinds of women, I think your reflecting on how you would feel in that situation. These women are part of the hook up culture and enjoy going home with the the right hot guy. There playing a different game. Going to a party as a woman and making out with a hot guy you just met is not "being carful". There's a confusion all women have, that they want to go home with the hot player as long as they have a good time, but then have inner conflict and judge themselves for doing so, so then they "protect" each other to not make that mistake again. They also want to be sure hes "not a player" but really if you want to be sure of that you dont make out with a guy at a party you just met. Foolish games they are playing.

She possibly got pissed off because she wanted to fuck you, you then choose her friend and made out with her where she could see. She then made up a bunch of negative shit about you to her friend so now they both wont talk to you. She could also of interpreted calling her hot as "hes a player" You had to make her friend feel good and like you, that your not just a player. The thing is you are a player, you mostly want sex and are a very independent person that doesn't bound or commit easily or at all with others. So try not to demonize others for being right lol. ?

Personally id never live in the US but this issue isn't even in the top 10.

Possibly, image this try positioning you body off the edge of the bed with the upper body on the bed and legs off, tell the gf to sit on your hips and do 3 sets of 10 heavy hip trusts. The testosterone gains alone from that... its also a good body weight exersize, try gf hanging off body squats.

Ill add one, wait for a day when you wake up feeling good and when it feels right to have the trip.

Eating in the middle of the trip, causing stomach pain as my digestion shuts down during the trip period.

Hip trusts for incredible blood flow.

They are slowly moving games towards being more Openly Creative, im sure once AI gets involved in automatically generating games in real time as you play them we will see a bunch of new genres, like a game that can reward creativity equally to strategic play in balance. The zelda games are great I just wish they made it more challenging and rewarded creativity more.

Half of the problem is not going to be the woman its going to be you. With out a good deal of experience dating and learning from relationships youll end up self destructing a good relationships with a dream girl. The need to fall in love is something you grow out of, not by thinking about it "this is cheesy" but by becoming more conscious of what love is.

For the average person no matter what your situation is your better off never having access to credit with interest. What ever the situation you are in your better off taking the path that does not involve any dept. That means never having access to a credit cards and every opportunity that pops up in your life that requires a loan your better off not taking it because there's a equally good opportunity that does not require a loan that you will find if only you did not have the option of a loan clouding your field of vision. Its a trap. For the wise they can use these loans to get ahead but for 99.9% of people they will use it dig themselves into a hole when they could of avoided the entire situation if only they where forced to find other options. The main trap of credit is it limits your field of vision preventing you from finding alternate paths.

I always choose the hardest difficulty when starting a new game, I enjoy the challenge. --- On a personal story ive had a very loving family and fantastic start in life both genetics and nurturing life experiences but still managed to spiral down into decades of hell.

Where you depressed? It might be one of the reasons depression will make it easy to "give up" and just sleep. While if hes not depressed and his mind is brimming with new ideas at night its hard to shut down.

I like this approach the only criticism ill say about it from doing it for years is psychologically your in a OCD organisation state. So your going to obses over every detail and make sure your routine is perfect everyday, watching the clock that your eating at the perfect times, getting enough sun (timing sun exposure), drinking 2 litters a day... all very carefully, at exactly 6:30 you'll dim the lights and at 8:30 youll close the lights and go to bed like a robot even when your not tired, take your melatonin and every night pray you'll sleep as you lie down in fear of the next 10 Torturous hours of your life. The next day even if you sleep or not you'll wake at the same time and do it again. You'll have 24/7 anxiety that you made a mistake in the routine. Why this is an issue is it gets in the way of letting go and not caring so much about sleep and just living life. So if we give someone living in a mental prison a sleep hygiene routine or any rigid routine to follow it makes the situation worse. Its also very natural to recommend changes to sleep hygiene but with OCD anxiety minds its unclear that is going to help.

@puporing That's a good point, seems inline with loans importance in the business world. On the point of saving money, when declaring bankruptcy i thought they would come after all your personal assists to pay off the dept?

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